21/08/2026
The Guilt of Single Mothers: Never Feeling Good Enough
Many single mothers carry a burden that few people ever notice—guilt.
Guilt for working long hours because the bills have to be paid. Guilt for missing a school event. Guilt for feeling tired at the end of the day. Guilt for losing patience. Even guilt for taking a few moments to care for themselves.
Over time, these quiet thoughts can become a constant companion, leaving many women wondering whether they are doing enough for their children.The truth is that children do not need perfect mothers. They need mothers who love them, who are present, who listen, and who continue showing up each day, even when life feels overwhelming. Love, consistency, and emotional connection will always matter more than perfection.
This Women's Month, I want every single mother to remember that your worth is not measured by how much you do, but by the love and commitment you give every single day. Be gentle with yourself. You are doing far better than you may believe.
💙 Read my latest blog, The Hidden Challenges of Being a Single Mother: You're Carrying More Than People See, on www.leonoradevilliers.co.za.