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Some children don’t avoid sensory input — they actively seek more of it.

They may be the child who is always moving, touching, crashing, chewing, making noise or looking for strong sensations. Their body may need more sensory information to feel organised, alert and regulated.

Sensory seeking isn’t simply a child being “too rough”, “too loud” or unable to sit still. When we understand what their nervous system is looking for, we can begin to offer safer, more appropriate ways to meet that need.

And, as with all sensory differences, every child will look different.

Save this post as a useful reference or share it with someone supporting a sensory-seeking child.

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Why Executive Function Changes Every Day

One of the biggest misconceptions about executive functioning is that people either have good executive functioning or they don’t.

The reality is much more dynamic.

Executive functioning—including planning, organization, working memory, attention regulation, cognitive flexibility, emotional regulation, inhibition, and task initiation—is state-dependent. While our underlying neurobiology (our “architecture”) tends to remain relatively stable, our ability to access executive functions fluctuates as our available cognitive resources change (Diamond, 2013; Arnsten, 2009).

From a Bandwidth Model perspective, your capacity may stay relatively constant, but your available bandwidth changes throughout the day as biological, psychological, and environmental demands compete for limited cognitive resources.

Same Brain. Different Day.

Think about your smartphone.

The processor doesn’t become slower overnight.

But when the battery is nearly depleted, background processes accumulate, or multiple demanding apps are running simultaneously, the phone becomes noticeably less responsive.

Your brain works similarly.

Your underlying architecture remains largely the same.

What changes is how much available bandwidth exists to support executive functioning at that moment.

Many Factors Influence Available Bandwidth

Executive functioning doesn’t exist in isolation.

Research consistently demonstrates that executive performance is influenced by numerous interacting factors, including:

• Sleep quality and fatigue

• Acute and chronic stress

• Trauma-related nervous system activation

• Anxiety and depression

• Chronic pain and physical illness

• Sensory overload

• Hormonal fluctuations (including perimenopause and menopause)

• Burnout

• Cognitive overload and decision fatigue

• Environmental demands

• Social support and opportunities for recovery

Each of these factors can either consume or replenish the cognitive resources that support executive functioning.

Why Yesterday Doesn’t Predict Today

Have you ever wondered how you could:

Deep clean your entire house on Saturday…

…but struggle to start one load of laundry on Sunday?

That difference doesn’t automatically reflect motivation, intelligence, or character.

It may reflect a change in your available bandwidth.

When more of your cognitive resources are already committed to stress, fatigue, sensory processing, illness, emotional regulation, or recovery, fewer resources remain available for executive functions.

The Same Person Can Look Completely Different

On higher-bandwidth days, someone may appear:

• Organized

• Focused

• Productive

• Flexible

• Emotionally regulated

• Decisive

• Socially engaged

On lower-bandwidth days, that same individual may experience greater difficulty with:

• Task initiation

• Working memory

• Organization

• Planning

• Prioritization

• Cognitive flexibility

• Emotional regulation

• Sustaining attention

The person’s intelligence hasn’t changed.

Their available cognitive resources have.

This Happens Across Many Conditions

Fluctuations in executive functioning are observed across numerous neurological, psychiatric, and medical conditions, including:

• ADHD

• Autism

• PTSD and Complex PTSD

• Anxiety disorders

• Depression

• OCD

• Chronic pain

• Long COVID

• Sleep disorders

• Traumatic brain injury

• Perimenopause and menopause

• Typical brains experiencing sufficiently high stress or cognitive load

Although the underlying mechanisms differ across conditions, many ultimately affect the efficiency with which prefrontal brain networks support executive functioning (Diamond, 2013; Snyder et al., 2015).

A Bandwidth Model Perspective

Traditional discussions often ask:

“Does this person have executive dysfunction?”

The Bandwidth Model™ encourages a different question:

“How much executive bandwidth is available right now?”

That subtle shift changes the focus from blaming character to understanding context.

Sometimes improving executive functioning isn’t primarily about teaching new skills.

Sometimes it’s about identifying and reducing the biological, emotional, cognitive, or environmental demands that are consuming the bandwidth those skills require.

Understanding why executive functioning fluctuates does not remove personal responsibility.

It improves the accuracy of our understanding.

When we recognize that executive functioning reflects the interaction between relatively stable neurobiology and constantly changing demands on cognitive resources, we can make more informed decisions about treatment, accommodations, recovery, and self-management.

Reducing unnecessary cognitive load doesn’t lower expectations.

It increases the likelihood that people can consistently access the executive capacities they already possess.

References

Arnsten, A. F. T. (2009). Stress signalling pathways that impair prefrontal cortex structure and function. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 10(6), 410-422. https://doi.org/10.1038/nrn2648

Diamond, A. (2013). Executive functions. Annual Review of Psychology, 64, 135-168. https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev-psych-113011-143750

Lim, J., & Dinges, D. F. (2010). A meta-analysis of the impact of short-term sleep deprivation on cognitive variables. Psychological Bulletin, 136(3), 375-389. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0018883

McEwen, B. S., & Morrison, J. H. (2013). The brain on stress: Vulnerability and plasticity of the prefrontal cortex over the life course. Neuron, 79(1), 16-29. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.neuron.2013.06.028

Snyder, H. R., Miyake, A., & Hankin, B. L. (2015). Advancing understanding of executive function impairments and psychopathology: Bridging the gap between clinical and cognitive approaches. Frontiers in Psychology, 6, 328. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2015.00328

Disclaimer: The Bandwidth Model™ is an original conceptual framework developed by Darcy Stephens, LPCC. It is intended to integrate and organize existing findings from neuroscience, psychology, and clinical practice into an accessible model for understanding fluctuations in cognitive, emotional, and behavioral functioning. It should not be interpreted as an independently validated scientific theory.

08/08/2026

Hormones & Neurodivergence: When Your Brain Isn’t the Only Thing Changing

One of the most overlooked influences on neurodivergent functioning is hormones.

Many autistic and ADHD individuals notice periods when their executive functioning, sensory processing, emotional regulation, and cognitive capacity seem to shift dramatically—even when their routines, stress levels, or environment haven’t changed much (Eng et al., 2024; Camara et al., 2022).

That doesn’t necessarily mean you’re “getting worse.”

Sometimes, your biology has changed.

Hormonal transitions are associated with changes in cognition, mood, sleep, and executive functioning. These changes are thought to be influenced, in part, by fluctuations in estrogen, progesterone, and other endocrine systems that interact with neurotransmitter systems—including dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, and GABA—as well as brain networks involved in attention, memory, and emotional regulation (Shansky & Woolley, 2016; Camara et al., 2022; Zhu et al., 2022).

Major hormonal transitions may include:

* Puberty
* Menstrual cycle fluctuations
* Premenstrual phase
* Pregnancy
* Postpartum recovery
* Breastfeeding
* Perimenopause
* Menopause
* Hormonal medical conditions or treatments (including hormone replacement therapy, hormonal contraception, or gender-affirming hormone therapy)

Many people report temporary changes such as:

* More difficulty initiating tasks
* Increased forgetfulness
* Reduced working memory
* Greater sensory sensitivity
* Increased emotional reactivity
* More cognitive fatigue
* Reduced tolerance for noise, heat, or multitasking
* Previously compensated autistic characteristics becoming more noticeable
* Executive function difficulties and ADHD-related symptoms becoming more difficult to compensate for

Research suggests these changes are particularly common during periods of significant hormonal fluctuation—including the late luteal phase of the menstrual cycle, postpartum, and the menopausal transition—although the severity, timing, and pattern vary substantially across individuals (Eng et al., 2024; Camara et al., 2022; Zhu et al., 2022).

Importantly, not every autistic or ADHD individual experiences clinically meaningful hormone-related changes, and those who do may experience them differently. Genetics, overall health, sleep, medications, stress, environmental demands, and co-occurring medical conditions all contribute to individual variability (Camara et al., 2022).

For some late-identified autistic adults and individuals with ADHD, periods of hormonal transition appear to coincide with the point at which lifelong compensatory strategies become less effective, making previously masked or compensated neurodevelopmental differences more apparent (Bargiela et al., 2016; Moseley et al., 2020).

The traits weren’t necessarily new.

The brain simply had less capacity to keep masking or compensating.

This fits well within the Bandwidth Model.

Current evidence suggests hormonal transitions do not alter the underlying neurodevelopmental architecture of autism or ADHD. Instead, they may influence how efficiently existing cognitive and regulatory systems function over time.

Within the Bandwidth Model, these hormonal influences can be conceptualized as temporarily altering available bandwidth rather than changing the underlying architecture itself.

As available bandwidth decreases, executive functions often become less efficient, sensory input becomes more difficult to filter, emotional regulation becomes more effortful, and cognitive resources are consumed more quickly.

Sleep Matters Too

Hormonal transitions commonly disrupt sleep quality and sleep continuity. Because sleep loss independently affects attention, executive functioning, working memory, emotional regulation, and sensory processing, it may amplify the cognitive changes associated with hormonal transitions. In many cases, reduced functioning likely reflects both hormonal influences and the additional physiological load created by disrupted sleep (Zhu et al., 2022).

The Nervous System Matters Too

Hormones also influence autonomic nervous system activity and physiological stress responsiveness. These changes may contribute to differences in arousal, emotional regulation, and overall physiological load, which can influence day-to-day cognitive functioning (Shansky & Woolley, 2016).

Heat Is Load

Many autistic and ADHD individuals report greater cognitive fatigue and reduced executive functioning during hot weather or vasomotor symptoms such as hot flashes. Heat increases physiological demands on the body and may indirectly affect cognition through fatigue, sleep disruption, dehydration, and increased physiological load. Although research specifically examining heat intolerance in neurodivergent adults remains limited, these experiences are commonly reported clinically and are consistent with broader literature on physiological stress and menopausal symptoms (Zhu et al., 2022).

The important point is this:

Not every increase in symptoms represents a worsening disorder.

Sometimes it reflects a nervous system working with fewer available resources because of temporary biological changes.

Understanding these patterns can reduce unnecessary self-blame and improve clinical assessment.

Instead of asking,

“Why am I suddenly falling apart?”

It may be more accurate to ask,

“What additional load is my nervous system carrying right now?”

Capacity is dynamic.

Architecture may remain relatively stable, but available bandwidth can fluctuate considerably as hormones, sleep disruption, illness, chronic stress, sensory load, and other biological factors change (Shansky & Woolley, 2016).

From a clinical perspective, it may be worth asking not only,

“What symptoms are present?”

but also,

“Where is this person in their hormonal life stage?”

That question doesn’t replace careful assessment or differential diagnosis—but it may provide important context for understanding why someone’s functioning has changed.

Clinicians should also consider alternative or co-occurring explanations—including thyroid disorders, anemia, sleep disorders, medication effects, nutritional deficiencies, depression, anxiety, and other medical conditions—when evaluating new cognitive or emotional symptoms during hormonal transitions.

Recognizing these interactions doesn’t eliminate responsibility for our actions.

It improves our understanding of why functioning changes—and helps us choose interventions that better match what the nervous system actually needs.

Darcy Stephens, LPCC



Bandwidth Model™ Disclaimer

The Bandwidth Model™ is an original conceptual framework developed to help organize and communicate current scientific knowledge about neurodevelopment, cognitive capacity, nervous system regulation, and environmental load. It integrates findings from multiple areas of research but has not yet been empirically validated as an independent scientific model. References included in this post support the individual scientific concepts discussed and should not be interpreted as direct validation of the Bandwidth Model™ itself.



References

Bargiela, S., Steward, R., & Mandy, W. (2016). The experiences of late-diagnosed women with autism spectrum conditions. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 46(10), 3281–3294. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10803-016-2872-8

Camara, B., Padoin, C., & Bolea, B. (2022). Relationship between s*x hormones, reproductive stages and ADHD: A systematic review. Archives of Women’s Mental Health, 25(1), 1–8. https://doi.org/10.1007/s00737-021-01181-w

Eng, A. G., et al. (2024). Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder and the menstrual cycle: Theory and evidence. Hormones and Behavior, 158, 105466. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.yhbeh.2023.105466

Moseley, R. L., Druce, T., & Turner-Cobb, J. M. (2020). “When my autism broke”: A qualitative study spotlighting autistic voices on menopause. Autism, 24(6), 1423–1437. https://doi.org/10.1177/1362361319901184

Shansky, R. M., & Woolley, C. S. (2016). Considering s*x as a biological variable will improve neuroscience research. Journal of Neuroscience, 36(47), 11817–11822. https://doi.org/10.1523/JNEUROSCI.1390-16.2016

Zhu, C., Thomas, N., Arunogiri, S., & Gurvich, C. (2022). Systematic review and narrative synthesis of cognition in perimenopause: The role of risk factors and menopausal symptoms. Maturitas, 164, 76–86. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.maturitas.2022.06.010

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