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I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families experience healing, connection, and joy in their relationships.

08/10/2026

Video 2 of my training series for couples therapists is live: Structure as a Pathway to Connection.

In Video 1, we explored Imago as a relational paradigm, a way of seeing couples. This video takes the next step: how do we actually work with the relationship in the room, not just the two individuals sitting in front of us?

I anchor it in four images that have shaped my own practice: the container, the bridge, the infinity loop, and the field. Each one offers a different way to hold what’s happening between partners.

If you’ve ever felt caught between honoring structure and staying attuned to the couple, this one’s for you.

Link in comments. I’d love to hear which of the four images resonates most with your work. 💬

08/06/2026

A new date. The same transformational journey.

To create the best possible learning experience, we’ve moved the start of Imago Clinical Training, Module 1 to October 8th 2026.

If you’ve been considering deepening your work with couples, this gives you extra time to plan, ask questions, and join us from the very beginning of the training.

Imago Clinical Training equips therapists and helping professionals with a powerful relational framework that transforms the way they understand conflict, facilitate connection, and support lasting change.

📅 New Module 1 Start Date: 8 October 2026

Registration is now open, and we’d love to welcome you to this next cohort.

Comment TRAINING or send us a message for more information or to reserve your place.

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/

08/03/2026

You became a therapist to help people heal.

But if you’ve ever left a couples session feeling like you were carrying the relationship on your shoulders, you’re not alone.

Couples therapy asks something different of us. It requires more than insight, it requires a framework that helps us create safety, guide connection, and remain grounded when emotions run high.

That’s exactly what you’ll begin learning in Module 1 of Imago Clinical Training with me, Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier.

✔ Learn practical skills you can immediately apply with couples
✔ Earn 32 APA CE Credits
✔ Start with Module 1 before deciding whether to continue toward full certification

📍 Bethesda, Maryland
August 13–16, 2026
9:00 AM–5:00 PM ET

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

If you’re ready to feel more confident, more steady, and more effective in couples work, we’d love to welcome you.

07/27/2026

Most therapists don’t struggle with couples because they’re not skilled enough.

They struggle because nobody taught them what to do when two hurting people are sitting in front of them at the same time.

When one partner is criticizing.
When the other is shutting down.
When both are talking but neither feels heard.

That’s often the moment therapists start questioning themselves.

“Am I helping?”

“Should I intervene?”

“How do I stop this conversation from going in circles?”

“Why do I feel like a referee instead of a therapist?”

Module 1 of Imago Clinical Training was designed to answer those questions.

Not with more theory.

With practical skills you can use immediately.

Inside Module 1, you’ll learn how to:

✓ Create safety in the room
✓ Slow couples down when emotions escalate
✓ Facilitate mirroring, validation, and empathy
✓ Guide partners through productive dialogue
✓ Stay out of the content and lead the process
✓ Help couples move from reactivity to connection

Confidence in couples therapy doesn’t come from having all the answers.

It comes from having a clear framework when the room gets difficult.

Start with Module 1.

Learn the skills.
Apply them with your clients.
Then decide if you’re ready for the next step.

📍 CEs Available
📍 Bethesda, Maryland
📍 August 13-16 2026 with me, Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

07/20/2026

Imago Clinical Training gives you that process.

A structure.

A way to guide couples when emotions run high.

Module 1 teaches therapists how to:

✓ Facilitate the Imago dialogue

✓ Create safety when emotions run high

✓ Guide couples into validation and empathy

✓ Keep the process contained

✓ Support connection without getting lost in the conflict

Join me, Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier and learn the foundational skills that can transform both your practice and your confidence.

32 APA CEUs available.

📍 Bethesda, Maryland
📍 August 13-16 2026

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

07/19/2026

I’m excited to offer a small online supervision group this fall for Imago trainees and therapists.
Bring your videos, successes, questions, and stuck places, as we deepen our skills in community and stay connected to the heart and joy of the work. You’re warmly welcome whenever you trained!
Register here: https://forms.gle/6ogvFK4siN9Ru4179

07/13/2026

When couples become reactive, critical, or emotionally shut down…
What do you do next?

The most effective couples therapists aren’t the ones with all the answers.
They’re the ones with a process.

Module 1 of Imago Clinical Training will equip you with the structure, confidence, and practical tools to help couples move from blame and defensiveness toward safety, empathy, and lasting connection.

And because we know committing to a full certification can feel like a big step, you can begin with Module 1 and continue only when you’re ready.

In Person: Bethesda, Maryland
August 13–16, 2026
9:00 AM–5:00 PM ET
32 APA CE Credits Available

Your clients deserve a therapist with a clear relational framework. Give yourself the opportunity to become that therapist.

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

07/06/2026

You weren’t trained for this.

Graduate school taught you how to understand people.

But did anyone teach you what to do when two hurting people are sitting in front of you, talking over each other, shutting down, or repeating the same painful cycle?

If you’ve ever left a couples session wondering…

“Did I miss something?”

“Should I have intervened differently?”

“Why does couples therapy feel so much harder than individual work?”

…you’re asking the same questions thousands of therapists have asked before discovering Imago.

Join me for a FREE live Introduction to Imago Clinical Training and discover why this relational approach has transformed the way therapists around the world work with couples.

Together, we’ll explore:

• Why working with the relationship changes everything
• How to create safety when emotions run high
• Why structure, not advice, is often the missing piece in couples therapy
• What makes Imago one of the most respected approaches to relational healing

Whether you’re a psychologist, counselor, social worker, or mental health professional who wants to feel more confident working with couples, this webinar is designed for you.

🗓 July 10
🕛 12:00–1:30 PM ET
💻 Live & Free

I’m Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier, Imago Faculty with the Imago International Training Institute, and I’d love to introduce you to a different way of understanding, and facilitating, lasting change in relationships.

This isn’t just an introduction to a training.

It may be the beginning of becoming the couples therapist you’ve always wanted to be.

🔗 Register here:
https://imagocenterdc.com/product/intro-to-imago-july-2026/

06/29/2026

You know the feeling.
The couple leaves.
You close your notes.
And then the questions start.

“Did I miss something?”
“Why couldn’t I slow them down?”
“How do I stop becoming the referee?”

If you’ve ever left a couples session feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or frustrated, you’re not alone.

Most therapists receive little formal training in couples work.
Imago Clinical Training gives you the structure, tools, and confidence to help couples move from conflict to connection.

And the best part?
You can start with Module 1 only before deciding whether to continue toward certification.
✔ CE eligible
✔ Practical skills
✔ Immediate application with clients

Start where you are.
Join me, Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier August 13-16 for Imago Clinical Training Module one.

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

P.s If you are not sure yet, join my free webinar on the 10th of July to learn more.

https://imagocenterdc.com/product/intro-to-imago-july-2026

06/22/2026

If you’ve ever driven home replaying a couples session in your head, this is for you.

The truth is, most therapists aren’t taught how to work effectively with couples. So when partners become reactive, defensive, or stuck in the same cycle, it’s easy to wonder:

“Am I helping?”

“What should I have done differently?”

The thoughts in this carousel are more common than you think.

Not because you’re a bad therapist.

Because couples therapy requires a different set of skills.

Skills that help you create safety, slow conflict down, and guide couples toward real understanding instead of another argument.

That’s exactly what therapists begin learning in Module 1 of Imago Clinical Training.

📍 CEs Available
📍 Washington DC area
📍 Start with Module 1 before deciding whether to continue toward full certification

Which of these thoughts have you had after a session?

Let us know below.

And sign up through the link below.

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

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