Sister Ingrid- Gentle Touch Midwifery

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All about pregnancies, birthing, breastfeeding and parenthood. I am practicing as an independent private midwife and an IBCLC (International Board certified lactation consultant), seeing new families throughout their pregnancies and for their first few years as parents for:

Pregnancy services
• Antenatal Education sessions
• Antenatal check-ups
Breastfeeding preparation sessions

Birthing service

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Homebirths
Waterbirths

Postnatal services
• Postnatal home visits/ support
Discovery HomeCare
• Moms support group
• Home phototherapy for babies
• Breastfeeding consultations- home or clinic
• Baby clinic for all vaccinations and advice and support
• 6 week postnatal check-up
• Family planning
• Pap smears for women of all ages

Delayed cord clamping is such an important topic.This is also the reason why we on average wait about 30 minutes before ...
22/05/2026

Delayed cord clamping is such an important topic.
This is also the reason why we on average wait about 30 minutes before clamping the cord after birth at our home births.
It's a special, sacred time. Not just for you, the new mommy and family, but it is also a huge change for baby and we know that this is the best way to give baby time to get used to life outside of mommy while still attached with the cord, to keep on getting oxygen just like throughout the pregnancy and to get all its own blood volume . A healthy start to life outside of mom ❤️

60 seconds is not delayed cord clamping.

Let me say that again: clamping the cord at 60 seconds is NOT true delayed cord clamping.

It's just slightly less immediate than the old practice of clamping within 10 seconds.

Actual delayed cord clamping means waiting until the cord stops pulsing.

Until it's limp. White. No longer transferring blood (like the cord in the photo below).

That can take 5 minutes. 10 minutes. Sometimes 15 minutes or longer.

Why does this matter?

Because that cord is still doing its job. It's still transferring blood from the placenta to your baby. Blood that contains:
- Up to 1/3 of baby's total blood volume
- Oxygen for the transition to breathing
- Stem cells
- Iron stores for the first 6-12 months of life
- Immune factors

Your baby's heartbeat acts like a pump, moving blood from the placenta into their body.

As long as that cord is pulsing, blood is transferring. Why would we interrupt that mid-process?

A 2023 meta-analysis found that delayed cord clamping is beneficial for improving oxygen saturation, APGAR scores, and mortality rates in newborns. This isn't just about blood volume - it's about better outcomes across the board.

"But don't we need to deliver the placenta quickly?"

No. Barring actual emergencies (hemorrhage, true cord prolapse, severe fetal distress), there is NO medical reason to rush cord clamping and placenta delivery.

The only reasons are convenience. Routine. "That's how we've always done it." Provider preference. Time management.

None of those are good reasons to cut off your baby's blood supply before the transfer is complete.

Your baby just worked incredibly hard to be born.

They're transitioning from getting oxygen through the cord to breathing with their lungs. That's a MASSIVE physiological shift.

The cord continuing to pulse means they're getting oxygen both ways during that transition. It's a backup system. A safety net while they figure out breathing.

Why would we eliminate that safety net at 60 seconds just because the clock says so?

At home, we wait.

5 minutes. 10 minutes. 15 minutes or longer. We usually wait until after the birth of the placenta to clamp or cut the cord.

The birth of the placenta isn't hurried. Barring emergencies such as hemorrhage, there's no rush. We let it come when it's ready. However long that takes.

Because there's no arbitrary timeline.

Just your body and your baby, finishing the work they started.

Transferring every last bit of blood that belongs to your baby. Allowing the placenta to separate naturally. Trusting the process.

This is what "delayed cord clamping" actually means.

Not 60 seconds to check a box on a birth plan.

But genuine patience. Waiting for completion. Letting your baby receive everything that's already theirs.

You can ask your provider to wait until the cord is no longer pulsing to clamp the cord. Let them know that you want the cord to be white and limp before they clamp it. It may take a few extra minutes, but it’s worth it ❤️

🌸Gentle Touch Midwifery - home births🌸To be able to offer home birth to families, one needs to be connected to other bir...
15/05/2026

🌸Gentle Touch Midwifery - home births🌸
To be able to offer home birth to families, one needs to be connected to other birth professionals, midwives, doulas and backup gynecologists. This not only helps to be able to give the best possible care but also to be able to cover such a big geographical area.
Currently I am offering home births also now in Port Elizabeth.
Here, with me Ansie Lima, my 2nd midwife in PE .mamzi (also often working as a doula) and Colleen Pedersen our wonderful doula from and



Port Elizabeth, Kenton-on-Sea, Port Alfred, Grahamstown, Bathurst, Alexandria, Cannon Rocks and surrounds

There is a saying that when a baby is born when it's raining, that it's good luck. So surely when a baby is born during ...
12/05/2026

There is a saying that when a baby is born when it's raining, that it's good luck. So surely when a baby is born during one of the biggest storms the Eastern Cape has seen for a long time, it must mean that this baby brings loads of blessings, love and joy ❤️
This is exactly what happened when this PE baby decided it was time and I had to jump in my car at 1 am. Part of the 'blessings' was as soon as I got in my car, it stopped raining and only started again once being safely in the home of the labouring couple.

With first time moms, we expect that labour can sometimes take quite some time. This mom however did really well and labour progressed quite fast. With the great support of the new daddy, this baby boy was born with great excitement of mom, dad and granny.
Congratulations to this new family. You make such a great team ❤️
Thanks to my amazing birth team .mamzi

To all my fellow midwives,Happy International Midwives day 🩷🌸
05/05/2026

To all my fellow midwives,
Happy International Midwives day 🩷🌸



This little lady also tested the patience of her parents. She was way to comfy and warm inside mommy, her safe and speci...
04/05/2026

This little lady also tested the patience of her parents. She was way to comfy and warm inside mommy, her safe and special place...
A huge congrats to Cheryl and Luke and big sister Laya, on the birth of their little princess Reef.
She is the sweetest baby and she is blessed to have this family as her family❤️
May Reef bring love and joy to all people that she meets in her life.

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24/04/2026

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This baby tested the patience of this mommy and kept this family waiting for well over 41 weeks. I got a message on Sund...
17/04/2026

This baby tested the patience of this mommy and kept this family waiting for well over 41 weeks. I got a message on Sunday saying that contractions have finally started but are very inconsistent and far apart. I did mention to her that many babies like to wait till it's dark as birth hormones are also known to work so much better at that time. That is exactly also what happened. During the night, contractions speeded up and became more intense. We got the birthpool ready in their room and shortly after entering the warm water this new baby girl was welcomed to this family. The sounds of the new baby sister in the room woke up the older sister and what great excitement that was. Kriston and Don, you are blessed with 2 beautiful girls. I am sure Althea is going to be an amazing big sister to little Ruth.
Once again, amazing to be a part of people's special days. To witness and be reminded of how miraculously we are made. To be able to grow a baby and then birth the baby. Absolutely Incredible!
as always, wonderful to work with you.

Every birth is special, but having a homebirth on Easter Sunday, is extra special ❤️That is exactly what happened to Rob...
16/04/2026

Every birth is special, but having a homebirth on Easter Sunday, is extra special ❤️
That is exactly what happened to Robyn and Mookie. After midmorning spontaneous rupture of membranes, the contractions started soon after and at sunset that evening, little Aroe was born and in his parents arms.
How amazing to witness gentle and loving births.
Congrats to this new family. May your little boy bring you lots of love and happiness.

I also had to try it and I love it ❤️
09/02/2026

I also had to try it and I love it ❤️

This year has started off with a bang.3 babies born in the last 3 weeks and quite a few more homebirths lined up in the ...
03/02/2026

This year has started off with a bang.
3 babies born in the last 3 weeks and quite a few more homebirths lined up in the next few months.
Every birth is different.
Every birth is special.
Mary-Jane, we have had so many births together in the last few years. From the start I knew we make a good team.
I remember many special times with you.
One of them was when we both still had younger babies/children and who just had to come along to a birth. I remember us sitting on the new moms bed after the baby was born and we all 3 breastfed our children . The newborn, a 6 months baby and a 2 year old.
I'm looking forward to more beautiful births with you.
Mary-Jane Smith

Should you wonder about homebirth, how it works and if it is for you, please reach out.
We would love to meet with you.


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Cannon Rocks
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