10/01/2026
School refusal is real, and it can leave families feeling exhausted, isolated, and unsure of what to do next.
As the school year gets underway, many parents are watching their child or teen struggle with anxiety around attending school. They may be facing tearful mornings, repeated reassurance-seeking, missed days, escalating conflict, or a family routine increasingly shaped by anxiety.
Parents do not have to navigate this alone.
SPACE, or Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions, is an evidence-based, parent-based treatment developed at Yale by Dr. Eli Lebowitz. SPACE helps parents support a child or teen with anxiety, OCD, or school refusal without requiring the child to attend sessions. The sessions are for parents alone and span a specific time-limited curriculum.
Rather than relying on blame, punishment, or power struggles, SPACE teaches parents how to:
- Respond calmly and supportively when anxiety is high
- Reduce anxiety-driven accommodations gradually and compassionately
- Support school attendance while protecting connection and trust
- Respond to distress without unintentionally reinforcing avoidance
- Help their child build confidence facing worries, separation, social fears, OCD rituals, sleep fears, and more
Accommodations, such as allowing repeated school absences, offering constant reassurance, changing routines to avoid distress, or staying with a child until they fall asleep, are understandable efforts to help. They often provide short-term relief but can unintentionally keep anxiety going over time.
With practical scripts, step-by-step plans, and collaborative guidance, SPACE helps parents make meaningful changes that support greater independence and resilience.
Learn more: www.cebtohio.com/space-supporting-parenting-for-anxious-childhood-emotions or contact Amy Kalasunas at [email protected] or call 216 544 1321 ext 2003 with questions about the treatment or how to get started.