07/31/2026
Tip #1 To Get Toddlers Talking?
Offer Two Choices!
So your little one has pulled you into the kitchen and is pointing to the cupcakes, grunting "Uh! Uh!." If you ask him, "What do you want, honey? Tell me what you want," he is most likely NOT going to say anything... because he is smart enough to recognize that you ALREADY KNOW EXACTLY what he wants!
But... if you grab the cupcakes and an apple, and offer him a choice, "Do you want cake or an apple?" now your child has a dilemma.
Now he has to do a little bit more to let you know what he wants.
Giving choices between two objects is a great way to help little ones try to say words, as you will have just said both words for him and he only has to try to imitate them after you. (Bonus? It is also a nice way to teach children that Mommy and Daddy don't always read minds and know just what they want! đ)
Try holding the items up by your face/mouth, showing and naming each for your child. At first your little one will probably just again point to the one he wants. Slowly give it to him, but say it's name a few times ("Oh, cake! Cake. You want cake").
As he gets more used to such scenarios, he may soon start to point AND naturally try to imitate the word. Choices can easily be incorporated into play, such as offering choices between animals, puzzle pieces, or pieces of Potato Head.
But PLEASE! Never, never withhold items or "force" your child to say a word. Simply saying it a few times often results in little ones trying to imitate the word on their own, without all the pressure and frustration of being told to!
Questions about your little one? Reach out any time!