08/04/2026
We are half way into this year’s Heroes and Horses Youth program.
Unfortunately, I’m (Alecia) sitting at the Bozeman airport making this post. I have to fly back home to attend meetings to kick off the new school year. Brian & Scout get to stay for the rest of the week & soak it in.
This program is all about the triumph of the human spirit.
Allowing humans from all walks of life who have been impacted by heavy life events to step foot on the ranch & be gifted with experiences to allow them to recalibrate & remember their inner strength.
There are so many connections made during the time here. To the land. To the food. To the participants. To the leaders. To the horses. But most importantly to themselves.
The youth program is extra special to me because it shows kids who have been through a lot how it feels to be successful doing hard things. What it feels like to have people around you who truly believe in you & are cheering you on. They connect with their horses. And how to have reverence & respect for others & situations while also having time for play & fun. And at the end of the long & often hard days, they lay their heads down feeling proud of all they’ve done.
I think in our mental health world we get so caught up in the story & worried about what people have been through that we forget all they are capable of. Our compassionate hearts lower the bar & end up looking at our fellow humans with pity & as victims. We diminish their capacity to grow & experience their own form of greatness because of this “compassion”.
Here on the ranch, there’s compassion coupled with seeing the person truly for who & what they are: a divine being here to alchemize their life experiences & to do great things. To feel joy & to learn that they are so capable of doing challenging tasks especially when they have people (adults & peers) all around them mirroring back to them the belief in themselves they may have forgotten.
I’m so grateful for this experience. For showing up as both a facilitator & a student who continues to learn from each person I meet.
These boys will leave as different people. I wish I could be there to see them off. 💞
Heroes and Horses
Alecia Ann
Brian Assam