04/08/2026
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If you’ve struggled to lose weight for a long time, it can easily consume you.
You can get so obsessed with hitting your goals that it becomes all you think about.
And the constant frustration and self-criticism can feel like a permanent part of your personality.
Focus is good, unhealthy obsession is not.
Understand this happens because your brain organizes around whatever it is you focus on every day.
Change is essential and building healthy habits is necessary, but if the process puts you in a perpetual state of stress and anxiety, it backfires.
Don’t make weight loss all you live for.
And don’t place all your self-worth on achieving the goal.
Finish the sentence: “I’m someone who ______” and it can’t have a single thing to do with your body.
Make it something you’d love about yourself, even if you don’t fully believe it.
Repeat it daily with positive emotions as you do so and you’ll slowly shift your identity to include more than weight loss.
And if it’s putting you in deep distress, consider taking your foot off the gas to let your mind and body relax a bit.
It can also help to talk with a mental health professional for further support.