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We are not born with the skills to have a great relationship nor are we taught these skills in school. Solid marriages are grounded in fundamentals of marriage and relationships that can be acquired in a 12 hour educational program. Working with a marriage educator- relationship coach -clinical psychologist like having your own private relationship tutor. Someone who can encoura

ge you, help you understand things, teach you new skills and keep you on track too. Marriage Enhancement/Divorce Busting Education

We are now able to identify with 93 % accuracy which couples will get divorced from those who will stay married. With 6-12 hours of education & training you can reduce by 50 % the chances of divorce ! We now know the top 4 factors that lead to divorce
Marriage therapy is not infrequently unhelpful. Marriage education and coaching can offer excellent ways to strengthen your marriage. Editing: http://marriagesaliveandwell.blogspot.com/

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Dr. Helen Fisher Identifies Reasons for InfidelityWhile it's unclear some research suggests men are unfaithful  33 % of ...
02/04/2026

Dr. Helen Fisher Identifies Reasons for Infidelity
While it's unclear some research suggests men are unfaithful 33 % of the time with women cheating 25 % of the time with people under 40 have similar rates

Megyn Kelly is joined by Dr. Helen Fisher, biological anthropologist and senior fellow at the Kinsey Institute, to talk about the reasons people are adultero...

02/04/2026

Genuine Skills for Healthy Marriage

The "good news of great joy is that you just made a remarkable and valuable discovery about relationships and marriage.

Marriage is the hardest and most important challenge in a person’s life. It’s the foundation of our families and care for children. Divorce costs our economy untold billions of dollars, . Truth be told, communities and countries benefit a lot from stable marriages. The quality of one's marriage is the best predictor of happiness and satisfaction in life.

** We are able to identify couples that stay married vs. get divorced with up to 93 % accuracy based on a 30 second video of how a couple handles marital conflict. Marriage researchers have identified the top 4 factors that lead to divorce.
More than 50 years of research has led to the development of extremely effective marriage education programs. Specifically, couples that participate in our best marriage education programs can dramatically reduce the chances for divorce.

If couples had any idea how difficult it is to be in an unhappy marriage and to go through a divorce, or knew that attending a 12 hour class that passes on the fundamental information, skills, tips would cut chances of divorce in half. Put another way, people increase marriage satisfaction and stability by 50 % over the course of their marriages.

Couples that learn how to create solid marriages enjoy better overall health, happiness, financial security, and s*x. The children of divorced parents go through some very rough going initially and are at significantly increased risk for all sorts of health-mental health and relationship problems.

Until quite recently there wasn’t much in the way of practical and effective help for couples struggling in their marriages or in marriage preparation for that matter. Parents, friends, sometimes marriage counselors with rather poor success rates had been it. For the first time in history--The secrets to a happy marriage are no longer secret.

Couples that invest 6-12 hours learning (husband friendly, psychobabble-less) reduce by 50 % the chances of divorce or break-up

Put a different way, if you spend 12 hours in this class you increase marriage stability and satisfaction by 50 %.

Importantly, this mini-course is "husband friendly" and psycho-babble is absent (the US military runs this program to soldiers and their spouses)

Let's have a closer look at the time invested in a 6-12 hour class vs years married

Couples married for 7 years log 61,360, 000 hours in marriage. If you are married for 14 years that would be 121, 700 hours and for those married for 40 years will log more than 350, 000 hours.
7 = 61,000 vs 12 hours
14= 210,700 vs 12 hours
40: 800,,000 vs 12 hours

Clearly, it's a smart move to attend a 6-12 hour class. As the saying goes:
Measure twice, cut once Not house built on sand.

It is a truism that if something seems to good to be true it probably isn't true. That said, remember you are learning information and skills that will last a lifetime. It's easy to learn but requires lots of work to keep your marriage strong

02/04/2026

More S*x for Men Who Do Housework

Men, if you want more s*x, the solution is very simple. Work o the upkeep of the house. If you fail to do this, there will be very little s*x and a fair amount of discouragement ad resentment. While women control the frequency of s*x, men aren't victims. We can do a lot to increase s*xual activity.

Our relationships include things like scheduling a date, looking through your box of resentment/grudges, practicing forgiving, sitting outside and holding holds in the warm weather, saying nice things to each other, etc. Now, in principle, these are all decent suggestions but there are 100,000. of them, and for some men it sounds like Greek.

So, I'm simply going to recommend one thing for couples to do, especially for men. If you ask old-timers they will tell you that women get all excited if you "help" them with spring cleaning o the house. Typically, men are doing man stuff in the yard or garage or tool bench in the basement.

So, we are thinking" Okay, I'll do this stuff while she does the spring cleaning" with a little bit of pride. It doesn't take long before the man is dropping hints about s*x--- after all, the weather is nice, you've been getting things done, telling her she looks pretty, and all the other tips you learned along the way.
Each spring there is an uptick in couples wanting counseling.

After taking a history, I ask about "communication and problem skills" things hidden in the closet", degree of anger or frustration they feel toward each other. Typically, men think, things everything is good bust s*x is pretty infrequent, and she seems a little grumpy or cold.

When it's a woman's r turn to ventilate usually it goes something like this: : I feel overwhelmed, there is so much to do, I don't get to bed till after 1 am to get things ready for the morning. Plus, he hardly talks, and men give women answers rather than actually listening. , so she feels discouraged.

Common Discussions

Me: So often do you have s*x a week or a month: twice a month, maybe: 4 times a month.
So what's getting in the way? Let m guess------he isn't doing working with he upkeep of the house. I'm just exhausted ( Often some genuine tear}/
He: But I'm doing the outside stuff

Me: Ok, Mr. So and so, how important is it for you to see some increase in the frequency of s*x.
He: Once a month isn't normal

Me: " I have a simple solution If you do some picking up around the house, an fair amount, not 5 hours a day, I assure you s*x will increase.

She: Laughing aloud, she is looking at me like we are sharing an inside joke.

He: You guys -don't play around. Are you being serious? I just help out around the house? (Well, it works way better if you don;t say "I'll help her" around the house.
He: I don't understand the connection:

Me: Doesn't-- matter-just do it I add the quickest way to get more s*x at home is to do things around the house-----call it scientific"

Okay, people time to wrap up.....same time next week.

Next week, they return smiling, h helped a little bit, and got laid twice, she enjoyed it, and all the rest.

Both: How come the last therapist just asked about our pasts...for 2 years? Nothing improved.
I don't know. I just know relationships between men and women can be make pretty simple if you keep things simple.
Draw whatever conclusions you like and assume their homework was routine and always seemed to work.

05/28/2024

Professional Biography

Kevin Keough, Psy.D, is a 64 yo native Delawarean living in Wilmington, Delaware.
Dr. Keough earned a B.A. Degree with Distinction, with a major in psychology and a minor in philosophy, from the University of Delaware. He earned a Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) in clinical psychology from Baylor University graduating with a 3.85 GPA.. While at Baylor University, Keough served three different 50-week placements including a community mental health center, Waco Veteran’s Administration Hospital, and the Baylor University Mental Health Division.

He served an internship in clinical psychology at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst Mental Health Division. in clinical psychology at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst Mental Health Division. Keough was credited with changing the group therapy model at the center to a Yalom-style here-and-now approach. He was supervised by psychiatrists and psychologists in short-term psychodynamic therapy, behavioral medicine, and medical psychology and psychopharmacology.

Dr. Keough completed his first year of post-doctoral supervision toward licensure as a staff psychologist at Western State Hospital; with an appointment to the University of Virginia Medical School, Department of Psychiatry, as an associate professor in psychology. Keough developed and supervised a new dual diagnosis program for the most volatile and disturbed patients in the hospital. He oriented and co-supervised psychiatrists in training doing rotations on this unit. Dr. Keough created and used an instrument to be used to track patients’ progress called the MIDAS or mental illness-drug abuse assessment scale.

Dr. Keough completed a second year of post-doctoral supervision working as a Staff Psychologist in a juvenile prison in Delaware within the Division of Youth Rehabilitative Services. He supervised one psychologist working toward licensure, social workers, and front-line staff, consulted with division administrators, and coordinated psychiatric care with several psychiatrists. Keough provided a broad range of psychological services for residents. He served as a consulting clinical psychologist until 1996.
Keough initiated self-employed private practice in 3.1991 working in a private practice group called Associates in Health Psychology for about 2 years providing a range of psychological services to a broad range of patient populations.
Keough established the Marriage and Family Center of Delaware(MFCD)in 1993 (www.facebook.com/marriagesthatastnow) providing a broad range of psychological services including formal testing, initial assessments, and individual, couples, and family therapy. He worked with adolescents and adults from diverse backgrounds with a broad range of presenting problems.

During this time Dr. Keough developed extensive collaborative relationships with family physicians. internists, and psychiatrists including a partnership with a board-certified adult psychiatrist for nearly ten years. He served as a consultant to schools, local businesses, insurance companies, and various community organizations.
Dr Keough was a consulting psychologist at Salesianum School from 9/1994-2005 working with administrators, faculty, staff, and students. screening and referring students to family doctors and/or local psychiatrists and psychologists Dr. Keough taught an Advanced Placement Honors Psychology course from 2003-2005 at Salesianum. He currently works as a substitute teacher

,Dr. Keough traveled to the University of Denver to obtain training in the PREP approach to couples counseling developed by Dr. Howard Markman and Dr. Scott Stanley ( www.prepinc.com) Keough integrated this model in his work with couples and later incorporated it into “Divorcing Parents Program” (https://www.facebook.com/DivorceSmarts) he developed. Keough was twice honored by the State of Delaware’s Division of Prevention at their annual convention where he presented this model program.

Dr. Keough served as Chairman of the Delaware Psychological Association’s Political Action Committee from 1994-1996. Keough was active in the Delaware Psychological Association’s Continuing Education Committee; bringing nationally recognized psychologists to Delaware for workshops and seminars. During this time he met with federal, state, and local politicians to advocate for parity in insurance coverage for mental health services. Additionally, he consulted with local businesses in successful efforts to educate decision-makers about the benefits and cost-effectiveness of providing employees insurance coverage for mental health services. He worked extensively with the DuPont Company employees during a protracted and difficult period of downsizing and outsourcing in the 1990s visiting each of Delaware’s DuPont sites to conduct workshops during scheduled mass layoffs within the company

Keough was instrumental in getting BC/BS managed care administrators within Delaware’s second-largest employer (at the time) -MBNA- to increase from 6 to 25 the number of yearly outpatient psychotherapy visits that would be reimbursed.
Dr. Keough established the Police Psychology Consultation Center (PPCC) and related website in 1994-2005. The mission of the Police Psychology Consultation Center was to ensure that police administrators and rank-and-file police officers and their families had access to comprehensive, competent, and integrated mental health and family services/resources/information. Dr. Keough served more than 20 different law enforcement departments during this period. Keough performed more than 1000 pre-employment psychological evaluations, numerous fitness for duty evaluations, critical incident and lethal shooting debriefings, consulted with police administrators, and participated in 150-200 police ridealongs

During this time, .Dr. Keough was an associate of the Special Psychological Services Group (SPSG) under the clinical supervision of Dr. Neil Hibler, the nation’s largest and most respected network of police psychologists.. Dr. Keough consulted with the New Orleans Police Department, police administrators, and police officers providing crisis counseling, coordinating treatment with a local psychiatrist, and doing ridealongs with police officers for roughly 10 days immediately following Hurricane Katrina

Keough founded Light Therapy Company (https://www.facebook.com/lighttherapycompany/) in 9/2014 following 20 years of intensive personal and professional investigation of light therapy and negative ion generators as treatment interventions working with www.sunbox.com and www.bio-brite.com
Dr. Keough conducted roughly 100 Podcast Audio Interviews with prominent authors and leading figures in contemporary culture from 2006-2010. He launched the North Star Guardians Podcast and Warrior Traditions Podcast in 2007 with the assistance of Deborah Harper, owner and president of Psychjourney.

Dr. Keough founded the Delaware Consulting Group in 2008 and transitioned from his traditional role as a licensed psychologist with a fundamental shift to work as an educator, consultant, coach, and public advocate for the delivery of evidence-based prevention-early intervention educational modules covering “cradle-to-grave” topics. work as an educator, consultant, and public advocate for the delivery of evidence-based prevention-early intervention educational modules covering “cradle to grave” topics. These modules can be delivered in schools, churches, businesses, continuing education, martial arts schools, police departments, etc. without a need for involvement by mental health professionals beyond the initial training of trainers.

Men who want more s*x ought be doing more household chores
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