Hendrien van der Bijl- Imago Relationship Therapy

Hendrien van der Bijl- Imago Relationship Therapy For couples who have done everything right, but marriage feels hard
Make your marriage alive again
3-Day Marriage Retreat | Free Clarity Call ↓

These are small things.Easy to miss. Easy to explain away.Everyone has phones.Everyone gets tired.Everyone has quiet nig...
18/08/2026

These are small things.
Easy to miss. Easy to explain away.

Everyone has phones.
Everyone gets tired.
Everyone has quiet nights.

But when these moments show up together,
over and over again,
something is happening.

No labels. No blame.
Just patterns worth noticing.

If you’re realizing there’s more distance than you want and you don’t want to wait until it’s too late, my couples intensive is designed for this exact moment.
Deep work. Focused time. Real change.

Just surviving your relationship is not the same as living it. If you are ready to make it feel alive again, comment START and I will send you the next step.

Nobody warns you about this kind of ending.There’s no fight. No betrayal. No dramatic moment you can point to and say *”...
08/08/2026

Nobody warns you about this kind of ending.

There’s no fight. No betrayal. No dramatic moment you can point to and say *”that’s when it broke.”*

Just two people who slowly stopped reaching for each other.

You still share a bed. A calendar. A bond over the kids. From the outside, everything looks fine. But inside, you feel like polite roommates managing a household and you can’t remember when you last felt chosen.

That ache you feel when you’re lying next to them, scrolling in silence? That’s not “just marriage.” That’s disconnection. And it’s quietly stealing something precious from both of you.

Here’s what I need you to hear: feeling this way doesn’t mean your marriage is over. It means it’s asking for attention.

Couples rebuild from this place every single day. But not by waiting for it to fix itself, silence has never healed a marriage.

If even one of these slides made your stomach drop, that’s your sign. Book a free Clarity Call (link in bio) 30 minutes, no pressure, just an honest conversation about where you are and how to find your way back to each other.

You started right. You can stay right. ❤️

Address

106 Shirley Avenue
Pretoria
0081

Opening Hours

Monday 09:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 09:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 09:00 - 17:00
Thursday 09:00 - 17:00
Friday 09:00 - 16:00

Telephone

+27836102892

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