Tholinhlanhla Psychologist

16/09/2026

On this day, 16 September 2025, a year ago, a dear friend and patient took his last breath. 💔

His name was Andile Khanyezi — a loving husband, a devoted father, and a beautiful soul.

As I type this tribute, one he asked me to write during one of our difficult sessions, I can’t help but smile. It feels as though he is sitting right here with me.

“Doc, there’s so much I wish you can tell people about me.”
And then, through his tears, he would smile and say,
“Doc, I love my wife…" He called her "Love" "Sthandwa"
One thing I know for sure: Andile’s beautiful wife loved him deeply too.

Andile and I began our oncology journey on 13 June 2024. Even when he was transferred between different hospitals, I would still get that call: “Doc, please come see me. Uwena owazi uhambo lwami"

I am grateful that I had the privilege of knowing you, walking alongside you, and being there for your wife when you transcended into your next chapter.

Before he left us, Andile asked me to share these things with you:
1. Never take life for granted.
2. Spend time with the people you love.
3. Please, majita, go for your medical check-ups.
4. Ayiiii… kuningi...

There was so much more he wanted to say.

**Disclaimer:** Tributes of this nature are only shared as a promise to a patient whose life mattered deeply to me. Pictures provided and shared as requested by family.

Promise kept. 🤍🕊

Andile, may your soul continue to rest peacefully. 🙏🏾
Your story, your love, and your message live on.

16/09/2026

Behind every title, every leadership role, every marital status, every parenting status… we are still just girls who want to laugh, love, dance, and have fun. ❤️💃

We are not always strong. We are softies. We are tender, sensitive, and sometimes fragile.

We serve, we nurture, we carry so much — but we also long to be served, cared for, protected, and treated like the princesses we are. 👑

Please protect us. Protect every daughter of the earth. Let us feel safe enough to soften, to rest, to be playful, and simply to be.💞






We matter. 🤍

24/08/2026

🏆 GAGASI FM SHERO AWARDS — PUBLIC SECTOR CATEGORY WINNER! 🏆

What an incredible honour! To be recognised and awarded in the Public Sector category at the Gagasi FM Shero Awards is a moment I will cherish deeply.

This award is not just a personal achievement — it is a celebration of the work, dedication and passion behind serving communities and advocating for mental health. Every conversation, every person reached, and every life touched reminds me why this work matters.

I receive this award with deep gratitude and humility. Thank you to everyone who nominated me, supported my work, believed in my vision and continues to walk this journey with me.

Tholinhlanhla Dlamini-Ngcoya
Psychologist | Healer | Mental Health Advocate

This one is for every person who has ever been reminded that . ❤️🏆

Gagasi FM

09/08/2026

04/08/2026

Power of physical touch in healing is amazing. I captured this beautiful moment to reflect on what would have happened if I asked her to stop stroking my arm for comfort as this is basically "not allowed" according to psychotherapy academic teachings. After the session we both looked at this 20seconds clip so many times while she was crying. She mentioned that she felt supported physically, emotionally and spiritually.

I am grateful for the calling and I will continue to serve and heal purposefully💯❤️

19/07/2026

My parents named me Precious and indeed I ain't regular and I have owned that a long time ago.

19/07/2026

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18/06/2026

I came, I served and I empowered!!

When I start wondering why I subjected myself to this job. Than I get reminded that it's a calling and that people feel it without me telling them, it grounds me. HUMBLED 🥰💯🙌🏾👏🏾

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09/06/2026

Men's Mental Health Matter💯🧠🫶🏾
We APPRECIATE you!
We SEE you!
We CAREA about you!
Please SELFCARE!!

30/05/2026

Thank you and for such an intimate and yet so impactful conversation.
Mom & Daughter duo and mom got me triggered in so many different ways.
Meeting such beautiful ladies and just building the sisterhood circle even bigger.
To the gentleman (shop manager) who had a whole conversation about my outfit and how colours heal the soul, I am humbled and grateful.
My presenting in color is very intentional ❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙💜💜❤️‍🔥🧠🧠

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