09/05/2026
Iāve been trying to build a small ritual into my workdays lately.
I get to the office, set up my room, make sure everything is ready for my first clientāand then, before anyone walks through the door, I meditate.
I use the Calm app, and I swear there are mornings when I open the Daily Calm and wonder how it knew what I needed to hear that day.
Today was about worry.
About noticing when it shows up, grounding yourself, and actually checking in with whatās happening in your body.
What does this feel like?
Is this anxiety? Fear? Uncertainty?
And one thing that really stuck with me: worry can become a habit.
Our brains can get so practiced at anticipating what might go wrong that negative thinking starts to feel like the natural place to go.
Which got me thinking about something I talk about all the time in a completely different context:
The mind and body are not separate systems.
Thoughts have physical experiences attached to them.
Worry can change your breathing. Fear can change how you hold yourself. Stress can show up in your jaw, your shoulders, your stomach, your sleep.
And sometimes simply noticing whatās happeningāwithout immediately trying to fix itāis a way of interrupting the pattern.
The timing felt especially impeccable today.
Iāve had plenty on my mind lately, and apparently I needed the reminder that worrying about what might happen isnāt the same thing as preparing for what does.
It also made me think of my friend Lauren mindofherowntherapy , who is a hypnotherapist and does a lot of work around these patternsāhow our brains learn them, how our bodies participate in them, and how we can begin creating different ones.
I spend so much of my work paying attention to bodies.
Iām trying to get better at paying attention to my own mind, too.
Turns out theyāve been talking to each other the whole time.