I have EDS. WTF?

I have EDS. WTF? I'm Aimee. After 56 years, many maladies, way too many surgeries, and a whole lot of anxiety - here I am. Documenting the journey here.

With the diagnosis that is the hugest relief and the cruelest irony: Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

Another overdue EDS update! (Then again, is anything really overdue when you’re having surgeries that you need to recove...
07/22/2026

Another overdue EDS update! (Then again, is anything really overdue when you’re having surgeries that you need to recover from before you can think straight again?)

This one really “bites.” 🫠

So a few years ago, my dentist asked me what was up with a few of my top teeth becoming a bit loose.

At the time, I just couldn’t understand it. I’d had braces and Invisalign, but that certainly wouldn’t loosen all of my teeth at this age, would it? Could this really be happening on top of all of the other things my body was doing to me?

It wasn’t until she told me I really needed to see a periodontist that I got a little scared. My first perio appointment was with someone who barely even checked out my teeth and told me I would need to have all of my top teeth removed ASAP. I cried and cried and cried, and couldn’t understand what was happening. The second perio injured me pretty badly while cleaning my gums to keep my teeth intact, which is a pretty awful story for another time; third perio said there was nothing he could do about the injuries and basically threw his hands up in the air and said there was nothing he could do for my top teeth.

That’s when I finally started looking into Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome to begin with. A friend & medical professional I see for my joints asked me (a couple years before my teeth started to loosen) if I had ever looked into EDS because I was having so many EDS-like problems with my body coming on all at once. And I needed to figure out why my teeth were starting to get loose. I needed to figure out how in the world to save my top teeth before having the exact same thing happen as happened to my mom, which was to have all of her top teeth pulled out little by little before 60 years old.

No one knew she had EDS, so no one knew how to treat her and she suffered for years with very bad dentures and all sorts of bottom teeth in terrible shape, horrific TMJ, etc. I always felt so bad for her… I wish I had gotten diagnosed with EDS sooner so she could have known what was going on with her body all those years before she passed away. She had so many maladies, it was unreal. (It’s typically genetically passed down from your mother - I also have an unidentified genetic variant of Beals Syndrome!)

I’m 56 and am feeling incredibly lucky right now that I did not listen to those periodontists. Through a referral from my wife’s dental specialist, I found someone in the area who specializes in connective tissue disorders, and is helping me save my teeth using state-of-the-art laser surgery. You see, there are providers out there who specialize in these things, but unless you know you have EDS, you would never know where to turn.

I unfortunately had to have two major teeth removed this week because of the injury I suffered last summer. (I think I might actually sound a hell of a lot better than I did with the incessant whistling noises and buzzing from my incredibly loose tooth & holes punched through my gums from the injury hitting my other teeth…such an unnecessary nightmare.)

The good news? After being told by these perios I could never try implants on my upper teeth, I was told that is absolutely not true - and so my two extractions were immediately prepared with bone grafts for implants, which will happen in about 4 to 6 months. Might take a little more of a specialized approach, but it can happen and I could not be more grateful to hear it.

As some of you know, voiceover is my livelihood we’re talking about now…I need my teeth to be a voice actor. And I need them to stay healthy. At a time when my voiceover career is seriously taking shape after seven years of hard work. And while I won’t be back to 100% for probably 8-10 months now because of the whole process involved, I can finally see some light at the end of a very dark tunnel. I’ll be able to work in between surgical procedures. And hopefully a year from now, I will have my two implants and a full set of teeth again. ❤️

Here are pictures of me after the surgery and of our dog sleeping to the music of Dog TV while I rest.

As anyone who has EDS can tell you, the hits just keep on coming. But I am trying as hard as I can to get ahead of the things that are breaking down so I can continue thriving!


06/20/2026

Smart-assing my way through my favorite park while my hips heal.




The Ehlers-Danlos Society

06/20/2026

Another update on my hips + sometimes there’s more than one reason for cry-eyes.

06/20/2026

Another update on my hips + sometimes there’s more than one reason for cry-eyes.

05/08/2026

Overdue video update! This one’s about my hips and how they don’t like to heal easily. 🫠

Here is my latest Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome update – I’m trying something new, which I may get up on a regular YouTube chan...
03/26/2026

Here is my latest Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome update – I’m trying something new, which I may get up on a regular YouTube channel if people enjoy it. Sort of a “Weekly Update” podcast/news format with your bestie.

Recorded on Sunday, finally finished editing today. I’m learning! Enjoy when you have 13 minutes in a bathroom or waiting room, or on the subway. Or in your Lyft for 60 minutes on your way to LAX. Send me some feedback if you’re able to watch & listen to the end!

In this episode, you’ll find out:

What the nerve pain feels like on my outer thigh;

How I was able to drag myself to the bathroom using a walker and the leg of my pants;

What a low bar for good news sounds like;

Why we press for answers until we get them;

How my Wisconsin accent sounds when I get lazy.



I’m trying something new, which I turn into regular episodes on a YouTube channel of its own if people enjoy it. Sort of a “Weekly Update” podcast/news forma...

“Remember, I’m a gentle flower…” I told my surgeon with a smirk. He knows I’m nervous about surgeries, because I typical...
03/04/2026

“Remember, I’m a gentle flower…” I told my surgeon with a smirk. He knows I’m nervous about surgeries, because I typically have either a complication or a random side effect. Last Monday was hip replacement #1 and I was ready for it. No anesthesia to irritate my throat or make me super sick. No major physical therapy needed.

Got home, felt great. Knew the block would wear off, so got ahead of it with meds. And then the nerve block wore off on day 3. And there were tears and screams. I had a nerve injury. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuucccccckkkkkkk.

The thing about Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome is you never know what you’re going to get. Will everything work out well? Or will there be a complication? It’s always a mystery.

My surgeon lengthened my hip by a few millimeters…which you wouldn’t think is that big of a deal, but you can visibly see the difference in my hip height, and I have to stand on my tippy toes on the other leg to straighten my newly lengthened leg fully. Crazy, right? (NOTE: They will even me out during hip replacement #2!)

So this last week since the surgery has been nothing short of a sh*tshow. 🫠 One leg longer than the other, nerve pain that seriously feels like I am being stung by a wasp, surrounded by a bunch of fire ants, biting at me all in one very small spot on my outer thigh. Sometimes it comes on so strong the tears just start flowing out of my eyes… it’s super unreal. A nerve injury? Really?

And because my other hip is also in need of repair and is getting replaced in April, it is not that easy to get around as it is, much less trying to walk with pain that literally stops me in my tracks. Oh, and then I had a bone chip burrow itself into a little space on my left knee that rendered me basically useless yesterday.

The good news? The bone chip moved along, the gabapentin is starting to kick in to slowly lessen the pain of the nerve injury, and I have taught myself to walk like a rocking horse with my left leg on tippy toes staying behind me and my new hip staying in front of me - this was the only way I could walk without screaming in pain!

The moral of the story? I really am a “delicate flower” and will have injuries like this occur more than the average bear. This particular nerve injury is a “known” potential outcome from an anterior hip replacement, but is not very typical. Probably happened from the hardware they used to keep my leg in place while they were doing the surgery.

This is why it’s “always something” when it comes to My Medical Anomalies ™️ 😵‍💫

Great news: My new hip feels amazing - very little pain. That’s what we’re ultimately aiming for! Once the nerve pain lessens, I’m going in to do some PT to get this thing moving!

Hip 1 of 2 replaced yesterday! All went well, no general anesthesia necessary. Spinal and propofol nap = the way to go! ...
02/24/2026

Hip 1 of 2 replaced yesterday! All went well, no general anesthesia necessary. Spinal and propofol nap = the way to go!

(Fun facts: EDS patients tend to need more anesthesia than the average bear, which then can make a person extremely nauseated; Also, opioids tend to not work as well! I’m a carbon copy of my mother.)

Woke up at 6 o’clock this morning with my nervous system going batsh*t from the waist down because the block was wearing off… Had some super good pain, but got it under control with the meds pretty quickly, thankfully.

Pics: Pre & post surgery positivity - and I now also get petechaie breakouts on my forearms from any little thing, so this came out of my IV experience!

02/20/2026

This page will be filled with information about my personal journey with EDS. It is not the same for everyone!

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02/20/2026

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