Eva Van Prooyen, MFT

Eva Van Prooyen, MFT Therapy should be practical and incredibly useful.

​​​"Healthy, secure relationships are a source of vital energy…people feel good when they understand how to be successful partners"

I’m happy to answer questions you may have about therapy. I help couples, adults, and adolescents experience life more deeply; enjoy more satisfying relationships; resolve painful conflicts; and improve self-esteem, self-worth and emotional well-being. My work is col

laborative, supportive, and informed by cutting edge science and over 15 years study with (PACT) a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy. I emphasize growth and self-awareness for the individual and couple as a way to become a successful and skillful partner, based on the belief that “life is better when your relationships are healthy.”

I blend warmth and humor, with an understanding of attachment theory and interpersonal neurobiology, to help couples make positive and enlivening changes in their relationship. I aim to demystify how partners get into trouble in their relationship and decode the way out so they can thrive in a more secure, lovingly connected experience together.

I’m excited to share that my latest article has been published through the PACT Institute. I’d love to hear which truth ...
05/21/2026

I’m excited to share that my latest article has been published through the PACT Institute.

I’d love to hear which truth resonates most with you.
https://www.thepactinstitute.com/blog/7-essential-truths-to-unlock-longevity-in-a-lifelong-loving-relationship

Long-lasting relationships rarely happen by chance—they are designed, protected, and tended.

You’ve done it! You’ve found the “love of your life” and ceremonially declared your love by promising “forever and ever, ‘til death do us part” with your “one and only.” Now what? 

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/breaking-free Posting again in honor of my friend Shelby: 1971 - 2007 Coercive c...
05/08/2026

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/breaking-free
Posting again in honor of my friend Shelby: 1971 - 2007
Coercive control in relationships is insidious, and individuals may unknowingly fall prey to emotional abuse disguised as ‘love and devotion'. Break free from manipulative tactics by learning to recognize the signs early on.

Coercive control in relationships is insidious, and individuals may unknowingly fall prey to emotional abuse disguised as ‘love and devotion. Break free from manipulative tactics by learning to recognize the signs early on.

#2 Putting 'we' before 'me'7 Traits That Keep Couples Together Way More Than Love, According To Experts
09/25/2025

#2 Putting 'we' before 'me'
7 Traits That Keep Couples Together Way More Than Love, According To Experts

Attraction may spark a relationship, but it's not what keeps the flame lit.

Knowing The Answer Could Save You Years of Heartache
06/29/2025

Knowing The Answer Could Save You Years of Heartache

Decode how you connect, protect, and push each other away. Understanding your attachment style — and your partner’s — could save you years of heartbreak. Knowing your own style is just the start. Becoming an expert on theirs is the real game-changer.

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/thirds-outsiders-and-intruders-how-to-protect-your-relationship-from-unseen-thre...
05/28/2025

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/thirds-outsiders-and-intruders-how-to-protect-your-relationship-from-unseen-threats

Understanding Thirds: Protecting Your Relationship When Outside Forces Threaten Your Bond

Emotional energy, attention, vulnerability—these aren’t neutral. Learn how to spot and manage the outside forces that quietly interfere with intimacy, and protect the bond you’ve worked hard to build.


Recognize and repair when outsiders interfere with intimacy. Learn how to spot and manage outside forces—like work, family, or old attachments—that can come between you and your partner, and build a stronger, more secure connection with practical tools and real-life examples.

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/7-essential-truths-to-unlock-longevity-in-a-lifelong-loving-relationship7 Essent...
11/01/2024

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/7-essential-truths-to-unlock-longevity-in-a-lifelong-loving-relationship

7 Essential Truths to Unlock Longevity in a Lifelong, Loving Relationship

Science, skill, nature, logic, and love all work together to create an environment of trust and understanding — for a relationship that withstands the test of time.

Dr. Stan Tatkin

Science, skill, nature, logic, and love all work together to create an environment of trust and understanding — where couples can navigate their imperfections while evolving into wiser, kinder, and more resilient partners, ultimately forming a lasting and fulfilling relationship that withstands th...

A toxic and controlling group or partner will isolate you from your support system. Understand the signs of coercive con...
06/04/2024

A toxic and controlling group or partner will isolate you from your support system. Understand the signs of coercive control.
Bravo to the creators of this 3-episode series!

After TikTok dancers join a management company and its associated church, unsettling details about the founder and their dark realities come to light.

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/breaking-freeCoercive control in relationships is insidious, and individuals may...
05/10/2024

https://www.evavp.com/relationship-blog/breaking-free
Coercive control in relationships is insidious, and individuals may unknowingly fall prey to emotional abuse disguised as ‘love and devotion. Break free from manipulative tactics by learning to recognize the signs early on.
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Coercive control in relationships is insidious, and individuals may unknowingly fall prey to emotional abuse disguised as ‘love and devotion. Break free from manipulative tactics by learning to recognize the signs early on.

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735 State Street, Suite 620
Santa Barbara, CA
93101

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