09/30/2026
It can feel overwhelming to figure out how to have a conversation with your teen (and older tween) about the Cornell 7. That’s because it is!! We can’t possibly cover all of the horrors of this at once: Assault, r**e, consent, drug and alcohol use, group think, bystander effect, trauma, institutional and systemic protection for perpetrators…and I’m sure I left a few out!
Pick one thing for right now and have a discussion. Maybe you build on it along the way. Maybe you wait for another time to cover some of the other pieces. But having a conversation lets your kid know two imperative things
1) This is not normal
2) This is something we can talk about it
The words you say are less important than your kid knowing these two things.
(Also, to the parents who wonder if they should bring it up if their teen doesn’t know about it - yes! Take the opportunity to do that. But also, if your kid has social media or has friends that do, or sees news headlines, they know about it!)