Sapere Law & Mediation, APC

Sapere Law & Mediation, APC High-level Lawyering and Mediation for Clients with Family, Business, and Asset Protection Issues. You worry about money. You fear losing your future.
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~Divorce Lawyers~
Protecting your family and your future.

~Business Lawyers~
Structuring business right, planning for your success.

~Asset and Family Protection Lawyers~
Crafting your wills and trusts through strategic estate planning. When you have big problems in your marriage, family, or business, it's overwhelming. We provide clear, action-packed plans to tame those problems. . . We go bey

ond the technical law and into the practical side of life. . . We coach you on how to successfully handle all the personal and
financial issues that come at you. We guide you every step of the way – out of conflict and into the secure future you deserve.

08/04/2026

If you're divorcing a business owner, be careful not to let frustration turn into a costly mistake.

I'm currently handling two cases where one spouse attempted to take control of the business during the divorce. Employees were disrupted, business property was taken, and the business itself suffered.

If the business has community value, harming that business can hurt both spouses and may expose you to sanctions or other legal consequences.

There are lawful ways to obtain financial records and business information without interfering with operations.

Informational only. Not legal advice.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn how divorce mediation can protect your business and help you resolve your divorce with less conflict, or to schedule a consultation.

08/03/2026

What should you wear to court, mediation or arbitration?

It isn't about expensive clothing. It's about showing respect for the process and making the best possible first impression.

Over the years I've seen clients arrive dressed appropriately... and I've seen others show up in outfits that distracted everyone in the courtroom for all the wrong reasons.

If you're heading into an important legal proceeding, take a few extra minutes to dress like you're attending an important business meeting. It sends the right message before you ever speak.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn more or schedule a consultation.

Informational only. Not legal advice.

08/02/2026

Can a husband receive spousal support in California?

Yes.

California courts don't award spousal support based on gender. They consider each spouse's income, earning ability, health, disability, and many other factors.

In today's video, I answer a question from a stay-at-home husband who became disabled after losing part of his leg. He wanted to know whether he could receive spousal support and whether he could remain in the family home during the divorce.

Every case is different, but don't assume you have no rights simply because you're the husband.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to connect with our Client Liaison and schedule a consultation.

Information only. Not legal advice.

08/01/2026

Who gets the dog?

It's one of the most emotional questions many couples face during a divorce.

To most families, pets aren't just property. They're part of the family.

During mediation, I always make sure we create a thoughtful plan for the furry members of the family, including where they'll live, how expenses will be shared, and what arrangement is best for them.

A well-crafted agreement can reduce conflict and give everyone, including your pets, a smoother transition into the next chapter.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to schedule your confidential consultation.

This post is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice.

07/31/2026

Can your spouse use money to keep you trapped in the marital home?

One spouse earns substantially more and pays most of the household bills. The other spouse cannot afford to move out without child and spousal support. But the higher-earning spouse refuses to provide any support until a judge officially orders it.

So, is the lower-earning spouse stuck?

Not necessarily.

In California family court, we have successfully approached this situation by presenting the judge with a concrete move-out plan, including:

The proposed rental home
The monthly rent
The security deposit
The intended move-in date
Reasonable moving expenses
Utility deposits and startup costs
The anticipated post-move budget
The proposed parenting schedule

The court may consider ordering an initial amount to make the move possible and then setting a return hearing shortly after the move to evaluate ongoing child and spousal support.

The judge will also consider that the higher-earning spouse is currently paying most of the household expenses. That means the result is not automatic and will depend on the specific facts, the parties’ incomes, the children’s needs, and the proposed living arrangements.

But one spouse should not assume that controlling the money gives them the power to prevent the other spouse from leaving.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn more about California divorce mediation and private settlement options.

Informational only; not legal advice.

07/30/2026

Will your divorce ever settle?

One of the biggest fears people have is that their spouse will never agree to mediation or settlement.

Today I watched a case where that seemed exactly true.

The parties came to court to deal with immediate issues. Once those issues were resolved, they were able to negotiate outside the courtroom and begin settling the case.

Sometimes people need to see what litigation really looks like before they become willing to compromise.

That is why I always tell clients not to lose hope. Mediation often succeeds because the timing is finally right.

If your goal is to stay out of a lengthy court battle, keep the door open to settlement.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn more about California divorce mediation.

Information only. Not legal advice.

07/29/2026

Six years together. Children. A home and an entire life built as a family.

Does California treat you as married?

Generally, no.

California does not recognize a common-law marriage created merely because two people lived together—even when they raised children and presented themselves as a family.

If unmarried parents separate, they will generally have a parentage case addressing custody, parenting time and child support. They do not ordinarily have a divorce case, spousal support rights or automatic community-property claims to assets accumulated in the other partner’s name.

That can include retirement benefits accumulated while the couple was living together but not married.

There are limited circumstances in which an unmarried partner may pursue claims based on an agreement between the parties, sometimes referred to as Marvin claims. Those claims are uncommon and are very different from the protections provided by California’s marital-property laws.

The difficult reality is that you can build an entire family together and still lack the legal rights of a spouse.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn more about California family law and mediation.

Informational only; not legal advice.

07/28/2026

Who really has the final vote in your divorce settlement?

It may not be you.

Professional mediators have a saying: "Make sure you have all the witches at the table."

That doesn't mean your new partner should attend the mediation. In most cases, they shouldn't.

It means that if you're going to go home, discuss the proposed settlement with your new boyfriend or girlfriend, and their opinion could change your mind, then they have what I call a **quiet vote**.

One conversation after mediation can undo hours of successful negotiations.

That's why experienced mediators work to identify the people who have a quiet vote before everyone believes there's a final agreement.

This is Part 4 of my Witches at the Table series.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn more and connect with our Client Liaison.

Informational only. Not legal advice.





07/26/2026

Sunday reminder...

If you’re going through a divorce, don’t let it consume every minute of your weekend.

The court will still be there tomorrow.
The emails can wait.
The paperwork can wait.

One of the hardest parts of divorce is feeling like you always have to be “on”—thinking, planning, worrying, or preparing for the next step.

You don’t.

Whether it’s sitting by the pool, taking a walk, reading a book, or spending time with people who make you smile, give yourself permission to recharge today. Your future deserves the healthiest version of you.

Have a peaceful Sunday.

Visit www.SapereLawFirm.com to learn more about divorce mediation and family law in California.

Informational only. Not legal advice.

07/23/2026

What if the person who could destroy your divorce settlement isn’t even sitting at the negotiation table?

Professional mediators have a saying:

“Make sure you have all the witches at the table.”

It’s mediation shorthand for identifying every person—or influence—that could unravel your agreement after everyone leaves.

Over the next several weeks, I’m going to share real examples of these “witches” and how recognizing them early can save thousands of dollars, months of litigation, and failed settlement negotiations.

Visit SapereLawFirm.com to learn more and connect with our Client Liaison.

Informational only. Not legal advice.





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