Social Butterfly Counseling

Social Butterfly Counseling Social Butterfly Counseling is a sanctuary for children, families and individuals seeking support in their struggle to navigate today’s chaotic world.

Social Butterfly Counseling is a private psychotherapy practice specializing in supporting children, families and adults in making healthy choices and creating positive change. Coping with the stress and pressures of daily life can be challenging. We partner with other professionals and clinicians to create a support team for our clients so they do not have to go it alone. From managing major tran

sitions like relocating and divorce to improving family dynamics, we help clients reconnect with their inner strength, reduce anxiety and conflict, heal their relationships and rediscover the joy in their lives. We work with guidance counselors, teachers and administrators to help families navigate complicated school systems and access the resources they need. We provide children with tools to handle the expectations and issues they encounter in school and in relationships. We guide couples in exploring effective ways to co-parent and communicate with each other and their children. And we collaborate with pediatricians, school nurses, psychotherapists and other medical professionals to help our clients manage anxiety, depression and other forms of mental illness. Issues we address in treatment include:

Parenting/Co-parenting
Communication
School Avoidance
Navigating complicated systems (Child Study Teams, working toward IEP, linkage to higher levels of care)
Peer relationships (bullying, conflict resolution, group dynamics)
Disruptive behaviors
Anxiety, Depression and Bi-polar disorder
Transitions (relocation, separation/divorce, death of loved one, birth of sibling, new step parent)
Body image and distorted eating
Issues affecting individuals identifying as LGBTQ
Trauma
Sexual and Physical Abuse
Neglect
Foster Care and Adoption
Infertility

We also facilitate groups that educate participants about topics such as social skills, anger management, parenting and separation/divorce; as well as therapy groups for those dealing with anxiety and depression.

05/31/2026
☀️ The Power of “Yet” ☀️• I can’t do it… yet• I’m not there… yet• I haven’t reached my goal… yet• I can’t see the bigger...
05/31/2026

☀️ The Power of “Yet” ☀️

• I can’t do it… yet
• I’m not there… yet
• I haven’t reached my goal… yet
• I can’t see the bigger picture… yet
• I haven’t built the life I want… yet
• I don’t understand it… yet

One small word can transform self-doubt into possibility.
Growth takes time. Keep going.

We are here for you.
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🤍 We need your help 🤍Just a couple of weeks left to vote and nominate local clinicians for New Jersey Family Magazine’s ...
05/16/2026

🤍 We need your help 🤍

Just a couple of weeks left to vote and nominate local clinicians for New Jersey Family Magazine’s annual special edition for Favorite Kid Docs of 2026.

We have had the honor of being nominated and recognized each year since 2018. We do not take this privilege lightly and strive each and everyday to support each and every human that walks through our doors.
We serve people from ages 4- 70.

Children, teens, adults, families, couples.

Your trust and support is so greatly appreciated as it helps to provide awareness, recognition and de-stigmatize the concept of getting help and support surrounding mental health.

Our mental health impacts all realms of our life including our physical health.

Thank you on behalf of our dedicated team of 13 incredible humans and two remarkable therpay dogs🐾❤️

•Sabrina Coppola, LCSW
•Melissa Lustmann, LCSW
•Erica Higdon LSW
•Kari Scimanico, MA. Ed.S, LPC
•Jennifer Perez, LPC
•Meredith Oshman, LPC
•Kristen Lauber, LCSW
•Victoria Madden, LCSW
•Sarah Gregor, LCSW
•Danielle Goldfinger, M.Ed, LPC, PMH-C
•Paul Kates, MT-BC
•Christine Morrell, LCSW
•Brooke Rochman, Confidence & Relationship Coach | NLP Master Practitioner | CLC

If you do find the time to vote, your clinician’s name will be asked as well as the following information:

Social Butterfly Counseling
232 Madison Ave
Wyckofff, NJ 07481
[email protected]
SocialButterflyCounseling.com

❤️ thank you xo with love and appreciation

Your Founder, Clinical Director & Chief Happiness Officer,

Sabrina
Xo

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https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGFzTb1_OUH_mB2iRfaPUY6reH5ZY8om6uOxRi7KQ_JOFbfQ/viewform

Wishing you a Friday that brings even the smallest reminder that healing, growth, and change are often happening quietly...
05/08/2026

Wishing you a Friday that brings even the smallest reminder that healing, growth, and change are often happening quietly beneath the surface.

Some seasons feel heavy. Some feel uncertain. But even tiny shifts forward still count.

Give yourself permission to celebrate the small wins, the deep breaths, the moments of peace, and the strength it took just to make it through this week.

We are here for you.

Although Mother’s Day may represent something different for everyone, we want to pause and say Happy Mother’s Day from o...
05/08/2026

Although Mother’s Day may represent something different for everyone, we want to pause and say Happy Mother’s Day from our family at Social Butterfly Counseling to yours. ❤️

To the mothers, grandmothers, caregivers, foster parents, stepmothers, godmothers, fur mamas, and every mama in between …we see you.

To the mothers carrying grief, navigating loss, longing for the children they have not yet held, or simply trying to make it through today we are thinking of you especially. We hope you are able to find moments of peace, gentleness, and serenity today.

Please remember, this weekend may feel beautiful for some and incredibly hard for others. Both can exist at the same time.

We are here for you.
We don’t just wake up and become the butterfly… this thing called life is certainly a process.

❤️ Be Kind & Gentle ❤️

Happiness can come and go (because… well, that’s life), but the thoughts we practice—that’s where the real power lives.C...
05/05/2026

Happiness can come and go (because… well, that’s life), but the thoughts we practice—that’s where the real power lives.

CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) reminds us:
Thoughts → Feelings → Behaviors
So when your brain says, “I can’t handle this,” we gently challenge it with, “This is hard… and I can get through it.”

Not toxic positivity. Not pretending everything is fine.
Just small, intentional shifts that create real change over time.

And let’s be honest, sometimes the most positive thing you can do is drink your coffee, take a deep breath, and not respond to that text immediately.

We are here for you.

04/23/2026

Dr. Russell does such a great job breaking down these hard topics and explaining the science behind it all.

We are here for you.

There’s a moment as a parentthat absolutely guts you…And it’s not always loud.It’s quiet.It’s when your child walks over...
04/22/2026

There’s a moment as a parent
that absolutely guts you…

And it’s not always loud.

It’s quiet.

It’s when your child walks over to a group of kids
kids they know…
kids they’ve laughed with…
kids who’ve been in your house…

And something shifts.

The conversation tightens.
The circle subtly closes.
The energy changes just enough for them to feel it.

No one says anything mean.
No one has to.

Because exclusion doesn’t always come with words.

Sometimes it’s body language.
Sometimes it’s silence.
Sometimes it’s the absence of “hey, come here.”

And you watch it happen in real time.

You see your child hesitate.
You see them pretend they didn’t really want to join anyway.
You see them try to play it off.

And it takes everything in you
not to walk over and fix it for them.

But you can’t.

Because this is one of those lessons
they have to feel to understand.

Not everyone who knows you
will choose you.

Not everyone who smiles with you
will stand with you.

And that has nothing to do with your child’s worth.

It has everything to do with the other person’s character.

So we teach them this instead:

Don’t beg for space.
Don’t shrink to fit.
Don’t chase people who hesitate to include you.

Stand tall, even if you stand alone for a minute.

Because the right people?

They don’t make you question where you stand.
They don’t make you earn a place in the circle.
They open it without being asked.

And until your child finds those people…

They’ll always have one place
they never have to wonder about.

Home.

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Some helpful explanations and tips with helping and empowering our children and loved ones that are learning how to orga...
04/22/2026

Some helpful explanations and tips with helping and empowering our children and loved ones that are learning how to organize space and time with ADHD.

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Why kids with ADHD have messy rooms and what parents can do to help them tackle the mess before it gets to be overwhelming.

Growth doesn’t come from comfort, it lives right at the edge of what we think we can do.Kids naturally go there every da...
04/07/2026

Growth doesn’t come from comfort, it lives right at the edge of what we think we can do.

Kids naturally go there every day… trying, failing, trying again. No hesitation. No overthinking.

So here’s your reset:
Did you stretch yourself today… even just a little?

It doesn’t have to be big.
A hard conversation.
A new idea.
One small step outside your comfort zone.

That’s where confidence is built.
That’s where change happens.

Stay close to your edge today.
you’re closer than you think.

We are here for you.

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Wyckoff, NJ
07481

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