Vicki Fick - Not that therapist

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14/02/2026
24/01/2026

When I gave birth to my first born, my mom walked into my room. I was in pain from the surgery and a little groggy. I expected her to share in my excitement of my little guy's arrival but instead, I had to share in hers at becoming a grandmother with words that followed that I will never unhear. She said, loud and clear, "Make sure that whatever you do, that you don't fall pregnant again." I think I felt shock, but maybe the mindset of a 24 year old, couldn't quite process the hurtful spell that was uttered, because I went on to have 5 miscarriages over the years and with each of them, her words repeating, cold and real, I wasn't having more.

With the last loss and in the midst of soul crushing trauma, I fell to my knees and begged God to remove this curse from my life and I was blessed with a boy that loves me so unconditionally and so wildly, that I have no choice but to heal from it all, because he makes me remember that I am a mother too.

23/11/2025

How does the devil attack? Here are some obvious, but missed strategic moves.

1. Erode self-worth slowly.
Not by dramatic attacks, but by nudging small thoughts like
“You’re not enough” … “Why even try?”
That’s how people lose their direction without noticing.

2. Distract you from your purpose.
Not by stopping you — just by keeping you busy with noise, comparison, drama, or addictions (social, emotional, or otherwise).
Purpose dies more often from distraction than destruction.

3. Divide people.
Plant small misunderstandings, escalate petty conflicts, fuel gossip.
A fragmented community is always weaker than a united one.

4. Normalize harmful behaviour.
Make destructive choices feel “normal,” “common,” or “everybody does it.”
When harm feels ordinary, people stop questioning the cost.

5. Sell shortcuts that look like success.
Anything that promises power, validation, or relief now… at the cost of integrity later.

6. Make people believe they’re alone.
Isolation breeds fear, and fear makes people easy to manipulate.

7. Blur truth until people doubt everything.
Not by telling huge lies — by mixing just enough confusion that people feel lost.

All of this is really a way of saying:
The most dangerous sabotage rarely looks like an attack. It looks like comfort, distraction, self-doubt, and division.

And he uses the people closest to you, to do it.

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