08/12/2026
Sometimes healing changes who you’re attracted to.
The people who once felt exciting, familiar, or hard to let go of might start to feel less appealing 😏
You may notice you have less tolerance for inconsistency, emotional unavailability, criticism, or relationships that leave you questioning your worth.
Not because you’ve become “too picky,” but because as you heal, you start to notice how these dynamics that once felt familiar are actually harmful to you and emotionally unsafe.
Trauma therapy can help you understand the patterns underneath your relationships, tend to the parts of you that learned to seek connection with unsafe or unreliable people, and build a different relationship with yourself and others.
If you’re in California and looking for trauma therapy, our therapists use approaches including EMDR, parts work, and attachment-focused therapy to help you heal the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships.
Ready to get started? Reach out through the link in our bio to learn more or schedule a free 15 min consultation ☀️🌊❤️
