07/28/2026
1. In the really severe early day moments, I kept the long-game as my focus. I supplemented with formula a couple of times for my mental health, and didn’t allow myself to ruminate on the thought of ruining our journey, despite the triggering memories. Those few supplemented feeds gave me what I needed (a release from pressure, sleep, ni**le rest) to get through that day, night, week, month. We have only used 1/2 a can of formula his entire first year! I’m celebrating that this week. I don’t think I’ve ever been so proud of an accomplishment. Breastfeeding is so insanely beautiful and I’m grateful for this story.
2. I listened to the Holy Spirit more than the advice. I’ll admit, asking God was not my instinct — it usually came after google, messenger, or texting a friend. But interestingly enough, when the advice said “set an alarm and pump every two hours” I felt that I was supposed to sleep. I did and my supply returned almost miraculously. God knows what we need. That's just one example. Wisdom from professionals and even other moms is so valuable. But above all, He is to be trusted.
3. Appropriate supplies. Man oh man, I wanna scream from the rooftop: USE THE RIGHT FL**GE SIZE after my first baby. The lack of that knowledge really destroyed the first time. It was tough at first mentally, but having a new and amazing hands free pump this time was a great investment. Whether it was nursing strikes or travelling, work or therapy, my in bra Mom Cozy really helped me ease back into pumping after a really horrible pumping experience. It was also helpful to have the right supplements, clothes, let's be honest STREAMING APPS for those early days (TV helped psych me up for feeds when ni**les were cracked!) We spend money to be equipped for new occupations.... This should be the same.….. you’re literally building your baby’s wellness foundation !!!!
To all you moms reading this while nursing, solidarity sis. 👊
Also huge thanks to both .md
(Go check out her latching logic!) and my friend for the support in the first few months. Support is the biggest game changer with breastfeeding. I can testify.
