N-Lightened Self

N-Lightened Self I am a Pharmacist, Registered Naturopath, NLP, CBT and EMDR Practitioner (IPHM, NCCAP and CMA Certified).

Naturopathic & Holistic Health Alchemist; NLP, EMDR, EFT & CBT Practioner; Speaker
Combining the Ancient wisdom of Naturopathy with Modern Science and Neuroplasticity, I aim to guide you through the process of rediscovery of yourself and achieve balance N-Lightened Self is a naturopathic wellness and integrative coaching service that combines holistic healing practices, personalised wellness pla

ns and natural remedies to help clients achieve optimal health, personal growth, and overcome obstacles to create a fulfilling life. I have spent over two decades in the healthcare industry, steering and guiding others toward achieving wellness. During this time, I embarked on a journey to provide myself and others with a blueprint for a holistic wellness development plan. Navigating my own healing journey ignited my passion for holistic transformation. This powerful and cathartic journey – my “Long Walk Home”, as I fondly call it – was filled with many blessings, and just as many lessons. It also afforded me the capacity to hold space for others in an authentic and vulnerable manner. It came as no surprise then that, when presented with the opportunity to be a catalyst for holistic personal growth, I jumped into the unknown, embracing this change with equal amounts of trepidation, faith and excitement. My experience and qualifications cemented my competence at empowering others to overcome challenges and tap into their strengths, allowing them to create positive change by providing them with the guidance, tools and strategies needed for a holistic transformation. I am excited about this next level of life, as I face it with equal amounts of fear and faith.

Polyvagal theory in plain language ... because understanding your own nervous system changes everything.Most of the wome...
05/06/2026

Polyvagal theory in plain language ... because understanding your own nervous system changes everything.

Most of the women I work with have been cycling between mobilised and collapsed for years. They called it anxiety. They called it laziness. They called it just how I am.

It isn't. It is a body waiting for the signal that the danger is over.

The free guide is your first five signals. Link in bio.

Save this. It is worth coming back to.

03/06/2026

Every wellness approach that didn't work for you was probably speaking to your mind.

Your nervous system speaks a different language.

The free guide teaches you five ways to speak it. Link in bio.

Save this. Share it with someone still trying to think their way through.

Nobody tells you that burnout doesn't always look like collapse.Sometimes it looks like competence. Like showing up. Lik...
02/06/2026

Nobody tells you that burnout doesn't always look like collapse.

Sometimes it looks like competence. Like showing up. Like holding everything together while something underneath quietly runs out.

If you recognised yourself in any of those slides — your body is not failing you. It is communicating with you.

The free Nervous System Reset Guide is your first honest response to that communication. Link in bio.

Save this if it resonated. Share it with someone who needs to read it.

She didn't need another tool. She needed someone to sit with her long enough to name the thing she'd been carrying as pe...
29/05/2026

She didn't need another tool. She needed someone to sit with her long enough to name the thing she'd been carrying as personality and call it what it actually was:

A PATTERN with an origin ... And a way out.

90 minutes. Online or in person.

DM me RECLAIM. Healing is a homecoming and this is where it starts.

27/05/2026

"I'm just an overthinker."

She says it like a personality trait. Like it's always been there. But she wasn't born this way. She became this way.

The noise has been making decisions for her. And she's been calling it her personality.

The Identity Reclamation Session is built for the woman ready to find out who she is when the noise is no longer running the show.

DM me RECLAIM.

She's been running toward healinglike it's a finish line. I know because I was her. Tracking my progress ... comparing m...
25/05/2026

She's been running toward healing
like it's a finish line.

I know because I was her. Tracking my progress ... comparing my timeline to women who seemed further along. Gritting my teeth every time the same story showed up in a different face, a different season, wearing a different name but carrying the exact same wound.

I was so busy trying to fix my identity that I didn't see I was trying to build myself into something.Trying to become the version of me who finally had it together, who had healed enough, who was finally safe to love and be loved without all the noise.

But healing didn't want me to become someone new.

It wanted me back.

Back before the coping. Before the patterns. Before the protection I built so well I forgot it wasn't actually me.

Healing isn't forward. It's inward. It's homecoming.

DM me RECLAIM. The Identity Reclamation Session is where that journey home begins.
Not a sprint. A return.

22/05/2026

She's not a control freak. She's a woman whose nervous system learned that if she didn't manage everything, it would fall apart.

She's not a pushover. She's a woman whose nervous system learned that having preferences had consequences.

She's not closed off. She's a woman whose nervous system learned that opening up created risk.

Every pattern has an origin. Every origin made sense. And most of them are still running long after the thing they were protecting against
has passed.

The work isn't to dismantle the pattern. It's to find out when it was built, what it was built for and give the nervous system new evidence
that it no longer needs it.

That's what the Identity Reclamation Session does. In 90 minutes, online or in person.
DM me RECLAIM.

She didn't choose it.It was handed to her ... in a moment, an environment, a relationship, a childhood that asked too mu...
20/05/2026

She didn't choose it.

It was handed to her ... in a moment, an environment, a relationship, a childhood that asked too much of her before she had the resources to carry it.

And her nervous system, doing exactly what it's built to do, built a belief around it. To make sense of it. To survive it.

The belief became automatic. The belief became the filter. The belief became the identity.

I am not enough.
I am too much.
I must earn the right to be here.

You are not your beliefs. But your beliefs are running your life until you name them, locate them in the body, and do the work of releasing them where they live.

Not in your mind.
In your nervous system.

DM me RECLAIM. The Identity Reclamation Session is where this work begins.

You know the difference.The cry that left you exhausted and raw ... the kind where you're crying and crying and nothing ...
19/05/2026

You know the difference.

The cry that left you exhausted and raw ... the kind where you're crying and crying and nothing shifts, nothing moves, nothing actually goes.

And the other kind. The one where something in your chest finally loosens. Where your shoulders come down. Where the breath gets big and ragged and then ... something settles.

That second kind isn't just emotional release. That's your nervous system completing
what it was built to finish.

Stress creates activation in the body. The body needs a physical process to discharge it.

A cry that moves. A shaking that you let happen. A deep spontaneous exhale. A trembling you didn't try to stop.

Your body has been trying to do this every time you've told it to hold together.

Somatic movement is just giving it permission.

Save this if it named something. DM me MOVE if you want to know what that looks like in a session.

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Monday 09:00 - 13:00
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Tuesday 09:00 - 13:00
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Wednesday 09:00 - 13:00
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