10/21/2026
🛑Stop saying good job, do this instead….
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If your days feel filled with reminders, corrections, and redirecting….it’s exhausting….And it’s okay to admit that.
Most parents don’t want to correct all day.
Often, kids are missing the skills underneath the behavior.
Small language shifts can lower power struggles and help kids feel more capable and connected.
➡️Enter: “Effort based affirmations
🧠When kids hear specific effort based recognition research shows something in their brain changes
“I noticed that your were having a hard time but you didn’t give up, I’m proud you kept going”
“I noticed how calm you stayed even know your sister was birthing you, I noticed how well you did”
➡️Your voice will turn into your kids inner voice.
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