10/13/2026
This one is personal. 🤍
My husband and I went through our own miscarriages together, years ago now. One thing I've carried from that experience into how I practice: I make a point of checking in on male partners specifically, not just the patient carrying the pregnancy.
I didn't always know how to do that well. Looking back, I wish I'd met my own husband where he actually was, emotionally, instead of assuming I already knew.
Grief after a loss doesn't move in a straight line, and it doesn't move the same way for both partners. If you're in it right now — either of you — you're not alone, and this is not your fault.
If you need to sit with this post for a minute before scrolling on, that's allowed too.