05/11/2026
You said yes to the year-end function weeks ago. Now it's close, and you're not so sure. It's one of the questions we get asked most at this time of year.
Here's the honest answer: you have two good options.
You can go, with a plan.
• Decide when you're arriving and when you're leaving
• Drive yourself, so you're never waiting for a lift
• Have your answer ready: "No thanks, I'm good"
• Keep a drink of your own in your hand
• Text someone you trust before you walk in, and again when you leave
Or you can change your mind. "Something's come up" is allowed. Protecting your recovery is something coming up.
Neither choice makes you weak. Both are you looking after yourself.
Got a question you've been wanting to ask? Send us a message. We'll answer honestly.