Dr. Yishan(一三博士)

Dr. Yishan(一三博士) Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Sleep/S*x Expert, Director of Mind & Body Garden Psychology Inc., Adjunct Clinical Faculty at Stanford School of Medicine.

Hello, I am Dr. Yishan Xu, a licensed clinical psychologist, Board-Certified behavioral sleep medicine specialist (DBSM) and AASECT Board-Certified S*x Therapist (CST). Currently, I serve as the chair of the Society of Behavioral Sleep Medicine (SBSM) OPEC committee, and the adjunct clinical faculty at the School of Medicine of Stanford University.

I have 3 clinical specialties: 1) treatment f

or sleep disorders such as insomnia/circadian rhythm disorders, 2) treatment for sexual dysfunction and promoting sexual well-being, and 3) treatment for children/teen mental health.

I am the founder and director of our clinic: Mind & Body Garden Psychology. We are one of the largest multilingual mental health clinics in California right now, with 20+ psychologists, therapists, psychiatrists, speech therapists, and occupational therapists. We provide a variety of services:

psychotherapy

neuropsychological assessment (IQ test, ASD/ADHD diagnostic evaluation, etc.)

medication management

occupational therapy evaluation

speech therapy, etc.

I always see the role of a psychologist as a gardener. When people come to us seeking support, they may have too many branches of mental blocks and bushes of stress in their lives. What we can do is to help people be more aware of the branches and bushes that impact their quality of life, and then assist them to trim these parts, cope with stress, and live healthier and happier lives.

I grew up in China and speak both Mandarin and English. I strongly advocate evidence-based treatment to develop a more positive attitude, and to build a life that is happier, more balanced, and more meaningful. Many of my clients have a hard time dealing with stress or transitions in life. Others may use some help with improving communication and relationship. They all have a common desire to take active steps to make meaningful and lasting changes.



MY APPROACHES TO THERAPY & TESTING
I have been trained in various evidence-based therapeutic approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Mindfulness Compassionate Approaches. I believe that therapy requires teamwork and I love to work with my clients collaboratively and tailor treatment to meet their needs. I always try my best to provide a warm and safe environment for my clients so they have a private space to share their thoughts and feelings freely. I often invite my clients to explore their own strengths with me together and practice effective coping skills. The most important aspect of my approach is: It works! I think that is the beauty of applying evidence-based therapy into practice.

I believe that everyone is unique, and we all have our own potential and needs. I want to use psychological testing such as neuropsychological testing as a tool, to help us understand ourselves better, explore our potential, and seek appropriate help as needed.

终于,亲手拿到这本书了。🩷我们花很多年学习怎么工作、怎么取得成就、怎么沟通、怎么把生活过好。可奇怪的是,大多数人从来没有真正被教过:怎么理解自己的身体,怎么认识自己的欲望与快感,怎么建立边界,又该怎么面对性与亲密关系。于是,我们只能自己摸索...
08/13/2026

终于,亲手拿到这本书了。🩷

我们花很多年学习怎么工作、怎么取得成就、怎么沟通、怎么把生活过好。

可奇怪的是,大多数人从来没有真正被教过:
怎么理解自己的身体,怎么认识自己的欲望与快感,怎么建立边界,又该怎么面对性与亲密关系。

于是,我们只能自己摸索。

而这个过程里,常常夹杂着羞耻、困惑、不切实际的期待,以及无数次:

“我这样正常吗?”

这就是我为什么写这本书。

《像吃火锅一样做爱》—— Hotpot S*x ——建立在一个很简单的想法上:

性,没有唯一一种“正确”的方式。

就像吃火锅一样,每个人喜欢的口味不同,边界不同,胃口不同,适合自己的搭配也不同。

我们的目标,不是去照抄别人的那一锅。

而是慢慢弄清楚,什么才是属于你自己的那一锅。

12多万字,无数次修改,还有比我想象中精彩得多的出版历险 😂……

终于,她真的来到我手里了。📖🩷

是的,

我真的写了一本叫《像吃火锅一样做爱》的书。 😆

新书出版,欢迎选购!
08/02/2026

新书出版,欢迎选购!

几个月前,我的编辑拿到书稿的第二天,就激动地给我打电话,说她一天就看完了整个书稿,太喜欢了,学到了好多,里面的专业内容和小练习,绝对能戳中无数人在亲密关系里的痛点。 但接下来的几个月,我们却像是撞上了.....

Nightmare treatment IRT for children and how to involve parents in that, interesting presentation from Dr. Kahn! It remi...
09/08/2025

Nightmare treatment IRT for children and how to involve parents in that, interesting presentation from Dr. Kahn! It reminds me of the great work does, and her new book about coping with nightmare👍

New episode of the Deep Into Sleep Podcast today with Dr. Nicole Fleischmann, listen how it shifted my perspective on wo...
07/31/2025

New episode of the Deep Into Sleep Podcast today with Dr. Nicole Fleischmann, listen how it shifted my perspective on women’s pelvic health and the power of breath! Dr. Fleischmann, a leading urogynecologist, discussed how something as simple as how we breathe can make a real difference—not just in sleep and anxiety, but also in pelvic floor health, urinary incontinence, and even sexual wellness. http://deepintosleep.co/episode/breathing

Using l***s could be helpful to improve sexual experiences for some couples and individuals. If you visit our clinic in ...
07/23/2025

Using l***s could be helpful to improve sexual experiences for some couples and individuals. If you visit our clinic in person, please grab some free samples! Thanks to Uberlube for great sample sets❤️

Nightmares haunting your sleep? You’re not alone – and you can break the cycle!On this week’s  :Dr. Yishan sits down wit...
06/27/2025

Nightmares haunting your sleep? You’re not alone – and you can break the cycle!
On this week’s :

Dr. Yishan sits down with nightmare expert Dr. Courtney Worley to discuss:
- Why nightmares happen (with or without trauma)
- Evidence-based ways to finally get restful sleep
- The difference between nightmares & night terrors

Practical tips you can start using today. Take back control of your nights! Listen now and discover hope, healing, and the latest in nightmare treatment.

🎧 [Link to episode] http://deepintosleep.co/episode/nightmare

We were thrilled to have Dr. Christopher Allen, board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatric neurologist (aka ...
06/23/2025

We were thrilled to have Dr. Christopher Allen, board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatric neurologist (aka “Sleep Doctor Chris” on social media), join Dr. Yishan. Together, they dove deep into the realities of sleep apnea, debunked long-standing myths, and explored the latest treatments. http://deepintosleep.co/episode/OSA

Our NY team will host a nice event in June, and here are more details: 🌈 Beyond the Binary: Reimagining Gender and Ident...
06/11/2025

Our NY team will host a nice event in June, and here are more details:

🌈 Beyond the Binary: Reimagining Gender and Identity
🗓️ June 21, 2025 | 11:00am - 1:00PM | Madison Square Park | $35

In many cultures, gender and sexual orientation are often viewed through a binary lens—male or female, straight or gay. But this framework doesn’t always reflect the true complexity of who we are.

This workshop invites participants to explore identity through a non-binary perspective, expanding how we understand ourselves and how we connect with others.

Join us for an affirming, art-based experience where we’ll explore gender and attraction through a non-binary lens. Through mindfulness, guided discussion, and a gender identity wheel art activity, you’ll reflect on body, identity, expression, and attraction in a deeper, more liberated way.

We’ll gently explore:
• How binary thinking is internalized
• How non-binary frameworks can deepen self-understanding
• How this shift might reshape our approach to relationships

Group Flow:
⛱️ Grounding in the Body – Mindfulness meditation to center and connect.
🧠 Rethinking Identity – Mini workshop on gender and attraction beyond the binary.
🎨 Creative Exploration – Art therapy using the Gender Identity Wheel.
🗣️ Open Dialogue – Group discussion on binary influence and personal insights.
🤗 Community Connection – A relaxed picnic to meet like-minded peers. Bring your own food and make friends!

Join us if you’re ready to challenge and rediscover yourself. All are welcome! https://mindbodygarden.kartra.com/checkout/mindbodygroup

Delicious home bakery from .and.crumb! Congratulations on the opening❤️Hope I can order some for our clinic’s gathering ...
05/25/2025

Delicious home bakery from .and.crumb! Congratulations on the opening❤️Hope I can order some for our clinic’s gathering in June🍾

💤✨ From 2019 to 2025 — and still going strong!So honored that Deep Into Sleep was featured in FeedSpot’s "25 Best Sleep ...
05/12/2025

💤✨ From 2019 to 2025 — and still going strong!

So honored that Deep Into Sleep was featured in FeedSpot’s "25 Best Sleep Science Podcasts in 2025" — and ranked #6! 🏆

What started as a personal passion for translating sleep science into everyday language has turned into an incredible journey. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of learning from brilliant sleep experts, researchers, and clinicians who generously shared their wisdom.

While I’ve recently slowed down podcast production to focus on growing my mental health group practice, my mission remains the same:
👉 Bridge the gap between cutting-edge sleep science and the public who needs it most.

Grateful for every listener, guest, and supporter along the way. Here’s to more conversations, more insight, and better sleep for all — in the next 5 years and beyond. 💙

🎧 [Check out the podcast here: http://www.deepintosleep.co/ ]

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