09/08/2026
You Can Set a Boundary Without Explaining Yourself 47 Times
If setting boundaries makes you feel guilty, you're not alone.
You might find yourself saying:
"I'm sorry, but..."
"I know this probably sounds selfish..."
"I just feel bad because..."
Here's your reminder:
A boundary doesn't require a courtroom defense.
You are allowed to say no.
You're allowed to change your mind.
You're allowed to protect your time and energy.
And yes—someone can be disappointed by your boundary without your boundary being wrong.
Therapy can be a great place to work on people-pleasing, guilt, communication, and boundary-setting.
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