The Allender Center

06/05/2026

Is there still more to your story? It's a question that can feel surprising, especially if you've spent years reflecting on your past, pursuing healing, or engaging your story. Yet in this conversation, Dr. Dan Allender, Rachael Clinton Chen, and Wendell Moss explore how story continues to reveal new insights about who we are, how we've been shaped, and how God is meeting us in the present.

You'll get a glimpse into what story work actually looks like in a Story Workshop or Narrative Focused Trauma Care®️ training, and why returning to meaningful moments from our lives can open the door to greater compassion, deeper understanding, and unexpected freedom.

Whether you're new to story engagement or have been doing this work for years, you’re invited to consider what might still be waiting for you in your story.

🎧 Listen to "Is There Still More to Your Story?" out today on the Allender Center Podcast, available wherever you stream your podcasts, or on our website.

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Is there still more to your story? It’s a question that can feel surprising, especially if you’ve spent years reflecting on your past, pursuing healing, or...

05/29/2026

What happens when shame takes root in a story? And how does contempt become one of the ways we learn to survive it?

Today on the Allender Center Podcast, Dr. Dan Allender and Rachael Clinton Chen explore the complicated relationship between shame and contempt, and why understanding these dynamics matters so deeply for healing and human connection.

You’ll hear reflections on:
✨ why contempt often forms in response to pain and powerlessness
✨ what trauma responses like fight, flight, freeze, and fawn look like in moments of shame
✨ how to remain grounded in dignity and belovedness when faced with contempt

This conversation invites us into deeper curiosity, compassion, and discernment, especially in a cultural moment increasingly marked by outrage, dehumanization, and contempt.

🎧 You can listen to this episode anywhere you get your podcasts, or find it on our website, along with transcripts and additional resources.
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If you’d like to explore these themes more deeply, we invite you to join Rachael Clinton Chen for the upcoming live training, The Art of Story Engagement, on June 13. Together, you’ll explore more deeply how contempt shapes our stories — and how learning to recognize these dynamics in ourselves and others can open the door to greater wisdom, healing, and care. You can learn more at theallendercenter.org/events

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What happens when shame takes root in a story? And how does contempt become one of the ways we learn to survive it?

05/26/2026

To engage trauma care is to believe that stories of harm are not the end of the story.

At the Allender Center, we pursue this work because we hold hope for redemption, healing, and restoration, even in the places marked by deep suffering.

The Effective Trauma Care Online Course invites you to grow in your capacity to thoughtfully and holistically engage the impact of trauma expressed through beliefs, behaviors, symptoms, and patterns of relationship.

Grounded in Dr. Dan Allender’s Narrative Focused Trauma Care® model, this course also creates space for you to reflect on your own story and the intersection between your work and your well-being.

Today is the final day of our online course sale for this spring, so we invite you to enroll today!

Every self-paced course and webinar recording includes lifetime access.

You can save 25% on Effective Trauma Care Online Course, along with all signature online courses and webinar recordings, with code SPRING25.

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05/25/2026

Spiritual abuse can leave deep confusion, grief, fear, and shame in its wake.
Healing often begins by finding language for what happened—and discovering you are not alone.

The Spiritual Abuse & Healing Online Course offers compassionate guidance for those seeking understanding, clarity, and restoration after harmful spiritual experiences.

Use code SPRING25 to save 25% on this and all signature online courses & webinar recordings during our Spring Sale, now through Tuesday, May 26.

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05/23/2026

Our stories shape and influence every dimension of our daily life and relationships.

Knowing the impact of our stories and finding God’s redemptive work within them is vital for emotional, relational, and spiritual health.

The To Be Told Online Course is far more than the popularized movement to “know your story.” It is an invitation to truth-telling, healing lament, deep soulfulness, and lasting change.

Right now, you can save 25% on To Be Told and all signature online courses during our Spring Sale.

Use code SPRING25 through Tuesday, May 26.

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05/22/2026

🌸 Our biggest sale of the season starts now! 🌸

For the next 5 days, save 25% on ALL signature online courses and webinar recordings from the Allender Center.

Whether you want to better understand your story, continue your own healing journey, deepen your relationships, or engage trauma with greater wisdom—this is a meaningful time to begin.

Every self-paced course and webinar recording includes lifetime access.
You can move through the material at your own pace and return whenever you need.

Use code SPRING25 now through Tuesday, May 26, to save 25%.

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05/22/2026

Have you ever felt like you were living between worlds? 🌎 Maybe you’ve moved across countries or cultures. Maybe your family story carries immigration, missionary work, military life, trauma, loss, or displacement. Or maybe, even surrounded by familiar people and places, you still carry an ache for belonging — a longing to feel fully known, rooted, and at home.

Today, Dan and Rachael sit down with Esperansita Bejnarowicz, who is a story coach, an NFTC Certified Facilitator with the Allender Center, and the founder of Far From Home.

Together, they explore the hidden grief, loneliness, and longing that can come from living “far from home” geographically, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

The conversation considers the story of Jesus as someone deeply acquainted with displacement: a child forced to flee, a man who “had no place to lay his head,” and someone who understood sorrow, exile, and longing for home.

Whether you’ve crossed borders or simply know what it feels like to search for belonging, this conversation offers language, comfort, and hope for the parts of us still longing to find home.

We invite you to listen in this week wherever you get your podcasts, or stream each episode on our website.

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Explore the hidden grief, loneliness, and longing that can come from living “far from home” — geographically, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

05/19/2026

“Wisdom is the presence to love well. And when [you] love, you don’t have a guidebook on what to do. You just know that in the moment, there’s something that needs to be said, something that needs to be done, that enters into a way of bringing something of what God intends for us to experience. That’s wisdom.”
-Sam Lee, LPC, Director of Narrative Focused Trauma Care® Training

05/15/2026

How do we live faithfully in a world where stories no longer seem to anchor us to a shared reality?

Returning to the Allender Center Podcast, Pastor James A. White joins Dan and Rachael to wrestle with the confusion, distortion that shape our cultural moments, both past and present.

Together, they explore the idea of “story wars”—the deeply human tendency to create narratives that help us survive, but can also estrange us from truth, one another, and the heart of God.
At the center of the conversation is the resurrection story itself: a story so disruptive and improbable that even Jesus’ closest companions struggled to believe it.

And yet, the resurrection is precisely what recalibrates reality. Not because it erases suffering or uncertainty, but because it offers a new way of seeing: that even in places marked by grief, confusion, fear, or loss, hope and transformation are still possible.

This conversation invites us to examine the stories shaping us personally and collectively, and to ask difficult but necessary questions about truth, power, fear, belonging, and hope.

🎧 You can listen to the Allender Center Podcast anywhere you stream your podcasts, or find each episode, plus transcripts and show notes, on our website.

How do we live meaningfully in a world where stories no longer seem to anchor us to a shared reality? Returning to the Allender Center Podcast, Pastor James A. White joins Dan and Rachael to wrestle with the confusion, distortion that shape our cultural moments, both past and present.

05/11/2026

“By the way that we hold one another’s suffering, we can change the trajectory of trauma.” -Dr. Dan Allender