05/22/2026
What not to do on Memorial Day?
On Memorial Day, it is best to avoid wishing anyone a "Happy Memorial Day," as the holiday is a solemn day of remembrance for fallen service members, not a celebration. Additionally, avoid thanking active-duty troops today—that appreciation is reserved for Veterans Day in November.
Etiquette & Respect
Don't say "Happy Memorial Day": It is not a joyous holiday like the Fourth of July. Instead, wish people a "safe and meaningful holiday weekend".
Don't thank veterans: Memorial Day commemorates those who made the ultimate sacrifice. Save expressions of gratitude for living veterans for Veterans Day.
Don't use the American flag as clothing: According to the Flag Code, the U.S. flag should never be used as apparel, bedding, or drapery.
Honoring the Day
Don't forget the meaning: While barbecues and sales are a big part of the long weekend, remember to take a moment to reflect on the true purpose of the day.
Don't get political: Regardless of your stance on war or government policies, avoid turning tributes into a political debate or glorifying conflict.
Local Planning
Don't overlook local closures: Because it is a federal holiday, check ahead before running errands, as government offices, libraries, and certain banks will be closed.
Don't underestimate the crowds: If you are planning to travel or visit major landmarks (such as national parks or Arlington National Cemetery), expect heavy traffic and long lines. Check local news or park websites to reserve tickets or timeslots in advance.