Cultivating Cognitive Clarity, LLC

Cultivating Cognitive Clarity, LLC Teletherapy for individuals located in Virginia. I'm Gabby Oblena, a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia and a National Certified Counselor.

I offer a warm, person-centered space to explore life’s challenges—including anxiety, depression, identity, and life transitions—through a lens that honors your humanity, culture, and story. My primary therapeutic approach is to create a space where clients can fully embrace their humanity, even in a world that often doesn’t make room for it. Together, we’ll meet you where you are. I specialize in

helping clients navigate depression, anxiety, stress, identity exploration, and life transitions, drawing on experience from diverse settings including community mental health, advocacy, outpatient care, and youth services. I became a therapist to be the kind of person my younger self needed—someone who offers a safe space to feel deeply, embrace vulnerability, regulate overwhelming emotions, and nurture both self‐compassion and compassion for others. My hope is to be that person for my clients, maybe even for you. As a Filipina‐American and second‐generation immigrant, I also hold space for how culture and intergenerational trauma can shape mental health and identity. When I’m not in session, you’ll likely find me with a book in hand, playing video games, napping, or laughing along to Bob’s Burgers. I’m often cuddling my cat, Martian—or trying to keep him from scratching where he shouldn’t. And despite being lactose intolerant, you can count on me to say yes to mac & cheese and ice cream.

August is almost here! School is about to start back up, classes will soon be in session. Next thing you know, it’ll be ...
07/28/2026

August is almost here! School is about to start back up, classes will soon be in session. Next thing you know, it’ll be fall and winter. Start your therapy journey with me with everything coming around the corner! I have availability for virtual sessions on Tuesday mornings, Wednesday mornings & afternoons, and Thursday mornings.

None of those times work? Contact me anyway and let’s see how we can fit you in! Inquire or book on my website, linked in my bio.

Hopefully I’ll see you in my inbox soon!

Excited to announce that my practice website is officially up and running!Feel free to check it out and share with anyon...
05/19/2026

Excited to announce that my practice website is officially up and running!

Feel free to check it out and share with anyone who might be interested in therapy sessions with me 🤗

Embrace your humanness. Cultivate your growth. Book a Session Helping you find balance and clarity. Many of my clients come to therapy feeling overlooked, overwhelmed, or pulled in different directions by cultures, expectations, and roles. I strive to create a supportive, nonjudgmental space where y...

It’s AAPI Month! As a therapist and avid reader, I wanted to share a few of my fav books by AAPI authors, along with som...
05/11/2026

It’s AAPI Month! As a therapist and avid reader, I wanted to share a few of my fav books by AAPI authors, along with some titles on my TBR list. Some of these books also explore mental health in meaningful ways. This is only a snapshot of the richness of AAPI literature, so I’d love to hear more recs in the comments below!
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RECOMMENDATIONS:
>Patterns That Remain by Dr. Stacey Diane Arañez Litam - A thoughtful exploration of how intergenerational trauma, cultural identity, and family expectations shape the emotional lives & relationships of Asian Americans.

>What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo - Stephanie Foo’s memoir examines complex PTSD, childhood trauma, and the journey toward healing as an Asian American woman.

>But What Will People Say? by Sahaj Kohli (Brown Girl Therapy) - A culturally grounded guide to mental health, boundaries, and self-worth for children of immigrants.

>Babel by RF Kuang - A dark academia fantasy that explores colonialism, language, power, and resistance through the lens of a Chinese orphan.

>Patron Saints of Nothing by Randy Ribay - A Fil-Am teen travels to the Philippines to uncover the truth behind his cousin’s death during Duterte’s drug war.

>Daughter of the Moon Goddess by Sue Lynn Tan - A fantasy inspired by Chinese mythology about love, sacrifice, and forging your own destiny.
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TBR:
>Brown Skin, White Minds by EJR David - A psychological examination of colonial mentality and its lasting impact on Filipino Americans.

>Permission To Come Home by Jenny Wang (Asians for Mental Health) - An exploration on mental health, identity, and healing within Asian communities navigating cultural expectations.

>Trick Mirror by Jia Tolentino - An essay collection examining internet culture, identity, consumerism, and self-delusion.

>Last Night At The Telegraph Club by Malinda Dalo - A gay Chinese American teen in 1950s San Fran discovering first love while balancing culture and realities of the Red Scare era.

>Yolk by Mary HK Choi - Two estranged Korean-American sisters are forced back into each other's lives and confront issues of illness, identity, and emotional survival in NYC.

>A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara - Follows four friends in NYC as one endures deep trauma shaping his life and bonds.

Signs you could benefit from therapy:-difficulty regulating emotions-struggling with communication-feeling like you “don...
05/06/2026

Signs you could benefit from therapy:

-difficulty regulating emotions
-struggling with communication
-feeling like you “don’t want to be here anymore”
-struggling with your identity
-your thoughts are all over the place
-feeling overwhelmed
-inability to cope with stress
-isolating yourself from others
-difficulty breaking unhelpful patterns
-straining relationships

If you’re experiencing any of these signs, you might benefit from therapy. Let’s set up a 15-min consultation and see if I’m the right fit for you!

Email: [email protected]
Text: (757) 219-2741

Address

168 Central Park Ave
Virginia Beach, VA
23462

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 6pm
Tuesday 9am - 6pm
Wednesday 9am - 6pm
Thursday 9am - 6pm

Telephone

+17572192741

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