07/10/2026
Addo Lesson 10: Surround yourself with people who believe in you.
Following my recent post on completing the Addo 100 Miler — a 165 km ultra trail run — this is the tenth and final lesson from that journey.
During those 39 hours, especially when things became really tough, I kept hearing the voices of the people closest to me.
My wife: “Of course you can finish. I have no doubt you can. You prepared for this — physically, mentally, energetically — imagine yourself crossing that finish line. Imagine how good it will feel to know that you achieved it.”
My daughter: “You’ve got this, Dad. You can do it!”
And my son, three times before I left: “Run your own race, Dad.”
For hours, I repeated those words.
Again and again.
When my own reserves were running low, their belief became something I could draw on.
Energy. Determination. Grit.
We often think that perseverance comes entirely from within us. But our strength is also carried by the people around us.
The people who care for us.
Who believe in us.
Who remind us what we are capable of, when we begin to doubt ourselves.
Perhaps that is one of the greatest gifts we can give another person — to believe in them when they are struggling to believe in themselves.
And perhaps we should be more intentional about surrounding ourselves with the people who bring out the best in us.
Who are the people who genuinely care for you, believe in you, and want the best for you?
And perhaps more importantly — are you spending enough time with them?