17/08/2026
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#3: AuDHD can sometimes feel like being pulled in two different directions at once โฌ๏ธโฌ๏ธ
AuDHD can sometimes feel like an internal push and pull between different needs, tendencies and ways of regulating attention, energy and sensory input. ๐ง
Autistic traits may create a strong pull towards predictability, structure, calm and familiarity, while ADHD traits may create a need for novelty, stimulation, spontaneity and change. When these coexist, the result can be experiences that seem contradictory - but can make sense when we understand the interaction between the two.
โฃYou might crave routine but struggle to stick to it.
โฃNeed predictability but get bored with repetition.
โฃSeek stimulation while also becoming overwhelmed by sensory input.
โฃCrave connection but find socialising exhausting.
โฃOverthink every possible outcome, then make an impulsive decision anyway.
This push and pull can make everyday decisions, routines, relationships and emotional regulation feel particularly complicated - and, over time, can contribute to overwhelm, exhaustion and burnout.
Importantly, these experiences aren't universal to every AuDHD individual, and they aren't simply a case of โautism doing one thing and ADHD doing the opposite.โ Rather, the characteristics of both neurodevelopmental profiles can interact in complex ways, creating a unique experience where seemingly contradictory needs can coexist.
And sometimes, understanding the contradiction is the first step towards understanding the person. ๐ง ๐