Arielle Werblun, MS, LMFT

Arielle Werblun, MS, LMFT Licensed therapist exploring all things SELF: worth + love + sabotage.

Specializing in people-pleasing, perfectionism, healthy relationships, and eating disorders.

may bay bay 🫶🏼
05/27/2026

may bay bay 🫶🏼

Modern dating feels contradictory because… it is. 🤷🏻‍♀️We say we want someone “nice”… but lose interest when there’s no ...
05/06/2026

Modern dating feels contradictory because… it is. 🤷🏻‍♀️

We say we want someone “nice”
… but lose interest when there’s no spark.

We say we want someone hot, successful, desirable
… but feel blindsided when they show they have options.

We say we want honesty
… but struggle to receive it without taking it personally.

We say we want independence
… but still crave reassurance and consistency.

👀 So what’s the move?

Not cynicism.
Not blaming.
Not pretending we’re above it all.

✨ Radical acceptance.

Understanding the game that modern dating really is, so we can stop taking every outcome as a reflection of worth.

Because it’s not:
“Why does this keep happening to me?”
It’s:
“What am I participating in that I don’t fully see yet?”

🍷 If you’ve ever felt confused, over it all, chosen-but-not-really, or stuck in the gray area…

This is for you.

Come unpack the contradictions with me.
🔗to grab a spot in bio.

Modern dating feels contradictory because… it is. 🤷🏻‍♀️We say we want someone “nice”… but lose interest when there’s no ...
05/06/2026

Modern dating feels contradictory because… it is. 🤷🏻‍♀️

We say we want someone “nice”
… but lose interest when there’s no spark.

We say we want someone hot, successful, desirable
… but feel blindsided when they show they have options.

We say we want honesty
… but struggle to receive it without taking it personally.

We say we want independence
… but still crave reassurance and consistency.

👀 So what’s the move?

Not cynicism.
Not blaming.
Not pretending we’re above it all.

✨ Radical acceptance.

Understanding the game that modern dating really is, so we can stop taking every outcome as a reflection of worth.

Because it’s not:
“Why does this keep happening to me?”
It’s:
“What am I participating in that I don’t fully see yet?”

🍷 If you’ve ever felt confused, rejected, chosen-but-not-really, or stuck in the gray area…

This is for you.

Come unpack the contradictions with me.
🔗to grab a spot in bio.

Cheers to eight-year anniversary! 🍾Thanks to this space, the Unmasked & Uncorked community has a place to call home. Gr...
03/21/2026

Cheers to eight-year anniversary! 🍾

Thanks to this space, the Unmasked & Uncorked community has a place to call home.

Grateful to all who support healing not being as heavy as our pours 🥂

There is a difference between being “enough” and being misaligned in a dynamic. Person A: Wants kids, commitment, the wo...
03/19/2026

There is a difference between being “enough” and being misaligned in a dynamic.

Person A: Wants kids, commitment, the works.
Person B: Wants autonomy, casual, what have you.

Neither person is wrong, too much or not enough… But the dynamic will trigger those “not good enough feelings” on both sides because of mismatched values and needs.

Maybe stop asking if you’re “enough” and start asking if what’s triggering that question is right for you in the first place.

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Let’s talk about s*x. 💋Can you actually have it casually?Because I can’t. Trust me, I’ve tried.Is being “nonchalant” the...
03/13/2026

Let’s talk about s*x. 💋

Can you actually have it casually?
Because I can’t. Trust me, I’ve tried.

Is being “nonchalant” the secret to dating?
I’ve tried that, too. I called it detachment but really I was just masking as a “cool” girl (ha).

And what happens to our nervous systems when we swing the opposite direction and create strict rules so we never get hurt again? 🥹

At the first all women’s Unmasked & Uncorked, we’re getting honest about dating, s*x, and all the ways we unconsciously get in our own ways...

The cool girls.
The overthinkers.
The girls with rule books.
The girls with rosters.

Girls who know their worth and want others to see theirs, too.💅🏼


Wine + wellness
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Gratitude is the best attitude ✨
03/12/2026

Gratitude is the best attitude ✨

Community + Cabernet 🥰
03/04/2026

Community + Cabernet 🥰

Cheers to staying sane, fam 🙃
03/03/2026

Cheers to staying sane, fam 🙃

SOLD OUT. The main feedback ya’ll gave: Make it longer & do more. Yes. 🥂
02/25/2026

SOLD OUT.

The main feedback ya’ll gave:
Make it longer & do more.

Yes. 🥂

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