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Susan Grau Susan Grau is an internationally recognized Intuitive Medium and inspirational speaker. Susan has reached 49.8K clients within her career.

Renowned Inspirational Speaker | Intuitive Life Coach | Medium | Grief Specialist | Hay House | Bestselling Author “Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons” | TV Personality | Gaia | Tubi | Goop | Documentary “Beyond the Grave” | The Drew Barrymore Show | CBS A celebrity reader, she has been featured on Lifetime TV, in Gwyneth Paltrow’s GOOP, The Hollywood Reporter, Vancouver Sun News, Style and Society Magazine, Famous Mediums, and others. She is also featured on James Van Praagh’s exclusively preferred mediums website. When Susan was four years old, she had a near-death experience that opened her innate psychic abilities to communicate with those across the veil. Susan completed her doctorate of divinity degree with Dr. Raymond Moody, famous for his studies of near-death experiences. She holds certifications and trainings as a Professional Medium / Life Path Intuitive, Reiki Master, Sai Maa Diksha Practitioner, Karuna Practitioner, Healing Touch Professional through the Healing Touch Professional Association (HTPA), Professional Teacher of the Metaphysical Arts, Hypnotherapist specializing in Past Life Regression, and Certified CADC II - Addiction and Grief Specialist. In her private practice, Susan offers a variety of services, including Mediumship Readings, Intuitive Life Path Readings, Spiritual & Life Coaching, Reiki Sessions, Chakra Clearing, and Hypnotherapy / Past Life Regressions. Susan believes in using her God-given gifts to help others heal after loss. Her goal is to help others who seek to understand the afterlife and heal the deep soul pain of grief. Within the past year, Susan has premiered five series, The Cecil Hotel Series, The Biltmore Hotel Series, The Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel Series, Orange Circle Psychometry Series and King Richard’s Psychometry Series. Two new series are currently in production. Susan recently filmed with Bravo, for the Real Housewives of Orange County. Susan Grau has featured in several films and documentaries on spirituality, mediumship, the afterlife and near death experiences, most recently “Beyond The Grave” with Dr. Eben Alexander. In 2023, Susan will appear in several films and television series. A documentary on Susan Grau’s life story will begin production in April of 2023, while promoting her book, “Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons”. Susan’s team is currently in the process of preparing for a national book tour and press campaign for 2023 - 2024.

There is a very important difference between someone who is afraid of hurting you and someone who is afraid of being hel...
10/19/2026

There is a very important difference between someone who is afraid of hurting you and someone who is afraid of being held accountable for hurting you. 🤍

For my beautiful empaths, I want you to think about this.

Have you ever found yourself apologizing just to end an argument, even when you were the one who was hurt?

Have you ever tried to explain your feelings to someone, only to have the conversation turned around until you were comforting them instead?

Empaths often feel things so deeply that the thought of causing another person pain can be unbearable. We question ourselves, replay conversations, and sometimes take responsibility for emotions that were never ours to carry.

But when someone repeatedly dismisses your feelings, refuses accountability, or makes you feel guilty for expressing your pain, that is something you need to pay attention to.

There is a difference between making a mistake and refusing to take responsibility for it.

Healthy relationships are not about never hurting one another. We are human, and misunderstandings happen.

What matters is what happens afterward.

Can someone acknowledge your feelings? Can they apologize without making excuses? Can they recognize the impact of their actions and genuinely try to do better?

You deserve relationships where accountability is an expression of love, not something you have to beg for.

And please remember, having a compassionate heart does not mean you have to keep accepting behavior that hurts you.

You can love someone, understand their wounds, and still choose to protect your peace. 🤍✨

Have you ever experienced someone turning your hurt into something you had to apologize for? I would love to hear your thoughts below.

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The people who are truly meant to be part of your life will never ask you to become less of yourself in order to be love...
10/18/2026

The people who are truly meant to be part of your life will never ask you to become less of yourself in order to be loved. 🤍

Sometimes, without even realizing it, we begin making ourselves smaller to keep the people around us comfortable.

We stop sharing our dreams because someone makes us feel foolish for having them. We silence our opinions to avoid conflict. We hide the parts of ourselves that others don’t understand, hoping that if we become easier to love, we will finally feel accepted.

But love was never meant to require you to abandon yourself.

The right people will not be threatened by your growth. They will celebrate it.

They will encourage you to discover who you are, pursue what brings you joy, and continue becoming the person you were always meant to be.

And sometimes, as we grow spiritually and emotionally, certain relationships begin to change.

That does not mean those relationships were meaningless. Some people are part of our journey for a season, while others continue walking beside us as we evolve.

You do not have to resent someone because your paths are no longer aligned.

You can appreciate what they brought into your life and still recognize that you are growing in different directions.

Please don’t make yourself smaller just to fit into a place you have outgrown.

You deserve relationships where your voice matters, your dreams are respected, and your authentic self is welcomed. 🤍✨

What is one part of yourself you are learning to embrace instead of hiding? I would love to hear from you below. 🦋

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Sometimes the hardest part of grief is the silence. 🤍It’s the quiet moments when you reach for your phone to call someon...
10/18/2026

Sometimes the hardest part of grief is the silence. 🤍

It’s the quiet moments when you reach for your phone to call someone who is no longer physically here. The empty space beside you. The conversations you wish you could have one more time. The moments when the world continues moving, but your heart is still searching for someone you love.

I know that silence. I know what it feels like to miss someone so deeply that words cannot begin to explain the ache.

But through my own experiences with loss and my connection, I have come to believe something beautiful.

Love does not end when physical life ends.

Our loved ones may no longer be here in the way we wish they were, but I believe the connection we share with them continues.

Sometimes we feel that love through a familiar song, a dream, a memory, or a quiet moment when we sense their presence.

And sometimes, when we are hurting the most, simply allowing ourselves to be still can bring a little comfort.

Please remember that you do not have to stop missing someone to begin healing. You do not have to forget their voice, their laughter, or the life you shared.

The love you carry is still part of your story. 🤍

If you’re missing someone today, I want to share something special with you.

🦋 Comment “HEAL” and I’ll send you a FREE guided meditation to help you quiet your mind, open your heart, and connect with your loved ones on the other side. ✨

And if you feel comfortable, share your loved one’s name below. I would love to honor their memory with you. 🤍

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There comes a point in an empath’s life when giving everything to everyone else becomes too much. 🤍For so long, you have...
10/17/2026

There comes a point in an empath’s life when giving everything to everyone else becomes too much. 🤍

For so long, you have been the person who understands, forgives, listens, and tries to make everything better.

You explain yourself because you don’t want to be misunderstood. You overthink because you don’t want to hurt anyone. You give more than you have because the thought of disappointing someone feels unbearable.

And eventually, you become exhausted.

But something begins to change when you start healing.

You realize that understanding someone’s pain does not mean you have to carry it. That loving someone does not mean allowing them to hurt you. And that being a compassionate person does not require you to abandon yourself.

At first, setting boundaries may feel uncomfortable. You may feel guilty for saying no or choosing your own needs.

But please remember, guilt does not always mean you have done something wrong. Sometimes it simply means you are doing something differently.

To my beautiful empaths, I want you to understand that healing does not mean becoming cold, selfish, or less loving.

It means learning to give yourself the same compassion you have spent your entire life giving everyone else.

You can still have a beautiful, sensitive heart and protect your peace. 🤍✨

Where are you in your healing journey right now? Are you learning to set boundaries, struggling with guilt, or finally finding peace?

I would love to hear from you in the comments. 🦋

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One of the greatest lessons an empath can learn is that not everyone who hears your words is willing to understand your ...
10/12/2026

One of the greatest lessons an empath can learn is that not everyone who hears your words is willing to understand your heart. 🤍

For so many empaths, being misunderstood can feel unbearable.

We explain ourselves over and over. We try to find kinder words, soften our emotions, and communicate our intentions more clearly because we genuinely believe that if someone could just understand how we feel, things would finally change.

But what happens when someone continues to twist your words, dismiss your feelings, or make you question yourself no matter how carefully you explain?

Eventually, you have to ask yourself whether the problem is really how you are communicating.

You cannot create understanding with someone who is unwilling to listen.

This is especially important for empaths who have experienced relationships with narcissistic or emotionally manipulative patterns.

Healing begins when you realize that you do not need to convince someone that your feelings are valid.

You are allowed to stop explaining.
You are allowed to set boundaries.
You are allowed to walk away from conversations that repeatedly leave you feeling unheard.

And most importantly, you are allowed to find peace without receiving the apology, acknowledgment, or understanding you once desperately wanted.

Your healing does not require someone else’s permission. 🤍✨

To my beautiful empaths, have you ever reached the point where you stopped explaining yourself and finally chose your peace?

I would love to hear what that experience taught you in the comments.

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Sometimes your body recognizes that something is wrong long before your heart is ready to accept it. 🤍For my beautiful e...
10/12/2026

Sometimes your body recognizes that something is wrong long before your heart is ready to accept it. 🤍

For my beautiful empaths, this is something I want you to pay attention to.

Have you ever noticed your stomach tighten when a certain person’s name appears on your phone? Or found yourself rehearsing conversations, choosing every word carefully, afraid that saying the wrong thing might upset them?

Maybe you leave their presence feeling completely exhausted. Maybe you find yourself apologizing when you haven’t done anything wrong. Maybe you have become so accustomed to keeping the peace that you have forgotten what peace actually feels like.

When we spend time in relationships where we feel criticized, manipulated, or emotionally unsafe, our bodies can begin responding to that stress even when we are trying to convince ourselves everything is fine.

And for empaths, who often feel responsible for the emotions of everyone around them, these patterns can become especially difficult to recognize.

Love should not require you to live in a constant state of fear or anticipation.

Your compassion does not mean you have to tolerate mistreatment. Your understanding of someone’s pain does not make you responsible for healing them.

And your ability to see the good in someone does not mean you have to ignore how they make you feel.

Please listen to yourself. Your feelings deserve attention, even when you cannot yet explain them.

You deserve relationships where you can speak freely, express your emotions, and feel safe being exactly who you are. 🤍✨

Have you ever experienced your body reacting to someone before you understood why? I would love to hear your thoughts below.

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Grief has no expiration date. 🤍There are days when you feel like you’re finally finding your way forward, and then somet...
10/12/2026

Grief has no expiration date. 🤍

There are days when you feel like you’re finally finding your way forward, and then something as simple as a song, a familiar scent, or a memory brings the ache rushing back.

Suddenly, you miss them as deeply as you did the day they left.

Please understand something I have learned through my own experiences with loss.

You are not going backward just because you are having a difficult day.

Grief is not a journey with a finish line. There is no moment when your heart is suddenly expected to stop missing someone you loved so deeply.

Some days, healing looks like finding joy again. Other days, it looks like allowing yourself to cry, remembering their voice, or simply getting through the day.

And that is enough.

I believe that although our loved ones leave their physical bodies, the love connecting us does not disappear. That beautiful bond continues beyond this lifetime.

You can carry your grief and still experience moments of happiness. You can miss them terribly and still find reasons to smile.

Healing does not mean forgetting. It means learning to live with love in a different form. 🤍

If you are missing someone today, I want to offer you something special.

🦋 Comment “HEAL” and I’ll send you a FREE guided meditation to help you quiet your mind, open your heart, and connect with your loved ones on the other side. ✨

And if you feel comfortable, tell me their name in the comments. I would love to honor their memory with you. 🤍

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📖 My Hay House book, “INFINITE LIFE, INFINITE LESSONS” is an international bestseller! Get your copy now everywhere books are sold!
🎁 Did you love my book? If so, please write a review or share it with a friend who may need its message.
🎙️ Tune into the “Infinite Life, Infinite Wisdom” podcast!
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One of the most difficult things for an empath to understand is that not everyone will celebrate your healing. When you ...
10/11/2026

One of the most difficult things for an empath to understand is that not everyone will celebrate your healing.

When you are someone who feels deeply, loves unconditionally, and naturally wants to see the good in others, it can be heartbreaking to realize that certain people were more comfortable with the version of you who had no boundaries.

The version who always forgave.
Who constantly explained herself.
Who felt responsible for everyone else’s emotions.
Who needed reassurance that she was loved.

But something beautiful happens when an empath begins to heal.

You stop confusing guilt with responsibility. You stop needing everyone to understand your decisions. You learn that protecting your peace does not make you selfish.

And when someone who once controlled the relationship through guilt, manipulation, or emotional pressure realizes those things no longer work, your growth may be met with resistance.

Your healing is not an attack on anyone else.

You can be compassionate without being available to everyone. You can forgive without reopening the door. You can love someone and recognize that having them in your life is no longer healthy for you.

And perhaps one of the greatest lessons of all is realizing that you do not need someone’s approval to choose yourself.

To my beautiful empaths, your sensitivity is a gift. Please don’t lose it while learning to protect it. 🤍

What boundary has brought you the most peace? I would love to hear from you in the comments.

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🎙️ Tune into the “Infinite Life, Infinite Wisdom” podcast!
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Life has a way of teaching us lessons we never imagined we would have to learn. 🤍Some come through beautiful moments of ...
10/11/2026

Life has a way of teaching us lessons we never imagined we would have to learn. 🤍

Some come through beautiful moments of love and joy. Others come through heartbreak, grief, and experiences we would never have chosen.

I have experienced both.

There have been moments in my life when I questioned everything. When loss felt unbearable and I wondered how I would ever find my way forward.

But through my journey, I have come to believe that our souls are continually learning, growing, and evolving.

Sometimes our greatest growth comes from the experiences that challenge us the most.

That doesn’t mean we have to be grateful for our pain or find a beautiful explanation for every loss.

It means that even after unimaginable heartbreak, we can discover compassion, strength, wisdom, and love we never knew we carried.

This is one of the messages I share in my book, Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons.

I wrote it to help others understand that our lives have meaning, our souls have purpose, and the love we share continues beyond this physical world.

If you’re going through a difficult chapter, please remember that your story is still unfolding. There is still love to experience and so much more to your journey. 🤍✨

📖 Comment “INFINITE” and I’ll send you the link to my book directly to your DMs!

If you’ve already read it, I would be so grateful if you left a review or shared it with someone who may need its message. 🦋

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🎙️ Tune into the “Infinite Life, Infinite Wisdom” podcast!
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