05/15/2026
👩🏻🎓For many students like me in the class of 2026, the end of the school year & graduation are approaching. Both can bring a mix of conflicting feelings—😆😟😣😥. Sure, this has been a moment anticipated since the dawn of time, reflected in thousands of coming-of-age movies that wrap up adolescence in a pretty 🎀 and a thoughtful message to make growing up look like a beautiful thing, but where does it go from here? What happens after the credits roll, and you’re left to wonder if you’re truly ready to emulate it yourself? 🤷🏾♀️
Adulthood is scary, change is scary, and it’s perfectly normal to be unsure of what to do next. 🫣 With the routine you’ve been accustomed to all of your life being taken away from you, it’s natural to be on edge with this new independence that yields like a double-edged sword. This is a new beginning, one that will evoke a lot of uncertainty and doubt, but rather than trying to figure everything out and reinventing who you are, it’s okay to take things slow and still carry the same interests, goals, and hobbies as before—and allow them to evolve as you do.
Over my time at A + Wellness as an intern, I was able to get a glimpse of adulthood from another perspective. At first, being in a work-like environment and interacting with therapists for the first time was something I had thought to be comically intimidating at 17🧐, and somewhere where I wasn’t quite ready to be yet. Being around so many intelligent people who had years of experience in psychological fields opened up a whole new Pandora’s box of opportunity to actually see what it is that I had been glamorizing so hard for years prior, picturing it as something I would do once I had graduated, gotten years of experience under my belt, and presumably had my life all figured out.🙃
Over this past school year, exposing myself to the reality of adulthood and a career, the ups and the downs, the good, bad, and the ugly, didn’t provide the earth-shattering wake-up call that I pessimistically thought it would, as I had instead grown to love every second of it💞. Branching out of my comfort zone and living through the life that I may or may not have down the line instead gave me some much-needed reassurance in knowing that I do have the potential to do greater things🙌, and adult responsibilities will never fully change who I am; as a period of my life cannot take away who I am or the experiences that I’ve lived through.
I am so appreciative of having had this opportunity, and wish all of you who are going through a period of change the best of luck, as well as reassurance🥳. The best thing you can do in the face of uncertainty is to embrace it fully, and to be willing to go through the next step that life will give you.👏
-Yaryna