10/26/2026
Brigitte Nikolai
Brigitte Nikolai, a beloved wife, mother, Oma, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on September 28, 2026. Born on August 19, 1949, in Denver, Colorado, Brigitte filled her 77 years with love, laughter, and an unwavering devotion to her family and community.
Brigitte was the cherished daughter of Leo and Sieglinde Ressler, who predeceased her. She was the devoted wife of Lothar Nikolai, whom she married on June 1, 1968, in Ft. Lewis, Washington. Their union of 58 years was a testament to enduring love and partnership. Together, they raised two wonderful children, Tonya (Brian) Narramore and Steven (Marci) Nikolai, creating a family life rich with traditions and joy. Her grandchildren, Jordan Narramore, Emilee Nikolai, Nikolas Narramore, and Haylee Nikolai, along with her great-grandson, Ledger Adamski, were her greatest pride and joy.
Brigitte's early life was marked by her graduation from Lakes High School in 1967. From there, she dedicated herself to nurturing her family, working in the home to raise her children and care for her grandchildren.
A lifelong advocate for her community, Brigitte was deeply involved in Scouting, both as a participant in her youth and later as a Girl Scout leader. Her commitment to education was evident through her active participation in the PTA at Fern Hill Elementary and Mount Tahoma High School, where she was recognized with the Golden Acorn Award for her outstanding service.
Brigitte found immense joy in watching her grandchildren participate in their sports and school activities. She had a love for small dogs, especially her two dachshunds, Lumpi and Maddy, and talked about her memories with them until her passing. Her ability to make everyone feel welcome and loved was complemented by telling jokes to lighten any mood. Her kindness, generosity, and smile touched the lives of many, leaving a legacy of compassion and love.
In addition to her husband, children, and grandchildren, Brigitte is survived by her loving sisters, Sieglinde (Herb) Heinold, Leola (Bernie) Johnston, and Kathleen (Gilbert) Moore. She also leaves behind treasured nieces and nephews. Her family, friends, and neighbors will forever cherish the memories of her gentle spirit and the warmth she brought into their lives.
Her caring nature and passion for community service would be a fitting tribute to a life well-lived. In honor of Brigitte's love for animals, the family requests donations be made to a local veterinarian or humane society. Another way to honor her legacy of service is by buying a box of Girl Scout Cookies or donating cookies to military troops.
Brigitte's memory will be a guiding light for all who knew her, and her legacy of love and service will continue to inspire and uplift those she leaves behind. A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, November 15th, 2026. Please join the family from 12:00 to 2:00 p.m. at the address below.
Sunrise Master Association Clubhouse
15807 134th Avenue East
Puyallup, Washington 98374
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