05/25/2026
Cancer Center Chaplain's Corner: As Memorial Day weekend comes to a close, we continue to reflect on the meaning of this important time of remembrance. Memorial Day is a time to honor and mourn those who served and died in the Armed Forces of the United States.
Every year, beginning in early May, I remember my grandfather talking about Decoration Day – the original name for Memorial Day. He was born on Decoration Day, and the day always had great meaning for him. And not just because it was his birthday. He spoke of going to the cemetery to honor those who died in service to the country and decorate their graves. He also talked about his grandfather, who served in the Civil War, and decorating his grave as well.
I went to the cemetery a few days ago and visited the grave where my father is buried. He served in the Korean War. Afterwards, I looked about and saw large numbers of graves that were marked with American Flags in their honor for Memorial Day. I stopped at many of them and read the inscriptions on their headstones. The names of people who had served and died in the Civil War, World War I, World War II, Korea, and Vietnam. Others who had served in war and survived.
Let us think about the sacrifice that so many people have made for our country and hold them in our hearts and prayers. Each of them has been a blessing to their families and loved ones, and their deaths are a cause for mourning and grief. As we honor the sacrifice of these veterans, we lift up their loved ones in thought and prayer, too.
At the same time, I know that it is also a day when we reflect on our own losses - family members and friends, those we love who have died. We miss them greatly and reflect on their place in our lives. May memories of them be a blessing to you.
If there’s someone you’ve lost or have been remembering, Chaplain Kate and I would love to have an opportunity to talk with you about them. We’re here in the Cancer Center – just ask your nurse or provider to reach out to Spiritual Care, and we’ll stop by. If you prefer, you can call us at x4-4687 (315.464.4687). We look forward to meeting you. Peace be with you on this Memorial Day.
- Chaplain Tom