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I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families experience healing, connection, and joy in their relationships.

09/21/2026

What if the problem isn’t that couples don’t know how to communicate… but that they can’t access those skills when they’re activated?

That’s where the real work begins.

In this free Introduction to Imago webinar, we’ll explore how to help couples move from defensiveness, shutdown, and conflict into greater safety, connection, and understanding.

If you’re a therapist, graduate student, or professional working with couples, this is a chance to experience the Imago lens and see how it can change the way you understand what’s happening in the room.

25 September 2026
12:00–1:30 pm ET | Online via Zoom
Free to attend

Come curious. Leave with a different way of seeing couples work.

Register via the link

https://imagocenterdc.com/product/intro-to-imago-sept-2026

09/08/2026

Working with couples can feel incredibly demanding, especially when both partners are hurt, activated, and looking to you to help them find a way through.

If you’ve ever left a couples session wondering, “How do I hold all of this without getting pulled to one side?” this free session is for you.

Join me, Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier for a warm, practical Introduction to Imago for Therapists and Graduate Students.

You’ll explore what makes the Imago relational paradigm different, watch part of an Imago session, and experience a taste of the Imago Dialogue in action.

September 26, 2026
12:00–1:30 pm Eastern | Online via Zoom

Come curious. Leave with a different way of seeing the couple, the conflict, and the space between them.

Registration is free and places are still available.

Register here:
https://imagocenterdc.com/product/intro-to-imago-sept-2026

09/01/2026

For therapists doing couples work, holding the space between two activated nervous systems is some of the most demanding work we do.

And we’re not meant to hold it alone.

Supervision offers a place to slow down, think together, and receive support as you navigate the complexity of the work.

My monthly Imago Supervision Group returns September–December. A space to bring your cases, your questions, the moments that leave you stuck, and your own experience of sitting in the room with couples.

Come deepen your practice, strengthen your Imago lens, and be supported by others who understand the work.

You don’t have to figure it all out by yourself.

See the link for more information.

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/supervision/

08/24/2026

A reframe I keep coming back to with therapists:

There are no resistant couples: only moments where safety and attunement aren’t sufficient yet.

When a couple shuts down or becomes defensive, it’s easy to see resistance.

But often, it’s protection.

That shift changes the question from “Why won’t they engage?” to “What doesn’t feel safe enough yet?”

This idea runs through my Rethinking Couples Therapy series. Videos 1 & 2 are available now.

And if you’re curious about bringing this lens into your own work, join me for a free Introduction to Imago for Professionals on September 26, 12–1:30 pm ET.

Come experience the approach and see what it could open up in your work with couples.

Links in bio.

08/17/2026

Couples rarely come to therapy because they need more information about communication.

Most already know they “should listen better.”

The harder part is listening when you’re activated, sitting across from the person you love, hearing the exact thing that makes your whole system want to defend, explain, shut down, or disappear.

That’s where the real work begins.

The Imago Dialogue isn’t simply a communication technique. Underneath the structure, couples are practicing something much deeper:

Regulation. Empathy. Presence. Relational responsibility.

They’re learning how to stay connected to themselves while becoming genuinely curious about the world of the person sitting across from them.

In my latest Calabash training video, Structure as a Pathway to Connection, I unpack what the Dialogue is really building and why structure can create the safety that connection needs.

For those of us who work with couples, this is where it gets exciting.

Link in the comments.

08/10/2026

Video 2 of my training series for couples therapists is live: Structure as a Pathway to Connection.

In Video 1, we explored Imago as a relational paradigm, a way of seeing couples. This video takes the next step: how do we actually work with the relationship in the room, not just the two individuals sitting in front of us?

I anchor it in four images that have shaped my own practice: the container, the bridge, the infinity loop, and the field. Each one offers a different way to hold what’s happening between partners.

If you’ve ever felt caught between honoring structure and staying attuned to the couple, this one’s for you.

Link in comments. I’d love to hear which of the four images resonates most with your work. 💬

08/06/2026

A new date. The same transformational journey.

To create the best possible learning experience, we’ve moved the start of Imago Clinical Training, Module 1 to October 8th 2026.

If you’ve been considering deepening your work with couples, this gives you extra time to plan, ask questions, and join us from the very beginning of the training.

Imago Clinical Training equips therapists and helping professionals with a powerful relational framework that transforms the way they understand conflict, facilitate connection, and support lasting change.

📅 New Module 1 Start Date: 8 October 2026

Registration is now open, and we’d love to welcome you to this next cohort.

Comment TRAINING or send us a message for more information or to reserve your place.

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/

08/03/2026

You became a therapist to help people heal.

But if you’ve ever left a couples session feeling like you were carrying the relationship on your shoulders, you’re not alone.

Couples therapy asks something different of us. It requires more than insight, it requires a framework that helps us create safety, guide connection, and remain grounded when emotions run high.

That’s exactly what you’ll begin learning in Module 1 of Imago Clinical Training with me, Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier.

✔ Learn practical skills you can immediately apply with couples
✔ Earn 32 APA CE Credits
✔ Start with Module 1 before deciding whether to continue toward full certification

📍 Bethesda, Maryland
August 13–16, 2026
9:00 AM–5:00 PM ET

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

If you’re ready to feel more confident, more steady, and more effective in couples work, we’d love to welcome you.

07/27/2026

Most therapists don’t struggle with couples because they’re not skilled enough.

They struggle because nobody taught them what to do when two hurting people are sitting in front of them at the same time.

When one partner is criticizing.
When the other is shutting down.
When both are talking but neither feels heard.

That’s often the moment therapists start questioning themselves.

“Am I helping?”

“Should I intervene?”

“How do I stop this conversation from going in circles?”

“Why do I feel like a referee instead of a therapist?”

Module 1 of Imago Clinical Training was designed to answer those questions.

Not with more theory.

With practical skills you can use immediately.

Inside Module 1, you’ll learn how to:

✓ Create safety in the room
✓ Slow couples down when emotions escalate
✓ Facilitate mirroring, validation, and empathy
✓ Guide partners through productive dialogue
✓ Stay out of the content and lead the process
✓ Help couples move from reactivity to connection

Confidence in couples therapy doesn’t come from having all the answers.

It comes from having a clear framework when the room gets difficult.

Start with Module 1.

Learn the skills.
Apply them with your clients.
Then decide if you’re ready for the next step.

📍 CEs Available
📍 Bethesda, Maryland
📍 August 13-16 2026 with me, Dr. Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

07/20/2026

Imago Clinical Training gives you that process.

A structure.

A way to guide couples when emotions run high.

Module 1 teaches therapists how to:

✓ Facilitate the Imago dialogue

✓ Create safety when emotions run high

✓ Guide couples into validation and empathy

✓ Keep the process contained

✓ Support connection without getting lost in the conflict

Join me, Caroline Bernhardt-Lanier and learn the foundational skills that can transform both your practice and your confidence.

32 APA CEUs available.

📍 Bethesda, Maryland
📍 August 13-16 2026

https://www.thriveinrelationship.com/imago-clinical-training/

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