08/19/2026
Kids don't always have the words to tell us when they're feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or stressed.
Sometimes it sounds like:
“I don't want to go.”
“My stomach hurts.”
“I hate school.”
“I feel checked out.”
Changes in behavior can be a form of communication. Instead of focusing only on what your child is doing, consider what might be happening underneath the behavior.
Are they worried about school? Struggling socially? Feeling overwhelmed by expectations? Having difficulty adjusting to a new routine?
Paying attention to patterns and creating space for calm, supportive conversations can help your child feel safe enough to share what they're experiencing.
And if the changes persist or begin interfering with school, relationships, sleep, or everyday life, it may be time to reach out for additional support.
You don't have to wait until things reach a crisis point to consider therapy.