06/09/2026
Tune into the latest episode of The Messy Midlife Podcast for the conversation we all wish we had decades ago...
Our own Cindy Furey joins hosts Jenn, Karen, and Aliza to discuss all things pelvic health. 💜
In this episode we cover: 👇
🔹 What the pelvic floor (bowl) actually is and why it does so much more than you think.
🔹 The important role the pelvic bowl health plays in organ function, abdominal health, and joint stability, especially in hip and lower back comfort.
🔹 Why normal urinary frequency is every two to five hours (yes, really).
🔹 Tips on how to train your bladder to reach maximum capacity for optimal bladder health and uninterrupted sleep.
🔹 How prompting little girls and boys to p*e "just in case" may be accidentally teaching them to stop trusting their own bodies, and what that costs them in body awareness and agency as they grow up.
🔹 The effects of carbonation and caffeine on bladder health and urinary frequency.
🔹 The connection between your nervous system, fight or flight and your bladder.
🔹 The link between TMJ clenching and pelvic floor tension.
🔹 How chronic tension and the freeze stress response can shut down glandular function, leading to dryness, pain with insertion, and why it is not just a hormone problem.
🔹 The 12 second rule: how long you should actually be p*eing and what it means if you are done in five.
🔹 Why hovering over the toilet is working against you.
🔹 How de-estrogenization during perimenopause impacts pelvic organ function and floor health.
🔹 Why letting go is sometimes how you gain control.
🔹 The case for vaginal estradiol and personalized pelvic PT.
The bottom line 👉 your pelvic floor is not broken. It just needs some attention, some education, and maybe a squatty potty.
🎙️ Full episode out TODAY. Tune into the kick off episode of this four-part series with Cindy on all things Midlife Pelvic Health.
▶️ YouTube:
https://youtu.be/_F6BihXYSe4
🍎 Apple:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/messy-midlife/id1852048250?i=1000771854246
🟢 Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1wFFzwPlFE2tb2k22jZe7p?si=IyXlUKFvQB6IQOYUZ0hKZQ