Ong Lip Qin Sports Physiotherapist - Precise Rehab

Ong Lip Qin Sports Physiotherapist - Precise Rehab Ph.D.
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Candidate in Physical Therapy | MOE Taiwan FULL Scholar at NCKU ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ผ ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡พ MScPT, BSc(HON) MSK & Sports Rehabilitation Research | Advanced Clinical Biomechanics & Mvt Science | Fix the BRAIN๐Ÿง Fix the PAIN๐Ÿ’ฅDGSAยฎMT(SWISS)โ€ขSTOTT PILATES instructor Precise Rehab is founded by a team of specializes physios with 14 years of experience in clinical Pilates, Advanced DryNeedling, sports performance rehab, str

ength and conditioning. We provide rehab treatment for condition such as:

- Whiplash/ Neck / Shoulder injury
- Headache / Migraine
- Slip Disc / Sciatica / Back pain/ Scoliosis
- Tennis / Golferโ€™s elbow
- Knee/ Hip/ Ankle pain
- Sports / Work related injury
- Motor Vehicle Accident

A new AI tool diagnoses Autism and ADHD with 90% accuracy โ€” and it was made by a high schooler. An innovative A.I. tool ...
04/07/2026

A new AI tool diagnoses Autism and ADHD with 90% accuracy โ€” and it was made by a high schooler.

An innovative A.I. tool called RetinaMind, developed by 17-year-old high school senior Edward Kang, can diagnose autism and ADHD with 89% accuracy using only retinal scans of the eye.

Seventeen-year-old Edward Kang, a high school senior at Bergen County Academies in New Jersey, has developed RetinaMindโ€”an innovative artificial intelligence tool that diagnoses autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) by analyzing retinal images. Inspired by a Hong Kong study linking eye traits to brain development, Kang taught himself to code and built a deep-learning convolutional neural network. RetinaMind works by analyzing subtle, complex physical differences in the length, thickness, and depth of the macula and retinal nerve layers that are virtually invisible to the human eye. By combining multiple predictive models through ensemble learning, the system achieves an impressive 89% diagnostic accuracy rate, offering a potential breakthrough for non-invasive, objective screening.

Early diagnosis is crucial, yet traditional evaluations for autism and ADHD rely on complex behavioral observations that can take months or even years to complete. To deepen the scientific foundation of his project, Kang also researched the genetic links between retinal development and neurodivergence, identifying the ABCA4 gene as a possible factor in retinal cellular differences. His groundbreaking research earned him second place and a $175,000 prize at the prestigious 2026 Regeneron Science Talent Search. While medical experts caution that the retina's subtle structural differences may overlap with other neurological conditions, Kang's proof of concept demonstrates how A.I. can uncover hidden biomarkers, bringing us closer to a future of rapid, objective, and life-changing early intervention.

source: Waseem, R. (2026). This High Schooler Developed an A.I. Tool to Diagnose Autism and ADHD Using the Retina. Smithsonian Magazine.

Well done again Hong Kong Physiotherapy Association  ้ฆ™ๆธฏ็‰ฉ็†ๆฒป็™‚ๅญธๆœƒ โค๏ธ๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช
04/07/2026

Well done again Hong Kong Physiotherapy Association ้ฆ™ๆธฏ็‰ฉ็†ๆฒป็™‚ๅญธๆœƒ โค๏ธ๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

็—…่€…่ผชๅ€™ๆ™‚้–“็”ฑ้•ท้”100ๅ€‹ๆ˜ŸๆœŸ๏ผŒ็ธฎ็Ÿญๅˆฐๅ…ฉ่‡ณๅ››ๆ˜ŸๆœŸๅ…ง
ๅ…จๆ–‡๏ผšhttps://www.hk01.com/sns/article/60363625?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=fbpost&utm_campaign=news

#็‰ฉ็†ๆฒป็™‚ๅธซ #่„ŠๆคŽ็—› #้ชจ็ง‘ๅˆ†ๆต่จˆๅŠƒ #01็คพๆœƒๆ–ฐ่ž #01ๆ–ฐ่ž #้ฆ™ๆธฏ01
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๐Ÿ“Œ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—›๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜†: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—œ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜ˆ ๐˜‘๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜›๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ ๐˜Š๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด(For those intere...
12/06/2026

๐Ÿ“Œ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—›๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜†: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—œ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ
๐˜ˆ ๐˜‘๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜›๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ ๐˜Š๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด
(For those interested, I have briefly summarized the key milestones in the infographic below)

Today, the words physiotherapy and physiotherapist are used around the world to describe an autonomous healthcare profession. But the story behind these terms is far more complex than many realize.

The profession we now know as physiotherapy did not emerge from a single discipline. Instead, it evolved from a collection of practices including manipulation, gymnastics, massage, hydrotherapy, electrotherapy, and therapeutic exercise. And interestingly, the word physiotherapy was not originally claimed by physiotherapists.

โœ…๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ข๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ w๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ
The term physiotherapy combines two Greek words:
โ–ช๏ธ Phusis โ€“ nature
โ–ช๏ธ Therapia โ€“ healing

Although the term is often associated with the late nineteenth century, its roots appear to extend back to 1831 when German physician Friedrich Julius Siebenhaar used the word physiotherapie to describe the relationship between nature, the external world, and the human body.

Throughout the nineteenth century, the term appeared sporadically in German medical literature.

โœ…๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐˜†
In 1894, Canadian physician Playter introduced the English word physiotherapy, describing the use of natural therapeutic approaches such as:
โ–ช๏ธ Hydrotherapy
โ–ช๏ธ Electricity
โ–ช๏ธ Gymnastics
โ–ช๏ธ Light
โ–ช๏ธ Heat

As interest in these treatments grew, physiotherapy became recognized as a developing medical specialty throughout Europe. Medical journals, conferences, and educational programs dedicated to physiotherapy began to appear.

By 1907, delegates at the Second International Congress of Physiotherapy in Rome agreed that physiotherapy included a range of physical agents such as electricity, exercise, massage, heat, light, hydrotherapy, and radioactive substances.

Some even proclaimed:
"The future belongs to physiothรฉrapie."

โœ…๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ป-๐—ฝ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€
In the United States, physicians practicing electrotherapy expanded their scope and formally adopted the titles physiotherapy and physiotherapist in 1914.

A few years later, World War I dramatically increased the demand for rehabilitation services.

To address the enormous number of injured servicemen, the United States Army recruited and trained women with backgrounds in physical education, nursing, and therapeutic care.

Working under medical supervision, they became known as reconstruction physiotherapy aides.

When the war ended, these women formed the American Women's Physical Therapeutic Association in 1921.

Soon afterward, the organization changed its name to the American Physiotherapy Association.

This represented the first official claim to the name physiotherapy by non-physicians.

โœ…Physiotherapy spreads across the anglosphere

In Britain and its colonies, massage, gymnastics, and electrotherapy had already become established professions. However, the term physiotherapy was not widely adopted until after World War I.

The title gradually appeared in:
โ–ช๏ธ South Africa (1932)
โ–ช๏ธ Canada (1934)
โ–ช๏ธ Australia (1939)
โ–ช๏ธ Britain (1944)
โ–ช๏ธ New Zealand (1950)

Without competition from medical specialists, non-physician practitioners successfully secured the title physiotherapist throughout much of the English-speaking world.

โœ…๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—”๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ โ€œ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜†โ€
The story unfolded differently in the United States. Medical physiotherapists increasingly promoted a hierarchy in which physiotherapists became known as ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€.

Then, in 1944, physician physiotherapists adopted a new title: Physical Medicine (Physiatry).

๐‘จ๐’” ๐’‚ ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’–๐’๐’•, ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’๐’-๐’‘๐’‰๐’š๐’”๐’Š๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’ ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’‡๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’…๐’“๐’๐’‘๐’‘๐’†๐’… ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’… ๐’•๐’†๐’„๐’‰๐’๐’Š๐’„๐’Š๐’‚๐’, and the American Physical Therapy Association emerged.

From that point forward, ๐˜๐’‰๐’† ๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’‡๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’Š๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ผ๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’†๐’… ๐‘บ๐’•๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’„๐’‚๐’Ž๐’† ๐’˜๐’Š๐’…๐’†๐’๐’š ๐’Œ๐’๐’๐’˜๐’ ๐’‚๐’” ๐’‘๐’‰๐’š๐’”๐’Š๐’„๐’‚๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’‚๐’‘๐’š ๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’ ๐’‘๐’‰๐’š๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’‚๐’‘๐’š.

โœ…๐—˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜†
Across continental Europe, physicians continued to control the term physiotherapy until many transitioned toward physical medicine and rehabilitation after World War II.

At the same time, autonomous non-physician physiotherapy gradually expanded across Europe.

Beginning with Denmark in 1953, the profession spread throughout much of the continent.

Following the dissolution of the Soviet Union and the breakup of Yugoslavia in the early 1990s, non-physician physiotherapy became established across Central and Eastern Europe as well.

Today, the European Commission recognizes physiotherapist as the generic title of the autonomous profession.

โœ…๐—” ๐—š๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€
During the second half of the twentieth century, physiotherapy expanded rapidly around the world as rehabilitation services grew.

Most countries adopted the term physiotherapy. Others retained names such as:
โ–ช๏ธ Physical Therapy
โ–ช๏ธ Kinesitherapy

As international collaboration increased, these naming differences became increasingly problematic.

โœ… ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ช๐—–๐—ฃ๐—ง ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜†

By the early twenty-first century, most member organizations of the World Confederation for Physical Therapy were using the term physiotherapy. ๐™„๐™ฃ 2019, ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ค๐™ง๐™œ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฏ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ค๐™›๐™›๐™ž๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™–๐™™๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ข๐™š: "๐™’๐™ค๐™ง๐™ก๐™™ ๐™‹๐™๐™ฎ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฎ"

The new name was described as: "Clear, simple, and effective."

Whether this represents another chapter in the long history of the word physiotherapy, or the beginning of a more unified global identity, remains to be seen.

โœ… ๐—–๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป
Understanding the history of physiotherapy is more than an academic exercise.

It reminds us that our profession did not emerge from a single discipline.

Rather, it evolved from the integration of:
๐Ÿ”น Movement science
๐Ÿ”น Exercise therapy
๐Ÿ”น Massage
๐Ÿ”น Manual therapy
๐Ÿ”น Electrotherapy
๐Ÿ”น Hydrotherapy
๐Ÿ”น Rehabilitation sciences

The story of physiotherapy is ultimately a story of professional evolutionโ€”from a collection of therapeutic practices to an autonomous health profession recognized worldwide.

As we continue to debate scope of practice, direct access, advanced practice, and professional identity, understanding where we came from may help us better understand where we are going.

๐Ÿ“š ๐—™๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด
For a detailed historical review of the word physiotherapy and its evolution across countries, visit the International Physiotherapy History Association:
https://history.physio/the-word

Two Malaysians from the Malaysia Therapists Team bagged gold and silver medals in their respective categories at the Asi...
11/06/2026

Two Malaysians from the Malaysia Therapists Team bagged gold and silver medals in their respective categories at the Asia Massage Championship (AMC) 2026 on 2 and 3 June at the National Yoyogi Stadium Second Gymnasium in Tokyo, Japan โค๏ธ

Mazlin Mazlan, better known as Tanamera, won the gold medal in the Oil Massage Category. This achievement proved the technical skill, professional touches, and high discipline she possessed throughout the competition.

Meanwhile, Lim Sim Zher also brought pride to Malaysia when she came out as runner-up in the Eastern Freestyle Massage category.

Mazlin and Lim went up against other massage professionals from all over Asia including Thailand, Japan, South Korea, and China ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

๐Ÿ–Š๏ธ Shahril
๐Ÿ”Ž Farah / Melissa
๐ŸŽจ Jessica
โฌ†๏ธ Melissa

Jensen Huang Taiwanese-American founder and CEO of  NVIDIA, Says Asian Kids Need Therapy for Life ๐Ÿฅฒโค๏ธI Only Understood A...
09/06/2026

Jensen Huang Taiwanese-American founder and CEO of NVIDIA, Says Asian Kids Need Therapy for Life ๐Ÿฅฒโค๏ธ

I Only Understood After Moving Abroad: That Might Also Be Our Weapon

Jensen Huang recently shared a story at a private forum.

He said that if you grew up in an Asian family and were raised by Asian parents, youโ€™ll probably need a therapist for the rest of your life.

He was 63 when he said this. Earlier that very afternoon, his parents had just scolded him again.

He joked that Asian parents show love through criticism. They always believe you can do better. No matter how hard youโ€™ve tried, itโ€™s never quite enough.

The only response he has learned is the same phrase in both Taiwanese and Mandarin:

โ€œOkay, okay.โ€

Sitting below him was a row of NVIDIA executives.

Huang said he manages his company the same way. If he cares about you, heโ€™ll spend the time and effort to critique you carefully. Saying โ€œGood jobโ€ is actually the easiest thing to do.

For a while, this story circulated widely in Taiwan. Most people treated it as a heartwarming family anecdote, or a successful personโ€™s self-deprecating joke.

But after spending several years working in Europe, I thought of something else.

The thing that makes us feel like we need therapy for life might also be the thing that helps us survive overseas.

โธป

Among the friends I know who moved abroad, they generally fall into two groups.

The first group spends years trying to make peace with that inner voice that constantly says, โ€œYouโ€™re not good enough.โ€

The second group turns that voice into a weapon.

Letโ€™s start with the first group.

I have a friend who graduated from National Taiwan University and stayed in the Netherlands after completing her masterโ€™s degree in design.

She told me that during one of her first meetings, her manager listened to her proposal and simply said:

โ€œThis is great. Letโ€™s go.โ€

She froze.

โ€œI thought he was brushing me off,โ€ she said.

โ€œI kept waiting for the โ€˜but.โ€™ I kept waiting for him to tell me what wasnโ€™t good enough, what needed fixing. But there was nothing. Instead, I started wondering whether heโ€™d even looked at it seriously.โ€

It took her nearly two years to slowly believe something she had never fully accepted before:

That someone could genuinely think you did a good jobโ€”and that it wasnโ€™t politeness, wasnโ€™t hidden criticism, and wasnโ€™t because they hadnโ€™t noticed your flaws.

During those two years, she actually went to therapy.

Jensen Huang wasnโ€™t wrong.

โธป

The second type of person is almost the opposite.

I know a senior professional who became a middle manager at a semiconductor company in Germany.

He was the classic Asian kidโ€”the kind who came home with second place and got asked who came first.

He told me that when he first arrived in Germany, he realized he possessed a skill many others didnโ€™t:

He wasnโ€™t afraid of rejection.

โ€œWhen German colleagues have their proposals rejected, theyโ€™ll feel upset for a week,โ€ he said.

โ€œI grew up getting rejected all the time. If a manager criticized my work in front of the whole team and told me to redo everything, my reaction was simply, โ€˜Oh, okay. Iโ€™ll fix it.โ€™

No emotional reaction. I never saw it as a personal attack.โ€

He was promoted quickly.

Not because he was smarter than everyone else, but because when criticism came, he treated it as a problem to solve rather than an attack on his identity.

This is exactly the kind of person Jensen Huang was describingโ€”someone who learns easily, stays humble, and isnโ€™t afraid to start from the bottom.

When I heard that, I didnโ€™t find it inspiring.

I found it a little heartbreaking.

Because how much rejection does someone have to endure before they become completely numb to being publicly criticized?

โธป

It took me a long time to realize something:

What Asian parenting gives us is neither purely a wound nor purely a gift.

The two are inseparable.

That voice that keeps you awake at night, telling you that youโ€™re never good enoughโ€”once you move abroad and enter a different environment, it can become your greatest competitive advantage.

You can endure hardship.

You handle pressure.

You donโ€™t collapse when youโ€™re criticized.

You always believe you can do better.

In a competitive workplace, those traits are undeniably useful.

Sometimes the wound and the armor are made from the same material.

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But Iโ€™m not saying:

โ€œTherefore, Asian parenting is actually good.โ€

That conclusion is too cheap.

The most common misunderstanding of Jensen Huangโ€™s story is turning it into a neat reconciliation narrative:

โ€œThey loved you, so it was all worth it.โ€

What I want to say is something different.

When you realize that the thing that hurt you has become your weapon in a foreign land, youโ€™re faced with a difficult choice:

Do you continue using it?

My friend in Germany eventually became a manager.

He told me that sometimes, while leading his team, he would hear his fatherโ€™s words coming out of his own mouth:

โ€œThatโ€™s not enough.โ€

โ€œYou can do better.โ€

One day, after he criticized a young Taiwanese engineer on his team, the engineer simply replied:

โ€œOkay, Iโ€™ll fix it.โ€

No emotion showed on his face.

โ€œThat was the moment I got scared,โ€ he said.

โ€œI saw myself twenty years ago.

I realized I was passing on the very thing I never wanted to inherit.

And worse, I genuinely believed I was helping him.โ€

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Jensen Huang says criticism is how he expresses love.

I believe thatโ€™s true.

And I believe his parents were sincere.

But sincerity doesnโ€™t erase consequences.

A person can truly love you and still hurt you.

Those two things are not contradictory at all.

The hardest task for our generation is not denying our parentsโ€™ love.

Itโ€™s acknowledging that the love was real, the wound was real too, and then deciding for ourselves what we will keepโ€”and what ends with us.

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For many people, moving abroad means changing jobs or changing cities.

But I think its deeper meaning is this:

It gives you enough distance to finally see yourself clearly.

When youโ€™re still in Taiwan, that voice saying โ€œYouโ€™re not good enoughโ€ feels like air.

You breathe it every day, so you donโ€™t even notice itโ€™s there.

Only after leavingโ€”after arriving somewhere nobody speaks to you that wayโ€”do you finally hear it.

And then you realize:

Itโ€™s so loud.

You realize it was never an objective truth.

It was simply repeated so many times that it eventually settled inside your body as a habit.

First, you have to hear that voice.

Only then can you decide whether you want to pass it on.

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So if youโ€™re someone who grew up constantly being criticized, and youโ€™re now living somewhere far from home, still lying awake at night wondering whether youโ€™re good enoughโ€”

What I want to tell you is not:

โ€œYour parents really loved you.โ€

Youโ€™ve heard that enough already.

What I want to say is this:

The thing that hurt you may also be the thing that brought you this far.

You can thank it for helping you survive without pretending it never wounded you.

And today, you possess something your parents may never have had:

Distance.

And choice.

The sentence โ€œYou can do betterโ€ can stop with you.

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ยฉ Susie Li (ๆŽๆ€่ฑ)

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