01/10/2026
Maybe mental health isnโt always about asking:
โWhatโs wrong with me?โ
Maybe sometimes itโs worth asking:
โWhat else is there?โ
Because when weโre struggling, itโs very easy for the struggle to become the loudest part of the story.
Iโm anxious.
Iโm exhausted.
Iโm not coping.
Iโm too stressed.
Iโm not myself.
And before long, the problem can start sounding like the whole story.
But it isnโt.
There is usually more to us than the difficult thing weโre experiencing.
There are the things that bring us joy.
The people we love.
The music that moves us.
The things our bodies can do.
The moments we feel capable, curious, playful or completely ourselves.
The parts of us that keep showing up, even when things are hard.
Sometimes looking after our mental health can be about making a little more room for those parts of our story.
Moving to music.
Learning something new.
Laughing at ourselves.
Taking a breath.
Feeling our feet on the floor.
Resting without having to earn it.
Spending time with people who remind us who we are.
Not because these things magically make the difficult stuff disappear.
But because the difficult stuff doesnโt get to be the only story.
Thatโs something I love about both adult ballet and Restorative Motion.
In ballet, you get to be a beginner, a dancer, someone who remembers, someone who forgets, someone who gets it right, someone who absolutely does not. ๐ You get to concentrate, move, listen to music, connect with others and experience yourself doing something.
In Restorative Motion, there is space to slow down, breathe, notice and reconnect with your body.
Neither is therapy.
But both give us opportunities to experience ourselves in ways that have nothing to do with fixing what is wrong.
Because you are always more than the problem you happen to be carrying.
So this October, alongside asking โHow am I doing?โ, perhaps we can also ask:
"๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐?โ
And then perhaps go one step further:
โ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐, ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐?โ