Gilbertson Funeral Home

Gilbertson Funeral Home We are family owned and operated. Our licensed professional staff are here to serve your needs 24 ho Cremation: We own and operate our own crematory.

This means your loved one will never leave our care. We specialize in Celebration of Life Memorial Services. we offer economically priced packages that allow for a final time of viewing, Celebration or memorial and the cremation. Burial: Our Funeral Home is full service, which means we have the facilities to cater to all your wishes. we offer a comfortable viewing room and a modern chapel with aud

io and visual options. we provide you with our consumer resource center for the ease of selecting a casket, memorial programs, outer burial containers and headstones. We serve all cemeteries in Washington State. Feel free to stop by and visit and tour our funeral home.

Today we honor every worker. Every hand that clocked in for a family. Every long day that built the life you're living n...
09/07/2026

Today we honor every worker. Every hand that clocked in for a family. Every long day that built the life you're living now. Rest today. It's earned.

Today is a day you've never seen before. That alone makes it worth noticing.
09/03/2026

Today is a day you've never seen before. That alone makes it worth noticing.

There's more than one kind of inheritance. Some of what our parents leave us doesn't come in a will. It doesn't cost any...
09/02/2026

There's more than one kind of inheritance. Some of what our parents leave us doesn't come in a will. It doesn't cost anything. And it can't be put in a box.

The way she always laughed at her own jokes. The way he never left the house without kissing your mom goodbye. The recipe she scribbled from memory. The saying you catch yourself using at the dinner table without meaning to.

These are the inheritances that money can't buy. And they're the ones that outlast everything.

What did you inherit that no one else would understand?

Movies and TV have been telling us for decades what a funeral is supposed to look like. Rainy afternoons. Black umbrella...
08/27/2026

Movies and TV have been telling us for decades what a funeral is supposed to look like. Rainy afternoons. Black umbrellas. Silent grief.

Real funerals rarely look like this.

Here are five things TV gets wrong:

1. It's not always raining. Most services happen in the sunshine, on beautiful afternoons, in gardens and parks and living rooms.

2. Everyone doesn't wear black. Some families now ask guests to wear color, or the loved one's favorite hue, or a sports team's jersey.

3. It's not always silent. Some services are full of stories, laughter, music, and the sound of people who loved someone remembering them out loud.

4. Most families don't have a movie-worthy confrontation. Most families are just trying to hold each other up.

5. It doesn't end when the service does. The hardest part often begins after everyone goes home. Grief and remembrance continue long after the last guest leaves.

When most people picture a funeral director, they picture someone standing at the front of a service. But that moment is...
08/25/2026

When most people picture a funeral director, they picture someone standing at the front of a service. But that moment is a small fraction of what we actually do.

Behind every service is a person quietly making sure everything holds together for a family in one of the hardest weeks of their lives.

1. Walking families through impossible decisions. When someone is grieving, even simple choices feel enormous. We help sort through them with clarity and patience.

2. Coordinating every detail. Clergy, cemeteries, florists, obituaries, transportation, permits. There are dozens of moving parts. We handle them so families can focus on grieving.

3. Filing paperwork families never see. Death certificates, insurance claims, veteran benefits, Social Security. Invisible work that matters.

4. Handling the logistics. Timing. Setup. Music. The chairs being arranged. The candles being lit before anyone arrives.

5. Listening. A lot. Sometimes what a family needs most is not a plan. It's someone to sit with them and let them talk about the person they lost.

This work is quiet and mostly unseen. But it matters. And we're grateful to be trusted with it.

Real love has always lived in the small stuff. In the porch light left on. In the wave from the driveway until the car d...
08/21/2026

Real love has always lived in the small stuff. In the porch light left on. In the wave from the driveway until the car disappears. In the pot of coffee already made when someone stumbles into the kitchen.

These are the rituals we grew up watching without ever calling them anything special. They were just how our people loved us.

Somewhere along the way, we started calling them old-fashioned. Then we stopped doing them.

Bring one back this week. It doesn't have to be big. That's the whole point.

There's actually a name for it. It's called the Production Effect. Speaking out loud activates deeper memory encoding in...
08/18/2026

There's actually a name for it. It's called the Production Effect. Speaking out loud activates deeper memory encoding in the brain than silent thought.

That's why the toast we gave sticks with us more than the one we planned. Why our loved ones' voices echo through our memory like nothing else can. Why saying their name out loud, even years later, brings them so close.

Grief has quiet rituals. Speaking your loved one's name is one of the most powerful. Say it in the car. At their grave. While you cook their favorite meal.

Say it out loud. The science and the heart both agree.

Talking about pre-planning is one of the most loving conversations you can have with your family. But it's also one of t...
08/13/2026

Talking about pre-planning is one of the most loving conversations you can have with your family. But it's also one of the hardest to start.

Here are five gentle steps to make it easier:

1. Pick a quiet moment
Not at Thanksgiving. Not in the car. A Saturday afternoon on the porch. A slow morning over coffee. Small settings work best.

2. Lead with curiosity, not urgency
Instead of "we need to talk about this," try "have you ever thought about what you'd want?" Curiosity opens the door. Urgency closes it.

3. Share your own thoughts first
Talking about what you want removes the pressure. It makes the conversation about your family together, not about them alone.

4. Listen more than you talk
This is not the moment to convince or correct. It's the moment to hear what matters most to them.

5. Plan to revisit it
One conversation is a start, not a finish. Give it space. Come back to it.

Pre-planning isn't about paperwork. It's about care. When you're ready, we're here.

You don't move on. You move forward. And that's a kind of love, too.
08/12/2026

You don't move on. You move forward. And that's a kind of love, too.

Some days feel full, and some days feel like they slip by. Living a little bigger doesn't require a life overhaul. It's ...
08/06/2026

Some days feel full, and some days feel like they slip by. Living a little bigger doesn't require a life overhaul. It's usually just a few small choices, made on repeat.

Say yes to the invitation.
Take the scenic route.
Eat outside.
Use the fancy plates.
Have dinner without screens.
Send a "thinking of you" text.

None of these will change your life on their own. But the days you actually do them are the days you'll remember.

Address

27001 88th Avenue NW./PO Box 1569
Stanwood, WA
98292

Telephone

+13606292101

Website

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Gilbertson Funeral Home posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Shortcuts

Share

Category