07/12/2026
I’m sharing so others know they aren’t alone and healing from trauma is possible. This is also a part of why I advocate for internet safety and am passionate in my work as a trauma focused therapist.
Online predators use manipulation to exploit minors through grooming - a process of building trust to exploit and abuse.
Know the warning signs:
⚠️ Excessive attention & flattery – They make a child feel special or isolated from others.
⚠️ Gifting & favors – Offering money, games, or other incentives.
⚠️ Secretive conversations – Asking a child to keep chats private or move to encrypted apps. Watch for quick closing of screens.
⚠️ Inappropriate content – Sending or requesting sexual images.
⚠️ Pressure & threats – Coercing a child into unsafe actions or making them feel guilty.
Take Action:
🚨 Report CSAM & online exploitation: CyberTipline.org (NCMEC)
🛡️ Learn how tech fights child abuse: WeAreThorn.org
🔎 Find law enforcement support: icactaskforce.org
I was 13 when I was groomed and abused by a 33 year old man I met online. He preyed on me and convinced me that he was a friend. The abuse and exploitation lasted until I was 16 and he was taken into custody, when he was tried I was 17 and it was a federal case. I was identified as one of many victims. My abuser was sentenced to 17 years, and was released after 8.
Parents & guardians- please stay involved in your child’s digital life, know who they’re talking to. If they get defensive, secretive and isolated with their internet use, be gentle and seek professional help. Together, we can make the internet safer.
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