08/23/2026
Who am I when nobody needs anything from me?
It’s a surprisingly difficult question.
So much of life can become organized around what needs to be done, who needs us, what someone else is feeling, what we should be accomplishing, and what comes next.
Eventually, it can become hard to hear our own voice underneath all of that.
Finally. isn’t a weekend where we expect you to arrive on Friday and leave Sunday having figured out who you are or what you want from the rest of your life.
That would be an awfully big assignment for three days.
But maybe the weekend gives you enough quiet for the question to occur to you.
Maybe you notice something you’ve been missing.
Maybe you remember something that used to light you up.
Maybe you realize there’s a part of your life you want to reconsider.
Or maybe you simply go home with one question you hadn’t been asking before:
Who am I when nobody needs anything from me?
You don’t have to know the answer yet.
Sometimes putting the question on your radar is where something begins.
What’s included
* Breakfasts + one lunch
* A 60-minute spa service of your choice
* Permission to Pause
* Essential oil blending class
* Guided painting experience
* Flower bouquet bar
* Sound healing
* Evening yoga
* Optional bonfire
* Welcome gift
* Time intentionally left unscheduled to rest, think, read, wander, or simply be
Finally.
October 23–25, 2026
The Literary Hotel • Solon, Iowa
www.SootheIA.com/retreat