05/26/2026
If you've been keeping your loved one's ashes in a closet because you don't know what else to do — this is for you.
You're not alone. I've met hundreds of families with cremated remains sitting on a shelf for years, simply because they felt stuck.
Five options most people haven't considered:
Cemetery interment — a permanent place to visit (we have space right here at Dillon Funeral Service).
Scattering in a meaningful location — a favorite lake, trail, or the ocean. Check local regulations first; some places require permits.
Dividing among family — keepsake urns let everyone hold onto a piece.
Memorial jewelry or art — ashes incorporated into glass, jewelry, even vinyl records with their favorite songs.
Planting with a tree — biodegradable urns designed to grow into a living memorial.
You have choices. If holding onto those ashes has felt heavy, you don't have to stay stuck.
Tag someone who's been holding onto ashes and doesn't know what to do next.
