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I help women recover from body shame and increase their well-being through mindful movement & body aw Compassionate Movement For Body Love. But we need help.

I help women access their physical, spiritual, and emotional well-being through mindful movement and body-awareness. I work as a guide and collaborator to release stuck patterns and feelings, recover from body shame, and develop a more loving relationship with ourselves. You’ve come to the right place if:
*You love moving but don’t particularly enjoy regimented exercise
*You want a HAES®-aligned

movement experience where you feel truly accepted and comfortable
*You would like to reconnect to joy, freedom, playfulness and pleasure inherent in movement
*You want to move your body but worry you’re out of shape, don’t have the “right” body, are too old, or feel too uncoordinated
*You’re tired of struggling with shame and are looking to accept your body
*You want to explore your emotions with intuition, flow, and curiosity, rather than through analysis and logic

What I believe in
I believe in the body as our greatest teacher. I believe the body has information that our mind has walled off, that all of our life experiences accumulate to create our physical and emotional ecosystem, and we must address them all if we want to transform the system. We are built to survive, and I celebrate that. But often, what we need to survive does not serve us to thrive. We need our body to tell us what it feels, desires, and wants to release. The mind cannot do this work because it doesn’t hold that material. The body holds our past, and it is up to the body to release and transform it. When a person is met with radical acceptance through a compassionate, open, non-judgmental presence, they feel safe enough to become vulnerable and meet their authentic self. This is where the healing process can begin. I believe we can heal in an infinite number of ways: through sensual movement, playful invention, and communal connection. I believe in release, compassion, acceptance, honesty, and the body as the brain. I believe in listening, in being at the service of healing others, in the power of community. How I do this
As a therapist and healer my job is not to analyze, give advice or direct the client, but rather to make space for them to connect with the story their own body has to tell. I know that my clients are the best experts on their life. We use the body, and movement, as the map to the treasure chest of our feelings, needs, and memories. Joyful movement allows for freedom from shame, develops feelings of respect for our bodies, and generates momentum towards a deeper happiness and sense of peace. I provide an inclusive space for people to move without worrying about their shape, size, fitness level or experience. I create a love and acceptance-filled environment where respect, compassion, generosity, and delight are central to everything we do. About Odelia
Odelia has trained across multiple Somatics platforms including Bartenieff Fundamentals, Laban Movement Analysis, Body-Mind Centering™ (BMC), Yoga, and more. She has a BA in Psychology from The Open University, and was certified as a Doula by DONA (Doulas of North America) in 2003. She subsequently was certified as a Structural Yoga instructor through the Stone Center in 2004. In 2005, She graduated from the Leven Institute with dual certifications in Shake Your Soul™ and SomaSoul™and was certified as a Somatic Movement Therapist through ISMETA. She later became a teacher in Re-evaluation Counseling (RC), and has been counseling and teaching co-counseling privately and in groups since then. She started her Somatic and Movement Education Company, Movement Bliss, in 2013, offering classes and workshops, both live and virtual to hundreds of women. Recently, Odelia embarked on training in Intuitive Eating, and will soon be an IE practitioner. Her work focuses on self-acceptance, inclusion, compassion, and joy, and is HAES™-aligned.

09/02/2026

Most people inherit a relationship template.

There’s even a name for it: the relationship escalator.

It’s the idea that relationships are supposed to follow a predictable path: meet, date, become exclusive, move in together, merge your lives, and continue toward greater commitment and entanglement.

For many people, that works beautifully.

But when something isn’t working, we often assume there are only two choices:
Stay and continue feeling unfulfilled.
Or leave.

What if that’s a false choice?

What if the problem isn’t the relationship itself, but some of the assumptions we’ve inherited about what relationships are supposed to look like?

We live in a culture that gives us a fairly narrow template for love and partnership. Most of us absorb it long before we’re old enough to question it.

But relationship structures are not laws of nature. They’re agreements.

And agreements can be examined, questioned, and redesigned.

For some people, that means creating a stronger monogamous relationship.

For others, it might mean more autonomy, stronger community outside the partnership, different expectations around intimacy, separate bedrooms, living apart together, or consensual non-monogamy.

The goal isn’t to be unconventional.
The goal is to create a relationship where everyone involved has the best chance of thriving.

Sometimes the most important question isn’t:
“Should we stay together?”
It’s:
“What possibilities haven’t we considered yet?”

Helping people explore those possibilities, without shame, pressure, or assumptions about what the “right” answer is, is one of my favorite parts of this work.

If you’re feeling stuck between accepting things as they are and ending a relationship, let’s talk.

Book a free consultation through the link in my bio

What relationship assumption have you questioned lately?

08/31/2026

And I love calling him my boyfriend.

I love when he calls me his girlfriend.

Recently, we were talking about what makes each of us feel like the other is ours.

For him, it’s the way I’m completely with him when we’re together.

For me, I realized that part of it is being claimed.

The other day he casually texted me, “Hey there girlfriend,” and something in me melted.

Girlfriend.

There I was. Named.

Not his only relationship. Not his wife.

His girlfriend.

There is a place in his life that is mine.

Because yes, my boyfriend is married. I have other partners and I date.

And still, there are moments when I feel very deeply: this man is mine.

Not because I own him.

Not because I have exclusive access to his body, his time, or his love.

But because we belong to each other.

Being polyamorous doesn’t mean I don’t long to feel chosen. I do.

I want commitment. I want security. I want to belong.

I’m discovering that belonging and exclusivity don’t have to mean the same thing.

Someone can choose you deeply without choosing only you.

And no, I don’t believe polyamory is a better or more evolved way to have relationships.

Non-monogamy can offer tremendous freedom, and bring us face-to-face with jealousy, insecurity, attachment wounds, and the reality of sharing someone we love.

Some people genuinely thrive in that complexity. Others feel safest, freest, and most themselves in monogamy.

Neither is more evolved. The question is what allows you to love most authentically.

So yes, this is also a little bit of a coming-out post.

I’m polyamorous.

And I want you to know this is something you can bring into the room with me.

If you’re curious about non-monogamy, exploring whether it might be right for you, or already practicing it and struggling with what it brings up, this is territory I understand both professionally and personally.

And I’m curious:

What have you always wanted to ask someone who is polyamorous?

Ask me here or DM me privately.

There are many ways to love.

And you still get to belong.

08/26/2026

One of the biggest misunderstandings people bring into relationships is this idea that it’s your job to make your partner happy.

And a lot of people, especially men, are deeply socialized to believe that if their partner is upset, they’ve failed.

But intimacy doesn’t work that way.

You cannot make another person happy by abandoning yourself.
You cannot build a deeply connected relationship by constantly shaping yourself into whoever you think your partner needs you to be.

That doesn’t mean being careless or cruel.
It doesn’t mean “I’m just being honest” while disregarding someone’s feelings.
It means being true to yourself while remaining accountable, empathic, and emotionally present.

Because if you get close enough to someone, you will eventually trigger each other.
Not because the relationship is broken.
But because intimacy touches old wounds.

Most of us carry pain from earlier experiences:
feeling rejected,
unimportant,
controlled,
abandoned,
criticized,
too much,
or not enough.

And eventually, even loving partners will brush against those places.

The mistake is taking every emotional reaction personally and making it mean:
“I’m bad.”
“I failed.”
“I ruined everything.”

Sometimes your partner’s reaction is not only about what just happened.
Sometimes something older got touched too.
And if you become so afraid of triggering each other that you avoid hard conversations, honesty, boundaries, differences, or emotional truth altogether, intimacy slowly disappears.

People start performing harmony instead of actually feeling connected.
Avoiding triggers may create short-term peace.
But long-term, it creates distance.
Real intimacy is not the absence of emotional activation.
It’s the ability to stay connected when something tender gets touched.

Not fixing immediately.
Not shutting down.
Not disappearing.
Not abandoning yourself.
Not trying to manage your partner out of their humanity.
Just staying present long enough for something real to happen between you.

This is deeply connected to the work I do with clients:
helping people build the capacity to stay connected through emotional activation without collapsing into shame, defensiveness, or self-abandonment.

Book a free consultation through the link in my bio .

08/24/2026

Just because you’re attracted to unavailable people doesn’t mean you have to be attracted to every available person.

You finally meet someone who’s interested. They initiate. They follow through. They’re kind and consistent.

They’re doing all the things you’ve been saying you want.

And… your body isn’t responding.

So you wonder: Is this my attachment pattern? Am I so accustomed to unavailable people that availability feels boring?

Maybe.

When your nervous system has learned to associate romantic intensity with uncertainty: the waiting, longing, wondering, and relief when they finally reach out, availability can feel strangely quiet.

And quiet can be mistaken for a lack of chemistry.

But there’s another possibility:

Maybe you’re just not attracted to them.

Availability doesn’t manufacture chemistry. Healing doesn’t mean overriding your body because someone checks the “healthy” boxes.

The work is learning to distinguish the intensity that comes from uncertainty from the genuine spark of desire.

So instead of asking whether there are fireworks, ask:

Do I want them a little closer?

Am I curious about touching or kissing them?

Is there smething about their energy, voice, mind, humor, or body that draws me toward them?

If there’s a quiet spark, maybe it’s worth giving it some room. Attraction doesn’t always arrive with adrenaline.

But if there’s simply no erotic or romantic pull, you don’t have to turn another human being into an experiment in learning to tolerate availability.

The goal isn’t to learn to want the available person.

It’s to find someone you genuinely desire who is also available to you.

You’re allowed to want both.

This is part of the work I do as a somatic s*x and relationship coach: helping people untangle attraction, attachment, and desire so they can hear what their bodies are actually telling them.

If this is something you’re navigating, book a free consultation call by clicking the link in the bio

08/19/2026

It’s part of attraction.
Part of hope.
Part of being emotionally open.

Projection becomes a problem only when we refuse to update the fantasy once reality starts giving us more information.

Sometimes the projection gets confirmed.
The emotional connection deepens.
The chemistry translates beautifully into real life.
The person feels even better in reality than they did in our imagination.

And sometimes reality reveals incompatibility.
Not because anyone is bad or wrong.
But because attraction alone doesn’t determine whether two nervous systems, communication styles, emotional needs, relational patterns, or ways of loving actually fit together.

Sometimes you realize:
I’m more self-monitoring than relaxed around this person.
Or:
I’m trying too hard to figure out what they want from me.
Or:
I don’t actually feel emotionally nourished in this dynamic.

That’s important information.

This is something I explore often in my work as a secs and relationship coach:
helping people differentiate between chemistry, projection, attachment activation, genuine compatibility, and nervous-system nourishment.

Because attraction alone doesn’t always tell us whether a relationship is actually good for us.
Growth isn’t becoming less hopeful or less open to connection.
It’s becoming more honest with ourselves when reality starts revealing what’s actually here.

Chemistry matters.

But so does how your body feels after the interaction.
Sometimes the biggest green flag isn’t intensity.
It’s how deeply your nervous system gets to exhale.

If you want support navigating dating, intimacy, attachment, desire, or relationship patterns in a more embodied and emotionally honest way, I offer one-on-one coaching sessions.

Book a free consultation by clicking the link in the bio

08/17/2026

Last week I participated in a Somatica®️ immersion retreat, led by Celeste and Danielle, the co-founders of the method.

One of the greatest gifts was simply being surrounded by people who speak the same intimacy language, one that is less concerned with what relationships are supposed to look like and more interested in desire, choice, consent, pleasure, and what actually works for the people involved.

I also got to see how much I’ve grown since I attended this retreat two years ago. And I found myself thinking about what has influenced that growth the most.

I think I landed on it:

A fierce commitment to slaying shame.

For years, I was invested in figuring out the “right” way to live and love.

I’m learning to ask different questions instead:

What if, rather than trying to change our tendencies, we understand them? What if we ask how we can maximize the pleasure, minimize the harm, make conscious choices, and even have fun with who we are?

Maybe something popular psychology labels “unhealthy” actually makes sense for you right now. Maybe, knowing the tradeoffs, you still decide it’s worth it.

Who gets to tell you that you’re doing your life wrong?

This is one of the things I love most about Somatica: we don’t tell people what to do. We help people understand their choices without making them wrong, and support them in exploring something different if and when they want to.

Because one of the greatest paradoxes I’ve learned is:

The possibility for change begins with radical acceptance, and radical acceptance means not requiring change.

As someone who’s been an acceptance seeker all my life, this is the kind of practitioner, and human, I want to be:

A shame warrior.
For my clients.
For the people I love.
And for myself.

If you’re tired of trying to fix yourself and want to explore your relationships and desires from a place of curiosity rather than shame book a free consultation by clicking the link in the bio

08/12/2026

We’ve been taught that intimacy means telling each other everything.

Every thought.
Every attraction.
Every fantasy.
Every emotional reaction.
That complete transparency is the highest form of love.

But I’m not sure that’s true. Modern relationships carry enormous emotional expectations.

Our partners are expected to be:
lover,
best friend,
confidant,
therapist,
and witness to our entire inner world.

And somewhere along the way, many of us started equating intimacy with full disclosure.
But intimacy does not require the collapse of all boundaries.

Privacy is not the same thing as deception.

Not every thought needs to be spoken the moment it arises.

Not every attraction is a crisis.

Not every inner process belongs inside the relationship before we’ve had the chance to sit with it ourselves.

Sometimes disclosure deepens intimacy.

And sometimes it’s an attempt to relieve anxiety, guilt, or uncertainty by outsourcing our internal process onto our partner.

This is something I explore often in my work as a secs and relationship coach:
How do we create deep intimacy without losing individuality, mystery, autonomy, and inner sovereignty?

Because intimacy is not fusion.
And emotional maturity is not the inability to tolerate uncertainty.

Sometimes love requires honesty.
And sometimes love also requires discernment about what is meant to be shared, when, and why.

If you want support navigating intimacy, desire, communication, and relational patterns in a more embodied and nuanced way, I offer one-on-one coaching.

Book a free consultation by clicking the link in the bio

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