08/27/2026
We’ve gotten really good at asking:
“How do I make this feeling stop?”
Sometimes a more useful question is:
“What might this feeling be telling me?”
That doesn’t mean we romanticize suffering or ignore symptoms that need attention. It means we make room for the possibility that discomfort isn’t always an emergency.
Sometimes the work is learning that we can feel something difficult without immediately needing to fix, avoid, numb, or outrun it.
Save this one for the next time your first instinct is to make an uncomfortable feeling disappear.