09/06/2026
✨ SHOULD I STAY, GO, OR CHANGE SOMETHING? ✨
Some decisions don’t have a simple yes or no answer.
Maybe it’s a relationship, friendship, job, home, commitment, or something you’ve been going back and forth about for months. Part of you wants to stay. Part of you wants to go. And maybe another part is wondering if there’s a third option you haven’t considered yet.
Grab your favorite oracle or tarot deck or your Sacred Reflections Oracle Deck and give yourself a little space to sit with it.
Set the scene in whatever way helps you arrive. Light a candle. Make some tea. Take a few breaths. Put your phone down for a minute.
Hold your situation in mind as you shuffle. You don’t have to force a perfectly worded question. Just bring the situation to the cards and ask for reflection, clarity, and whatever you may not be seeing yet.
Then pull six cards:
1. What keeps me here?
2. What makes me want to leave?
3. What could staying offer me?
4. What could leaving open for me?
5. What might change if I stop seeing this as only stay or go?
6. What deserves my attention before I decide?
Take your time with the cards. Notice what you feel before you reach for the guidebook. Notice what you’re drawn to, what makes you uncomfortable, and what you immediately want to argue with. 😂 Sometimes that’s where the most interesting information is.
The cards don’t have to make the decision for you.
They can help you have a deeper conversation with yourself before you do. 🤎
Sacred Reflections Oracle Deck
Created by Sharlean Windus
Artwork by Angela Santiago