22/09/2026
“We cannot give our children what we don’t have” - I just read this in Brené Brown’s book The Gift of Imperfection.
It’s such a simple sentence, but it carries so much. We spend so much time thinking about what our children need from us, patience, connection, safety, calm, presence.
But caring for our children starts with caring for ourselves. We cannot pour calm from an overwhelmed nervous system. We cannot model rest while constantly running on empty. And we cannot teach our children that their bodies deserve care if we continually ignore our own.
Looking after yourself isn’t separate from looking after your family. It’s part of it.
✨ Dr Chantel