Helen Stearns, DNP

Helen Stearns, DNP Personalized (Peri)Menopause & Midlife Healthcare for Women. Here to empower YOU! Get your FREE Perimenopause Symptom Guide and Tracker! Link in bio!

Providing compassionate, evidence-based care to help you thrive, not just survive.

09/18/2026

Menopause after breast cancer is, for many survivors, the hardest part.

Unrelieved symptoms and suffering. Providers who refuse to have a nuanced, personalized conversation.

Severe hot flashes.
Zero libido.
Vaginal dryness and vulvar pain.
Decreased bone density.
Increased risk of cardiovascular disease.
Sleeplessness.
Anxiety, depression.
Weight gain.

No woman should be treated for cancer without a discussion about what treatment will do to her hormones and what options there are on the table for her. And there are many.

Some of the best resources out there:




Estrogen Matters by Avrum Bluming and Carol Tavris
Menopausal Hormone Therapy for breast cancer patients: what is the current evidence? By Sarah Glynne, et al

Reach out to me for referrals for providers in YOUR state. We are out there!

💜♀️💜

Beating cancer is an incredible milestone, but we all NEED to be talking  about what comes next!! On Menopause and Cance...
09/18/2026

Beating cancer is an incredible milestone, but we all NEED to be talking about what comes next!!

On Menopause and Cancer Day, I want to address one of the most frustrating, heartbreaking things I hear from survivors: "They told me I just have to live with the hot flashes, the pain, and the lost libido because I can't take hormones."

As a menopause specialist, I want you to know that your quality of life after cancer matters, and your care should be deeply nuanced, not a blanket "no."

Here is what the evidence actually says:

✨ Vaginal Hormones: Low-dose vaginal estrogen (and vaginal DHEA) stays local. The Menopause Society and ACOG support its use for severe Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM) in survivors when non-hormonal moisturizers aren’t enough .

✨ Testosterone: We are seeing incredible, emerging data showing that short-term, low-dose transdermal testosterone can profoundly improve sexual function, even for patients on Aromatase Inhibitors (because the medication blocks it from converting to estrogen) .

✨ Systemic HRT: While contraindicated for ER-positive breast cancer, survivors of ER-negative breast cancer or specific gynecologic cancers may still be candidates for systemic hormone therapy after careful evaluation with their oncology team .

✨ Non-Hormonal Breakthroughs: If hormones aren’t right for you, we have highly effective non-hormonal options—from targeted medications for hot flashes to advanced vaginal moisturizers—that didn't exist a decade ago .

You do not have to navigate this alone, and you do not have to accept suffering as the "price" of survivorship.

đź’śAt my practice, we specialize in complex menopause management, including comprehensive, collaborative care for breast cancer and gynecologic cancer survivors.

If you’re ready to explore your options safely, use the link in my bio to learn more about our practice or to schedule a consultation. Let’s get your quality of life back. 💜

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09/17/2026

If you are planning your week around how close you are to a bathroom, changing a super tampon every 60 minutes, or waking up to ruined sheets, please hear me: heavy bleeding is common, but it is never something you just have to live with and should not be considered "normal."

First, your non negotiable lab check:

Ask your provider for a serum ferritin test, not just a standard CBC . A normal hemoglobin only shows that you are not in full blown anemia yet. It tells us nothing about your storage tank. If your ferritin is sitting below 30 to 50 ng/mL, your iron reserves are depleted . That is why you feel exhausted, dizzy on stairs, foggy, or notice hair shedding .

Second, your treatment toolkit. You have so many real options between "doing nothing" and major surgery:

🩸 Scheduled NSAIDs: Starting high dose ibuprofen or naproxen right as bleeding begins can lower prostaglandin levels and reduce flow by up to 30 percent or more.
🩸 Tranexamic acid: A non hormonal prescription pill taken only on your heaviest flow days that can cut blood loss by roughly 40 to 50 percent .
🩸 Micronized progesterone: Oral, body identical progesterone taken cyclically to stabilize erratic perimenopausal cycles and thin the uterine lining .
🩸 Synthetic progestogens: Oral options or injections that deliver stronger, continuous suppression of the endometrium . 🩸 Levonorgestrel IUD: Placed in the uterus to deliver localized progestin right where you need it, often cutting bleeding volume by over 80 to 90 percent .
🩸 Endometrial ablation: A quick procedure to treat the uterine lining if you are completely finished with childbearing .
🩸 Surgery: Structural options like uterine artery embolization, myomectomy, or hysterectomy when fibroids, adenomyosis, or severe bleeding require definitive care .

You deserve to have your iron stores protected, your bleeding controlled, and your energy back.

Save this post so you have this checklist ready for your next appointment, and tell me in the comments:
Have you had your ferritin checked recently? What was your number?

Real women. Real results. Not magic. Not overnight fixes. Listening.Connecting the dots. Treating the WHOLE person.  Sta...
09/17/2026

Real women. Real results.

Not magic. Not overnight fixes.

Listening.
Connecting the dots.
Treating the WHOLE person.
Stabilizing hormones.
Improving lifestyle.
Correcting deficiencies.
Optimizing nutrition.

PROTECTING YOUR FUTURE....
so you can LIVE the life you want.

So very proud of my women. And so very proud of what we are building.

You can be a part of it. This can be YOUR journey too.
My doors are open.

♀️💜♀️

09/16/2026

🥸🧔🏻‍♀️ this is me without hair removal ... 🫣

Perimenopause facial hair growth is real, and let's just open the conversation up about it!! Just like periods or other hormonal issues, it's nothing to be ashamed of!

Our bodies are just doing their thing, and I think it's so lovely
To just normalize something that so many of us struggle with!

It's very freeing to sit down with another woman and talk about facial hair growth - something that I would have been MORTIFIED to do when I was younger. (Silly me)

Anyways, I've got a wonderful electrolysis gal if any San Diego peeps need recommendations!

09/16/2026

This was me.

Asleep by 10, eyes open at 3:07 like someone flipped a switch.

I'd lie there running through my day, my kid's schedule, that one email, and by the time I finally drifted off it was almost time to get up.

I'm a menopause specialist now so I understand it, but sleeplessness is easily one of the most distressing symptoms of midlife. Because it doesn't feel like a hormone thing. It feels like stress. It feels like you.

It feels like debilitating exhaustion.

It's progesterone. It drops in perimenopause, sometimes years before your periods change, and progesterone is what keeps you asleep. Not what gets you there. Keeps you there. So you fall asleep like normal and then your body lets go of it around 3.

Two things that can actually help you while you're waiting to be evaluated for Hormone Therapy:

đź’¤ Eat a real dinner with protein and some carbs instead of picking at things, because a blood sugar dip at 3am will wake you up every time. (But don't eat too close to bedtime!)

đź’¤ Eliminated or moving alcohol to earlier in the evening. Alcohol is a common 3am culprit I see, and I say that as someone who loves a good craft beer!

I just posted a full article on sleep on my website! You can find the link for it in my bio 👆🏻📍

If you're doing all the other right things, but sleep is still eluding you, it's time to talk about your hormones. That's the conversation I have with women every single day, and it's the one I also could have used sooner.

You're not anxious. You're not doing it wrong. You're in perimenopause and nobody told you this was part of it.

Happy to have a conversation! Link in bio 👆🏻

♀️Relief for today. Health for tomorrow. ♀️

09/14/2026

this is a VERY
hypothetical, non-sensical
question just for fun...

but also,
what hormone have YOU
noticed that's made the
biggest difference for you?

When we talk Hormone Therapy,
each hormone has their "role"
that they shine in, but
they work very symbiotically
and definitely NOT in a silo.

What we ultimately hope for
is hormone stability across
the spectrum:
estradiol
testosterone
progesterone
all working in tandem in a
beautiful dance of protection
and function.

Thyroid
Melatonin
Cortisol...
can't forget about these
essential players either!

Happy Monday!
Have fun with this :)

09/10/2026

Back to the Basics!

Keeping things simple and uncomplicated
Is sometimes the BEST things we can do for ourselves
And our patients.

HYDRATION.
FIBER through plant DIVERSITY.
SLEEP.
STRESS REDUCTION.

Sending so much love and healing vibes your way đź’ź


Womanhood. Sisterhood. Embracing life, in all of its different stages. Today's focus was Perimenopause: physiology, horm...
09/08/2026

Womanhood. Sisterhood. Embracing life, in all of its different stages.

Today's focus was Perimenopause: physiology, hormones, treatments, symptoms, empowerment, lifestyle.

It was truly one of the most beautiful events that my dear friend and colleague Anabel and I co-hosted. Anabel led us into a meditation of loving our bodies, being truly grateful to be ALIVE, having arrived at this time of transition.

Every single woman present had a story of dismissal, confusion, distressing symptoms, or just questions. It was a time of sharing, education, and BEING.

SO THANKFUL FOR THESE WOMEN IN MY LIFE.

Stay tuned for more community events. DM me if interested in the next one!

♀️💜♀️

I dream of a world where women are believed. Where women don't suffer due to lack of care. Where children thrive because...
09/06/2026

I dream of a world where women are believed.
Where women don't suffer due to lack of care.
Where children thrive because their mothers
are carried safely in a system that prioritizes them.

I dream of a world where women
aren't told to suck it up,
Where normal labs don't mean they're "fine",
that lack of provider curiosity and education
isn't the roadblock to optimal health.

I dream of a world where period products
are free and readily available to ALL.
Where pregnant women are revered as sacred,
holy, powerful.
Where female bodies are accepted in all
shapes and sizes.

I dream of a world where teenage girls
are fully aware that excruciating periods
are never normal. that viable treatments and
evaluations happen in real time, rather than
decades too late.

I dream of a world where we
CELEBRATE aging, and worship the
wisdom and glory of our silver haired selves.

I'm not just dreaming though.
I'm WORKING towards this future
every single day. Every course I take,
every patient I see. Every reel I post
has this world in view.

Who's with me? Comment YES if you're also
committed to this vision. Change is coming,
it's real. It's happening.

DM me to see how you can best be a part of it in
your own little corner of the world.
Just sharing with other women, busting myths and misinformation
is enough to keep this grassroots movement happening.

The POWER of ONE WOMAN
x millions of us...


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