07/08/2026
Martin “Paul” Kordonowy, 76, of Columbia, beloved husband of Kimberley (Cummings) Kordonowy, passed away on Friday, July 3, 2026. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, friend, and community member, Paul will be remembered for his great sense of humor, generosity, curiosity, and unwavering commitment to the people he loved.
Paul was born on August 8, 1949, in St. Louis, Missouri, to the late Mytro Kordonowy and Mary Lorene (Presson) Kordonowy. The youngest of four children, he grew up in St. Louis alongside his sisters, Laura and Marilyn, and his brother, Mitchell. Family remained one of the central joys of his life, and he maintained close relationships with his siblings throughout the years. He was predeceased by Mitchell and Laura.
An excellent student from an early age, Paul earned both his bachelor's and master's degrees from the University of Missouri at Columbia (Mizzou), where he met the love of his life, Kim. The two shared 52 years of marriage built on partnership, adventure, and family.
Paul enjoyed a long career in aerospace engineering. His work took him and his family on a remarkable journey, living in San Diego, California; Littleton, Colorado; Stuttgart, Germany; and eventually returning to the St. Louis area. Throughout his career and many moves, he remained deeply devoted to his family and took great pride in supporting the education and success of his three children.
In retirement, Paul and Kim settled in Columbia, Connecticut in 2019, where he enthusiastically embraced community life. He became actively involved with the Friends of Mono Pond and was elected to the local School Board. He was a familiar face at church breakfasts, where he volunteered as a chef, and he looked forward each year to the annual Meatfest. At the Beckish Senior Center, he enjoyed attending events with Kim and proudly helped display her artwork. His willingness to lend a hand, meet new people, and contribute wherever needed made him a valued member of the community.
Paul found happiness in time spent with family and friends, fishing, golfing, gourmet cooking, community involvement, and taking in the beauty of Mono Pond. His industriousness continued after retirement through his planning and building a greenhouse, chicken coop, and an addition at his home on Mono Pond in the countryside of Columbia. Paul absolutely loved exploring new places, meeting people from all walks of life, and making meaningful connections wherever he went.
In addition to his wife, Kim, Paul is survived by his children, David, Lauren, and Dani; his son-in-law, Jonathan; his daughter-in-law, Gwen; his sister, Marilyn Poston; and his cherished grandchildren, Lydia and Rhys. He is also survived by a large extended family, including many nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends.
Following a courageous battle with glioblastoma, Paul leaves behind a legacy of kindness, service, and dedication to family. He will be deeply missed by those who knew him, but his example of generosity, community spirit, and love for others will continue to inspire all whose lives he touched.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to the Friends of Mono Pond State Park. Information about supporting the organization is available at https://friendsctstateparks.org/friends-of-mono-pond-state-park/.
There will be a Celebration of Life for family and friends to gather on Paul's birthday , August 8th.